Was just surfing through Linda Ikeji blog, I came across this post but still thinking what was actually meant by this statement, so please my fellow NL look into this issue.

See Linda response......
All these pastors and their theories. Lol. That's not being irresponsible...everyone's time is different. Some just haven't found what they are looking for...some just don't want to settle and some just haven't been lucky in love! Anyone agrees with the pastor?

I totally agree with Pastor IB, no girl no matter how she looks or her state would say she never get toaster(s) in her life that she despised at one time or another.

IBpaul:
Was just surfing through Linda Ikeji blog, I came across this post but still thinking what was actually meant by this statement, so please my fellow NL look into this issue.

See Linda response......
All these pastors and their theories. Lol. That's not being irresponsible...everyone's time is different. Some just haven't found what they are looking for...some just don't want to settle and some just haven't been lucky in love! Anyone agrees with the pastor?

Well I think he is right.. I mean, in the days of old, people didn't have to wait till they have riches in order to marry.


But society has so made it difficult for we youths to just marry without sentiments.


As I dey so now I don reach to marry o... But wife wey Go manage with me dey hard to find.

Seun
Lalasticlala
make una help push to d right place for more clarification.

http://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2017/8/lol-this-pastor-said-any-person-still-single-at-35-is-an-irresponsible-person.html

Who is he?

lyrically the pastor has officially label genevieve nnaji, rita dominic,don jazzy, as irresponsible elements to joined the political irresponsible in persons of ffk,fayose,nnamdi cownu

Pusyiter:
I totally agree with Pastor IB, no girl no matter how she looks or her state would say she never get toaster(s) in her life that she despised at one time or another.

Are you insinuating that every "toaster" abi "toastee" must be real or actualized under the age in question??

As I dey so now I don reach to marry o... But wife wey Go manage with me dey hard to find.[/quote]

Are u now irresponsible??

Pastor Ibiyeomie, kindly follow https://www.nairaland.com/4010382/where-buy-sense

Or yet still...

The truth remains, what is meant for us most times, we despise either because we are unaware or because we are carried away. God created every woman/man for man/woman but we tend to miss out because of our selfish aggrandizement to our detriment.

IBpaul:


Are you insinuating that every "toaster" abi "toastee" must be real or actualized under the age in question??

Pusyiter:
The truth remains, what is meant for us most times, we despise either because we are unaware or because we are carried away. God created every woman/man for man/woman but we tend to miss out because of our selfish aggrandizement to our detriment.

Not disputing ur point, but my unclearness here is his statement.

Does it portray one marrying whomever comes his/her way without proper direction

dingbang:
Well I think he is right.. I mean, in the days of old, people didn't have to wait till they have riches in order to marry.


But society has so made it difficult for we youths to just marry without sentiments.


As I dey so now I don reach to marry o... But wife wey Go manage with me dey hard to find.

Depending on the 'kind of manage' there is a kind of 'manage' DAT is not enuf for marriage....

BTW u can't advice ur sister to be with a dude can't feel himself well let alone 2.

Note: this is not being selfish or a gold digger, dis is just being smart abt ur future n the unborn kids. Besides if the dude is too broke y don't u date him till he is less broke n can raise a family then marry ??.... If the guy refuse to hustle make him go rest na. My advice to ladies

The pastor is not entirely correct....

mimopel:


Depending on the 'kind of manage' there is a kind of 'manage' DAT is not enuf for marriage....

BTW u can't advice ur sister to be with a dude can't feel himself well let alone 2.

Note: this is not being selfish or a gold digger, dis is just being smart abt ur future n the unborn kids. Besides if the dude is too broke y don't u date him till he is less broke n can raise a family then marry ??.... If the guy refuse to hustle make him go rest na. My advice to ladies

do u have to wait till you are paid 500k before you'll get married? I have a cleaner here working in my branch who is paid less than 30k and he is already married. And I am here paid way much Dan he is yet I still want to wait because d society thinks one has to have so much

dingbang:
do u have to wait till you are paid 500k before you'll get married? I have a cleaner here working in my branch who is paid less than 30k and he is already married. And I am here paid way much Dan he is yet I still want to wait because d society thinks one has to have so much

marriage is not for every one.. Did the so called pastor consider that @ all?

dingbang:
do u have to wait till you are paid 500k before you'll get married? I have a cleaner here working in my branch who is paid less than 30k and he is already married. And I am here paid way much Dan he is yet I still want to wait because d society thinks one has to have so much

You don't get my point do u??...if u read my message well u will see clearly DAT am not against a lady getting married to a guy who is 'managing' I for one can do it.
But it also depends on the kind of manage...if the guy is lazy n extremely poor then we cant get married pls let's put sentiment aside. u need money to make marriage sweet not just love alone. Do u forget kids??...kids stuff are very expensive u know??....especially wen u have more Dan one.

My point exactly is there is a kind of financial level a guy will be and instead of marrying him I with build with him first before we get married, If I see the right potentials in him. But if he is lazy n not ready to work.. Den I can't even involve myself with such a guy cos it will be a waste of my precious time.

I don't see anything starting with a guy who is serious with life. But a lazy ass dude mehn....c'mon u won't advice ur sis to go out with him will u??

U get my point now right??...if u don't den am not explaining again.

Besides 30k can become 30million in the hand of an entrepreneur... So I don't underestimate potentials in people

BTW u choose to wait because u choose to. The society don't define who u are. U have right to whatever choice u choose to make. Besides, stop comparing oldies to this new age...the price of food is not the same, the cost of living is not the same. In short everything is not the same again.

How old was Jesus when he died?
Was he planning to get married soon?
Is marriage a criteria to make heaven?

Please everyone has got a different call in life

When the so call men of God does not have a any new thing to preach from the bible they will resort to negative personal assertion that does not make sense just like Pastor Chris of Christ Embassy who woke up one morning and said masturbation is not a sin and same thing applied to Daddy G.O. of RCCG who also woke up one morning and said woman should not marry any man who does not have a job and also men should not marry any woman who does not know how to cook.

Very poor mentality.

When will some people learn that everyone will do things at their right time?