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Which Way Do I Go by knax: 4:57pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Hey guys... so there is this girl (if u read my former thread,u'd get d full gist) that I'm kinda dating.let me just recap a little.here it goes... we were friends,i disvirgined her..we continued having sex and after some time I officially asked her out before she travelled home for the holidays and we kissed. I'm a geek (medical student)..and I kinda read a lot,I wear glasses sha and I'm cute (at least that's what I'm told). back to d main topic,after defining my relationship with her..we kissed and then she travelled home.we started texting each other alot (she is not on social media,her choice). we text mainly at night.during one of our texting spree,I told her "it's a Sunday and u re sexting ur boyfriend(me)" and she was like "boyfriend??,i don't remember saying yes to u". And then I replied.."I don't remember asking" and she was like "oh,it's true". I did finally ask her sha...and nd she was like.."girlfriend sounds dumb and is too cliché "..well suffice it sure that we still haven't picked a name for what we are.. ...Now comes d tough part..I decided to text her some beautiful pickup lines..like this one for instance.."you know what's beautiful?read the first word".. and you won't believe it..her reply was "where did u get it from??..WhatsApp status??instagram??"..to be honest..i did pick it up from d net sha.. my point is I'm not exactly d romantic guy and I can be pretty much aloof(was what ruined my former relationship)...but I'm trying to be with this girl and she is just...I don't know what to call it.. I thought girls love romantic stuffs..well this one keeps giving me replies like.."U re creeping me out with this stuff".."that is too cheesy".."someone is in a good mood"..whenever I try to be romantic.. should I stop it with all d romance stuff and go back to being me (God knows I want to)...or is she just testing me??..I really suck at girls stuff.You shoulda seen me when I was Tryna define what we have...I bleeped up alot and spewed some incoherent trashy stuff and she just kept on laughing.. |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Nobody: 5:00pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Maybe she want u to level up...make it rough & nasty approach U will see.. |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Nobody: 5:05pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Be straightforward with her. The reason she's reacting the way she is doing is because she isn't really sure of your true intentions towards her because you are being more allusive than direct. Be confident and tell her exactly how you feel about her. And try to minimize doing it through texting. Tell her directly. Be specific and be more expressive. Stop borrowing and utilizing pick up lines. It's cheesy and it appears fake. No line would express your feelings better your own words. Let her know you are actually SERIOUS about wanting to begin an actual serious relationship with her. |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Nobody: 5:09pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
show me a pix of ur cute self,anyways just be urself for sometime & forget d romantic issh,define d relationship so u wont be kiss-zone |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by ikp120(m): 5:10pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
This is what you get when you try to switch. |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by mofeoluwadassah: 5:13pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
she no say guys and sweet words wen they want to bleep a girl be like monkey&banana |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Nobody: 5:21pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
mofeoluwadassah: but they've already fvcked themselves na he even deflowered her and i think he said they've even done anal anyways op be urself abeg............if you self doesnt work for her then be buhari. Thats should do |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Lewaluv(f): 5:22pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Just be yourself. Sounds like she sees right through your antics to be Mr. Romeo lover boy. |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by mofeoluwadassah: 5:31pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
thepussyhunter:even if they av done all the sex styles,some guys still wants more and will say anything to finish the girl finally |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Nobody: 5:49pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
mofeoluwadassah: hahaha finish dem finally what is dere to finish when kitten and asshole have been destroyed already Anyways issoraite............ |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by knax: 6:08pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Lewaluv: lolz. I'm not lover boy oo.I'm just tryna be one |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by knax: 6:09pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Preetiex: well,maybe if u dm or pm me (dunno how dt shii works)..I'll show u |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Nobody: 6:17pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
knax:i pm u now send me ur pix |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Nobody: 6:20pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
mofeoluwadassah:lmaooo,he wants to finish d creamie in d pussay |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by knax: 6:25pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Preetiex:I've replied you |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Nobody: 6:35pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
knax:reply |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Nobody: 6:36pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Oh, I picked up the line where you asked if you should get back to being you. My answer: Hell yes! This whole romantic thing isn't you, right? So go back to being the aloof, annoying Human that you comfortably are. My advice: Treat her as you would want to be treated (No matter who you chose to be). |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by knax: 6:43pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
iamadonis2: thanks man..appreciate |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Stevengerd(m): 8:45pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
mofeoluwadassah:Hmm! U must be speaking frm experience tho! |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Dillusionist(m): 8:51pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
seriously op,you need a resounding slap...will you go and face your studies..mtchew |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Lalas247(f): 8:55pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
So you think that is what you call romance .... poor girl Read below! To the left, to the left To the left, to the left To the left, to the left Everything you own in the box to the left In the closet that's my stuff, yes If I bought it please don't touch.... You know the rest |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by crismark(m): 8:57pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Dillusionist:Easy na
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Re: Which Way Do I Go by knax: 10:15pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Dillusionist: who is dis one??..is ur brain paining u??..aunty pls carry ur old haggard ass and sit over there..yep,just beside the septogenerians..sit amongst ur people 1 Like |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by knax: 10:21pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Lalas247: no..I don't know d rest..and no,no "poor girl".. I don't know whever u typed there..wasn't born when that stuff was sang..but u were apparently,little wonder u re "irreplaceable"..u are an antique..albeit one that we have no use for.. aunty if u have advice give..if not..just shut up and go |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by Windflower(f): 11:25pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
Just try and be observant,study her to know what she likes and dislikes. From my own view,I would say she is afraid of being committed. Throughout my stay in the university, I was never committed to any relationship because I heard stories about school love ending at the school gate and I didn't want that, some ladies have this great phobia for commitment, so don't rush her,just let things flow naturally. Make her feel very comfortable with you before making any future plans else you might just spook her and she had just freak out. |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by knax: 6:41am On Aug 24, 2017 |
Windflower: thanks a lot..I think u might be right..I do have the commitment phobia too.I'll watch it |
Re: Which Way Do I Go by OAFMods: 7:10am On Aug 24, 2017 |
knax:You no get sense na to walk up to a girl tell her you like her a lot and like a relationship with her is all you can not learn or do with your Mr geeky self. I pity you, a yes or no answer is the only thing that will suffice and you should expect either. If you like fine girl all you need do is ask as many fine girl the same question and you get lucky trying. The more you try the more you get to block your lapses and become a pro till no girl can say no to you. |
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