Good evening,

I met this guy at a park while travelling to celebrate the festive season with my family. He was charming and funny all through our journey, so we exchanged numbers while we were about alighting from the bus and went our separate ways.

It was only a matter of days before he started calling and chatting me up as every normal dude would do after getting a woman's number. After a few weeks, he invited me over to his family house which I refused at first but after the bugging became too much, I accepted.

When I got there, the parents treated me well, she pounded yam and told me all that is needed to know about her family believe me, I felt welcomed and loved.

The problem now is that this dude in question has a lot of attributes I can't cope with, he's shorter than I am, fat, has big stomach, talks too much, whenever he talks spits forms at the sides of his lips, and the most annoying is that he ejaculates prematurely. I only agreed to date him out of pity and loneliness from my previous relationship breakup.

Along the line, I met a very handsome and caring corper like myself that I believe is just too perfect for me. He pleases me with everything and always put a smile on my face. He is tall, sexy and gentle. we have never had 10 minutes of fight and his next plan is to introduce me to his family immediately after school holidays (I am serving in a school).

To cut a long story short, I'm caught in between two worlds and really in need of advice. They both love me and want to be with me but I get scared of breaking people's heart, I know how it is and don't want to hurt people that way. What do I do?

Please keep me anonymous

http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details?id=4004

CC; Lalasticlala, Mynd44

Just kill yourself and rest in peace.

Follow your heart

I tot u r a guy.

hv u checked how long d latest guy last in bed? since its important to you.
u don't like d first one at all
even d second,
u r jus sentimental n kinda immature [img][/img]

I believe dat the drum made by God can neva tear, so share d national moi moi, & divide d national cake

U story for d gods is bias ND I don't think u gona get proper advice because d first guy u narrates both his good side ND bad side of him while d second u only succeeded in illustrating is good side, y. Let's know his bad side too so as to analyse ND bisect .

"He ejaculates prematurely..." you have gone that far? You are one already in spirit, carry your cross!

made-up story and you are even calling lalasticlala

its a good thing there is space to stay between the two worlds,,,,
















my advise is, stay between the two worlds

Mtcheeew Mumu!

Spits form at the side of his mouth ke

Choose the cute corper pls...

Follow ur heart.. Loving someone out of pity is a no no..

Confused

is this confusion or she just wants someone to okay her actions?

You are not confuse , you already know who you want, you just want us to confirm it to you. just the way you described the two men even a blind person knows which one you want , stop looking for validation and go with your heart and your head too

eezeribe:
Just kill yourself and rest in peace.

Chai savage

have u ever kissed him while the foam was spilling from his mouth?

Hahaha

Very Funny

egopersonified:
have u ever kissed him while the foam was spilling from his mouth?

eezeribe:
Just kill yourself and rest in peace.

lol bros you're wicked o

This first guy irretates you and that makes you uncomfortable,while the second guy have all you need.Go for the second guy because if you marry at of pity,you will suffer for it.So marry for love and comfort.Also marry a man you will be proud to show and tell people he is your husband.

The story looks stage to me but if it is true, you have already chosen who you want to date.

Happy dating with the sexy Corp member.

eezeribe:
Just kill yourself and rest in peace.

Oga u harsh o

I think for you to have accept your new lover boy"mr parfect"that is you aint really into the dude.Just move on with your corper guy but shine your eyes"not all glitters is gold".No perfection anywhere,we all have our flaws.

Choiszman:
Good evening,

I met this guy at a park while travelling to celebrate the festive season with my family. He was charming and funny all through our journey, so we exchanged numbers while we were about alighting from the bus and went our separate ways.

It was only a matter of days before he started calling and chatting me up as every normal dude would do after getting a woman's number. After a few weeks, he invited me over to his family house which I refused at first but after the bugging became too much, I accepted.

When I got there, the parents treated me well, she pounded yam and told me all that is needed to know about her family believe me, I felt welcomed and loved.

The problem now is that this dude in question has a lot of attributes I can't cope with, he's shorter than I am, fat, has big stomach, talks too much, whenever he talks spits forms at the sides of his lips, and the most annoying is that he ejaculates prematurely. I only agreed to date him out of pity and loneliness from my previous relationship breakup.

Along the line, I met a very handsome and caring corper like myself that I believe is just too perfect for me. He pleases me with everything and always put a smile on my face. He is tall, sexy and gentle. we have never had 10 minutes of fight and his next plan is to introduce me to his family immediately after school holidays (I am serving in a school).

To cut a long story short, I'm caught in between two worlds and really in need of advice. They both love me and want to be with me but I get scared of breaking people's heart, I know how it is and don't want to hurt people that way. What do I do?

Please keep me anonymous

http://m.af1234.com/Af1234/details?id=4004

CC; Lalasticlala, Mynd44

U can't marry out of pity, if u try it, u will live to regret it for the rest of ur life, and for the look of things u prefer the later, so gamble wit him.
Gudluck while trying ur luck.

op......i don't think you are in a conundrum....the way you described the first guy shows u clearly don't love him so......go with the second.....cus out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks