Lalas247:
Lefulefu can you imagine
Even my pant cost more but nice sha for ppl with low funds

folakemigeh:
U are a wicked someborry..


20K per month haaaaaa!!!!!!!!!

Maxvasia:
Very well said. But u see, hardship in Nigeria and Africa is a well known fact. But complicating it with Marriage and/or child bearing by one's self is called abysmal stupidity. Na u suffer pass? Must u suffer cos of ignorance, false and base values and subjectivity to societal expectations and norms?

Lalas247:

2 k for apartment which kin apartment be dat o
Kai
But this is just too low .. really low .. how much was her dress for hen party bridal shower .. kolewerk rara

15 children earning 20k a month Lefulefu just slice my neck biko .. weak

GMBuhari:



Exactly they all want to be with made man most irritatingly when they are they still look for another made man, no woman is ever satisfied with one man and if you investigate these slay Queens are the ones whose parents are on pension their pocket money from home is 3k after food stuffs but they want to live the life


And further more they don't like to work for money

askseunoladele:
HOW TO GET MARRIED ON A 20K SALARY!

If age is no longer on your side, you have found the woman you want to marry but your salary is the barrier between you and your marital promised land, you earn 20k or a little more per month, your sexual urge is getting uncontrollable, you are over 30 and your fiancee wouldn't mind settling down with you, here is the practical way to survive on a 20k salary!

1. Pay your tithe 10%

2. Save 10%

3. Get a room apartment where you will not be paying more than 2k per month.

4. With neighbours, your NEPA bill should not be more than #500:00.

5. Feeding for both you and wife not more than 10k. Always buy your foodstuff in bulk every month, you will save lots of money.

6. Keep 10% for emergencies, that is 2k.

7. The remaining #1,500 will be shared between you and your wife as pocket money. You 1k, wife, #500.

Now listen: you can only do this on the conditions given below:

1. Your wife will get a job to assist you financially so that both of you will put money together to start a business, look for a higher paying job or run your vision that will yield profits, enlarge you and move to a higher level of comfort and wealth. Discuss this thoroughly in courtship and ensures she agrees. That is what courtship is about: to discuss your future and see if you can walk together (Amos 3:3).

2. No baby for the first 2 years while you both work harder and get something better or extra doing to cater for the baby. Discuss this thoroughly. Visit a family planning clinic and get an advise on which family planning method will work for you. Withdrawal sometimes fail and calculating the ovulation period is not completely reliable but if she is very diligent, can consistently monitor her ovulation, you may take the risk but combining with CD is better (I'm talking to mature adults here).

3. There will be pressure from your family especially your mother for her to get pregnant. Stand up for her, shield her, be a man and let your mum know that for personal reasons, it's your decision for her to delay pregnancy. Marriage is for mature men and women, not for boys and girls. You should be responsible and have the final say in your marriage. Your decisions are between you and your wife, whatever anyone else says is secondary! Protect her from your family, stand up for her!

4. Pray diligently and consistently for God to enlarge you.

5. Map out practical plans for you to achieve your dreams.

6. Have the faith that can move mountains! The Bishop Oyedepo and Fela Durotoye's type of faith: These men had almost nothing when they started but their wives were working and assisted them till they broke through.

You can make it before you get married. You don't have to get married on a salary of 20k. The Lord can surprise you with a better job, profitable business or great contracts before you marry, if not yet then don't wait till you are in your 50s before you settle down.

"Two are better than one..." is what the Holy Book says. With your wife's full support and strong faith in you, you will break through the ceiling of limitation and emerge into your glorious destiny. FEEL FREE TO SHARE. God bless you, cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2017.
www.askseunoladele..com

Lalas247:
Lefulefu can you imagine
Even my pant cost more but nice sha for ppl with low funds

cuteguy123:


Your own is just to comment rubbish

dangotesmummy:
no mind am.I don't know what's with Nigerians and misplacement of priorities. Is marriage an investment or achievement?if he doesn't have poverty of the mind is he not supposed to be asking questions like what kind of business or career goals can I invest 20k on that will yield benefits or multiply my income.

Marriage is a liability that you cannot venture into if you're not standing well financially the winds of life will blow you and your marriage away .for men it takes away their finances,time freedom space privacy quiet time to think and meditate

Stellie:
hmmm comments above me tho...
Thumbs up op.. D bitter truth is most people who earn dis amount and even less, already hav a family... Som r even dying to hav dis almount of salary..
Hmm lyf isnt a bed of roses.. Somtyms we need to visit ghetto and see hard lyf... Hmm nice write up op.. To dat oga sayin nice piece of bullshit hmmm i cn only smh....

Kaybaba5:
these people are just saying trash, if you mistakenly impregnate one girl and the the girl refuses abortion. nobody will tell you how you will manage that your 20k salary........

i support the op

Kaybaba5:
these people are just saying trash, if you mistakenly impregnate one girl and the the girl refuses abortion. nobody will tell you how you will manage that your 20k salary........

i support the op

askseunoladele:
HOW TO GET MARRIED ON A 20K SALARY!

If age is no longer on your side, you have found the woman you want to marry but your salary is the barrier between you and your marital promised land, you earn 20k or a little more per month, your sexual urge is getting uncontrollable, you are over 30 and your fiancee wouldn't mind settling down with you, here is the practical way to survive on a 20k salary!

1. Pay your tithe 10%

2. Save 10%

3. Get a room apartment where you will not be paying more than 2k per month.

4. With neighbours, your NEPA bill should not be more than #500:00.

5. Feeding for both you and wife not more than 10k. Always buy your foodstuff in bulk every month, you will save lots of money.

6. Keep 10% for emergencies, that is 2k.

7. The remaining #1,500 will be shared between you and your wife as pocket money. You 1k, wife, #500.

Now listen: you can only do this on the conditions given below:

1. Your wife will get a job to assist you financially so that both of you will put money together to start a business, look for a higher paying job or run your vision that will yield profits, enlarge you and move to a higher level of comfort and wealth. Discuss this thoroughly in courtship and ensures she agrees. That is what courtship is about: to discuss your future and see if you can walk together (Amos 3:3).

2. No baby for the first 2 years while you both work harder and get something better or extra doing to cater for the baby. Discuss this thoroughly. Visit a family planning clinic and get an advise on which family planning method will work for you. Withdrawal sometimes fail and calculating the ovulation period is not completely reliable but if she is very diligent, can consistently monitor her ovulation, you may take the risk but combining with CD is better (I'm talking to mature adults here).

3. There will be pressure from your family especially your mother for her to get pregnant. Stand up for her, shield her, be a man and let your mum know that for personal reasons, it's your decision for her to delay pregnancy. Marriage is for mature men and women, not for boys and girls. You should be responsible and have the final say in your marriage. Your decisions are between you and your wife, whatever anyone else says is secondary! Protect her from your family, stand up for her!

4. Pray diligently and consistently for God to enlarge you.

5. Map out practical plans for you to achieve your dreams.

6. Have the faith that can move mountains! The Bishop Oyedepo and Fela Durotoye's type of faith: These men had almost nothing when they started but their wives were working and assisted them till they broke through.

You can make it before you get married. You don't have to get married on a salary of 20k. The Lord can surprise you with a better job, profitable business or great contracts before you marry, if not yet then don't wait till you are in your 50s before you settle down.

"Two are better than one..." is what the Holy Book says. With your wife's full support and strong faith in you, you will break through the ceiling of limitation and emerge into your glorious destiny. FEEL FREE TO SHARE. God bless you, cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2017.
www.askseunoladele..com

gentle136:
He is not wicked but heartless. I understand ur pain

Lalas247:
Lefulefu can you imagine
Even my pant cost more but nice sha for ppl with low funds

Maxvasia:
Very well said. But u see, hardship in Nigeria and Africa is a well known fact. But complicating it with Marriage and/or child bearing by one's self is called abysmal stupidity. Na u suffer pass? Must u suffer cos of ignorance, false and base values and subjectivity to societal expectations and norms?

Franchise21:
How much is ur pant?

Lalas247:
Lefulefu can you imagine
Even my pant cost more but nice sha for ppl with low funds

Stellie:
yeah i understnd.. Most of dem dont actually get married tho. Dy just impregnate a gal and befor u know family don start... All am sayin is dat there r alot of piple wit a family, earnin dis amount of money and even less...dy reali need to see dis write up . In order to know how to manage their family... So thumbs up op

vislabraye:

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The Op did not factor in transportation.
This post is unrealistic although the Op means well. 30k a month is not enough for me talk less of 20k for a family. Na suffer head be dat. Abi which house person fir rent with 20k a month you come talk say make him pay tithe.

Gerrard59:
The thread is an example of how we keep perpetuating poverty in Africa. Unfortunately, my generation seems to be repeating mistakes made by previous generations even with all channels of information and higher education attainment.

20K? Marriage? C'mon!!!!




Then do not have sex or practise safe sex. It's that simple!

Maxvasia:
Thank you very much. These people forget that life is not telemundo. How often do we even practice what we preach? 20k a month and the first thing u think of is marriage cos "age is not on ur side" .

dangotesmummy:
I'm telling you.I remember a young up coming dude that used to sell kerosene in My street.the guy was able to make a name and small change from his business, the next thing was that his neighbors began to pressurize him that he has made enough money and he is old enough to marry.this boy was just 29 without university education but just started springing up.the boy said he doesn't have money for wedding, can you believe this same people who didn't have money to give him to support his business gave him money to support his owanmbe wedding. After the wedding and he started paying heavy bills to hold himself and his marriage together, all the people pressurizing him and contributed money for his wedding faced their front and pretended as if he doesn't exists

My pastor referred to them as terminators of glorious destinies only if the boy had waited 3-5 more years to be properly established and expanded his business he won't be living in self inflicted penury

supersystemsng:


20k for marriage. then kids eat biscuit in the afternoon and evening. mother breastfeeds just one or twice daily cause the breast can't produce milk. and the guy sits down all day at home cause there's no money to take a bus out to look for opportunities..well done eh..Let's stop celebrating mediocrity. Marry on less than 100K monthly then you're in for it. Go ask people earning around 60k per month how patching up the marriage is, let alone 20k