WAR AGAINST MARITAL DELAY!!!

The ideal age for a lady to marry is 25 and men 27. That is IDEAL but the harsh economic reality in Nigeria is forcing men to marry in their late 30s, 40s and even 50s, while ladies are getting married in their 30s and above as well! Going to school late, no parental care, no mentorship and others contributed to this factor. At 51 as a lady and 53 as a man,you ought to have become a grandparent. Anything contrary to this is not God's plan for you.

Demonic oppression also stops people from getting married on time: generational curses, covenants with your ex-overs, soul-ties caused by pre-marital sex, parental curse,wrong confession with your own mouth etc.

Bad attitude, terrible flaws: hot temper, unforgiveness, laziness, selfishness, stubbornness, arrogance, etc may be killing your marital destiny!

Bad association may be delaying you as well. If you move with sadists who see nothing good about marriage, you will stay single for a long time!

Wage your war! Marital delay is not normal, it is not God's will for you! Unless you sincerely wants to marry late and it's understandable but if you deeply desire to get married on time, you are through with your education/training and can take care of someone else, yet all roads is closing up against you, you seriously need prayers!

Many singles today are so lazy spiritually! They are too lazy to pick their Bibles to read. Praying for even 5 minutes is a Herculean task talk less of 1 hour, yet the truth remains that, you are the one who will deliver yourself! You will have to lift your butt off your chair, arm yourself with the right knowledge/prayer points pertaining to your situation and wage your war! Men of God may pray for you but lasting victory comes from within! If your church does not believe in the problem you are going through, common sense requires you attend special programmes organized by other spirit led churches where they specifically deal with your problems.

You also need to read good books that boosts your faith and help you exercise your authority in Christ! Read THE TRIUMPHANT CHURCH by Kenneth Hagins and THE AUTHORITY OF THE BELIEVERS by same author!

Wage your war! Stop sitting by in depression hoping some Prince Charming will come and rescue you. If you do not deal with the spiritual road blocks, you will wait till forever!

Wage war against your weaknesses! Wage war against the hot temper, unforgiveness, laziness, selfishness, etc. Wage war against wrong friendship! Wage war against bad company!

If you do not deal with these obstacles, you may never ever get married!

May the eyes of your understanding be enlightened! May you receive inner strength and power to break free from the spiritual limitation delaying your marital destiny. You shall break free in Jesus' name. FEEL FREE TO SHARE. God bless you, cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2017.
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