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Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by smemud(m): 10:49am On Aug 26, 2017
Showing all the trappings of a young adult, one would need more than just words to believe that Funke (surname withheld) is just eight years old.

  At her age, she already developed breasts, one of the primary indicators of puberty in females. And the way other parts are growing very rapidly would almost give an impression that she’s someone in her early 20s.

But, truly, Funke is eight, according to her dad, who also expressed surprise with the way she’s ‘growing’, and is now unsettled due to the girl’s likely premature sexual attention from men. He is equally unsure if the situation is normal, more so that she has also started menstruating. The medical term for early puberty is called precocious puberty.

Realistically, Funke is not alone and her father’s fear is quite understandable. In fact, her case is a fitting reflection of what now obtains across the world, whereby young girls now show obvious signs of reaching puberty, as against what obtained in the past, say about 20 years ago, when girls wouldn’t exhibit any sign of puberty until about 15 years upwards.

Meanwhile, other indicators of puberty include underarm hair, certain body odour, since the sweat gland would have become active, pubic hair and vaginal discharge, which is a precursor of menarche, the first occurrence of menstruation. All these are now happening to girls below 12, and according to a study published in Paediatrics as far back as 2010, a number of the girls surveyed had reached puberty as early as seven years, evidenced by breast development.

According to a consultant paediatrician, Dr. Rotimi Adesanya, the average age a girl is supposed to attain puberty is 11, but “these days some of them show those signs at age eight.”

However, there are reasons for this early puberty, and it is pertinent to point them out, perhaps to allay the fears of such parents. These reasons include:

Obesity: Literally, obesity is caused by eating too much and moving too little. Thus, if you consume a high quantity of food, particularly fat and sugar, and you don’t burn off the energy through exercise and physical activity, much of the surplus energy will be stored by the body as fat and that leads to overweight or obesity. This was the explanation given by the National Health Service in the United Kingdom. While it is seen as a general problem, obesity has been found to be a major cause of early puberty, especially in girls. Dr. Adesanya explained that girls now reach puberty early because they eat junk food, snacks, oily food, etc., without doing exercises. He said these days; children would rather play computer games or play games on their parents’ or siblings’ smartphones rather than go out to do exercise. Thus, that lifestyle of eating without exercising has led to obesity and now makes them to reach puberty early. He said, “Obesity has strong links with precocious puberty and what favours it is the diet and sedentary lifestyle. Children no longer do exercises; they don’t trek to their school the way we did back then, which helped us to burn fat from our body. So, that is one major cause of early puberty.”

Stress: This is one other factor that has been found to aid early puberty in girls. Adesanya explained that traumatic experiences and emotional problems impact on the female reproductive system. He said this had to do with the interconnection among the brain, emotions and the reproductive system, like the hormones controlling breast growth and menstruation. “Children that go through a traumatic experience or emotional problems may see their period earlier, even though the impact is not as high as that of obesity. Also, a study by a professor of family studies and human development, Bruce Ellis, and Prof. Marilyn Essex of the University of Wisconsin found that family conflict could influence how early or late girls attain puberty. In the study, which was reviewed on WebMD, a website that provides valuable health information and tools for managing health, they asked the parents of the girls about their economic difficulty, marital problems, parenting style and family stress. It was revealed that girls who live in families with great parental support and less marital conflict experience their first hormonal changes later in life than girls who live in homes where there are marital conflict, family issues, poor parent support, depressed parents and other such unpleasant issues. These were identified to be associated with puberty. “Even modest family conflict or stress may influence a young girl’s sexual development and these were the normal stresses of growing up, not serious abuses,” Essex tells WebMD.

Now that it is almost inevitable for children to reach puberty early, because children from the rich or average income earning homes are likely to eat so much or even eat junk food, those from poor homes could be stressed emotionally, and those from either divide could come from home with family issues, girls who show signs of puberty should not be treated as aliens.

This development has no doubt made them endangered species, given the rate of rape and sexual abuse, but parents have been advised to pay more attention to their young female children, because their changing physique could make them attractive to the males, even when they are not mature enough to refuse such (negative) gestures.

An endocrinologist, Dr. Glenn Braunstein, said open communication, nurture, and knowledge of the child’s activities would be good ways to prevent the child from getting into such avoidable troubles. In his analysis on Huffpost, Braunstein said whether puberty arrives early or later at the more expected time, it is always a challenge for children, especially girls and that it was up to parents, guardians and older siblings to help them to be the finest men and women possible, by assisting them through that stage.

He added, “Parental nurture, generally considered a key factor in curbing risk-taking, may be even more important for early-maturing girls. The thinking is that parental influence can help decrease these youngsters’ susceptibility to peer influence, assist them in developing better coping skills and diffuse negative feelings that might turn into negative thoughts and actions.”

Another solution advanced is sex education, which according to experts, will prepare the girls for the change that is to come and what to do when it comes eventually. However, the experts stressed that one way to make this effective is for parents to encourage their children to communicate freely with them.

A consultant paediatric endocrinologist, Dr. Elizabeth Oyenusi, had said at age eight, a female child should be taught about sex, so they don’t learn about it from outside or do so the hard way.

She had said, “Whether for a male or female child, once they clock eight years, parents should talk to them about sex, and there is no need to use nicknames or graphics, more so that such children are exposed to different images on the television or even the Internet. A girl is ready for such education when her breasts begin to come out or when she clocks eight.”

Apart from this, parents are advised to teach their children when to say no, and that in certain (identified) situations, it is okay to say no to an adult. It has also been found to be helpful when children are taught where they should not be touched by others; how to get out of an uncomfortable situation and what to do if the adult wouldn’t let go.

A forensic psychologist and expert in the field of mental health, violence, mental health and addiction, Dr. Kathryn Seifert, in his post on Psychology Today, noted that given the way young girls tend to be susceptible to male attention, even at that young age – since they already show signs of puberty – highlighted ways by which parents could avoid such negative occurrences from happening to their children.

She said parents must encourage their kids to talk to them about how their day went, teach them when to run away from an adult, take action and let them see their parents take action when they make reports, which she said would build their confidence level.

She added, “Teach children that the danger may come from someone they trust. Tell your kids that bad touch is bad touch and no one gets to do it to our bodies. If anyone does bad touch, you go to a grown-up for help. When you are not sure about whether something a grown up is doing is okay, ask another grown up to help you.

“Also, take action if you suspect abuse; understand the signs, such as significant changes in sleeping, eating, mood, or strange behaviour that does not quickly go away; and know where your children are and who they are with at all times.”
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Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by HealthNBeauty: 10:50am On Aug 26, 2017
This is too long ooo
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:57am On Aug 26, 2017
someone pls read that long aasss post and summarize for us...

but generally, the reason why so many are reaching puberty early is down to genetics, AND/OR the garbage food we eat every day (full of hormones and steroid etc) so the human body reacts to the garbage in our system. but let us not forget that A) girls are 10 times more like to get early puberty than boys. and B) it has been proven that black people are more likely to get early puberty than other races (and nobody knows why).
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Lalas247(f): 12:02pm On Aug 26, 2017
On a Saturday after hangover
You expect ppl to read that whole essay on puberty grin u no well o

When u ready to summarise we go give u better response

Anyone who reads that no get work grin no quote me o

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Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by slayking(m): 12:16pm On Aug 26, 2017
Lalas247:


On a Saturday after hangover
You expect ppl to read that whole essay on puberty grin u no well o

When u ready to summarise we go give u better response

Anyone who reads that no get work grin no quote me o

Hang over kwa! grin


Didd you club or party last night?
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Lalas247(f): 12:17pm On Aug 26, 2017
slayking:


Hang over kwa! grin


Didd you club or party last night?
For my house by myself grin with a cup tea dear
E no easy
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by slayking(m): 12:24pm On Aug 26, 2017
Lalas247:
For my house by myself grin with a cup tea dear E no easy
Don't tell me you don't do night outs. Abeg no fall my hand o!
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Lalas247(f): 12:31pm On Aug 26, 2017
slayking:


Don't tell me you don't do night outs. Abeg no fall my hand o!
I hardly do only if it's like a friend's birthday .. girlie night stuff
But hardly do lately
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by slayking(m): 12:46pm On Aug 26, 2017
Lalas247:
I hardly do only if it's like a friend's birthday .. girlie night stuff But hardly do lately
So you're a mommy's geh...grin
There nothing wrong with being one btw. cheesy

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Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Lalas247(f): 1:10pm On Aug 26, 2017
slayking:


So you're a mommy's geh...grin

There nothing wrong with being one btw. cheesy
Ok
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by shinarlaura(f): 1:28pm On Aug 26, 2017
Lalas247:


On a Saturday after hangover
You expect ppl to read that whole essay on puberty grin u no well o

When u ready to summarise we go give u better response

Anyone who reads that no get work grin no quote me o

grin grin
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Nobody: 1:33pm On Aug 26, 2017
Why do some girls look 30 when they are just 20?

Aging so fast.

They think it's a good thing, till they see their mate in the next ten years and they be looking old when compared to their mates.

Also why do some women age so fast?
You see a woman looking older than her husband.
Not even funny.
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by slayking(m): 1:37pm On Aug 26, 2017
Lalas247:
Ok
#Xtreme curves. grin
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Pusyiter(m): 3:06pm On Aug 26, 2017
I no get time to read this thing because e too long. However, when you do things and know things you were not suppose to do and know at your age, you will get things you were not suppose to get at that age.
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Pusyiter(m): 3:09pm On Aug 26, 2017
you spoke my mind dear....wondering
Rorachy:
Why do some girls look 30 when they are just 20?

Aging so fast.

They think it's a good thing, till they see their mate in the next ten years and they be looking old when compared to their mates.

Also why do some women age so fast?
You see a woman looking older than her husband.
Not even funny.
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Nobody: 3:11pm On Aug 26, 2017
Pusyiter:
you spoke my mind dear....wondering
That's why you should marry a lady you senior with at least 10years, so that in the next few years, she won't be looking like your aunty.

Childbirth and stuff make women age faster.
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Nobody: 3:14pm On Aug 26, 2017
smemud to be very honest with you this has been my observation too. Infact i had to look out for a family member of a 9 year old girl whose curves, boobs, hips, back side will challenge so many grown up women. SHE IS JUST NINE YEARS OLD WITH A BODY OF A GROWN UP WOMAN. Her aunty who i had to advice to keep a good watch over her and make her understand the bounderies not to be crossed educate her about PERVETS all around has not a quarter of what this girl has. AND THERE ARE SO MANY OF THEM LIKE THAT THIS DAYS. And in this age of pornography every where and no topic except SEX..............i feel alot of PITY for these young girls whose body structures have grown so faster than their mental and could easily be lured. Its a nice write up. IMPORTANT THINGS are not taken seriously. Dont feel discouraged those who care will read. Its really all about choice.

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Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Pusyiter(m): 3:21pm On Aug 26, 2017
even at that, a woman will still age faster
Rorachy:
That's why you should marry a lady you senior with at least 10years, so that in the next few years, she won't be looking like your aunty.

Childbirth and stuff make women age faster.
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Nobody: 3:23pm On Aug 26, 2017
Pusyiter:
even at that, a woman will still age faster
Well its true but not all sha, I don't think I will age faster. I look 16 but am 20+.
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by dahreyM: 3:45pm On Aug 26, 2017
Rorachy:
Well its true but not all sha, I don't think I will age faster. I look 16 but am 20+.




lies. you look your age joorhcheesy.
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Nobody: 3:50pm On Aug 26, 2017
dahreyM:





lies. you look your age joorhcheesy.
Lie lie Linus. Something that people do tell me every time, maybe it's my body that looks 16grin.
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by dahreyM: 3:52pm On Aug 26, 2017
Rorachy:
Lie lie Linus. Something that people do tell me every time, maybe it's my body that looks 16grin.



buh you fine sha, make i no liecheesy.




you mind pm?cheesy.
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Nobody: 3:56pm On Aug 26, 2017
dahreyM:



buh you fine sha, make i no liecheesy.



you mind pm?cheesy.
Thanks.
My email is not working at the moment tongue.
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by dahreyM: 4:00pm On Aug 26, 2017
Rorachy:
Thanks.

My email is not working at the moment tongue.



another liecheesy. it's all good. you know what? na your number i wan collectcheesy. just follow me back then send your number via nairaland, i will receive it in my mail.
Re: Why Girls Now Reach Puberty Early by Pusyiter(m): 9:41pm On Aug 27, 2017
Apart from your stature I suggest, you no dey do dats y grin
Rorachy:
Well its true but not all sha, I don't think I will age faster. I look 16 but am 20+.

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