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Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by EfemenaXY: 9:48am On Sep 02, 2017 |
Ishilove: His choice of words are extremely judgemental and quite frankly, they rankle. He obviously isn't married and doesn't know the first thing about marriage - so he's in no position to school her on why she should get hitched. And yes, her marital status is definitely none of his business. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by EfemenaXY: 9:49am On Sep 02, 2017 |
baby124: Well said! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by Ishilove: 9:53am On Sep 02, 2017 |
EfemenaXY:I didn't perceive judgement in his tone. What I perceived was exasperation and resentment. Difficult siblings can drive you to the edge of psychosis, you know. Trust me, I speak from first hand experience ![]() |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by EfemenaXY: 10:00am On Sep 02, 2017 |
Mindfulness: Lol! Thanks. Yes, I should do as it's been a string of positive results over the last two weeks. Re: celebration - yes! But there's only so much one can celebrate na otherwise I'd go broke. ![]() Nonetheless, we're really chuffed. It's been an avalanche of positivity born from months of absolute dedication (and I daresay micromanagement - but that's me all over). Best holiday ever sis. ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by Nobody: 10:44am On Sep 02, 2017 |
EfemenaXY: My heart rejoices with you. I love good news and I love to see you happy and satisfied and proud and relaxed. ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by baby124: 2:04pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
EfemenaXY:Mena, how far? 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by Nobody: 7:06pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Daeylar: Well it's an issue for me because I love her and I can tell that she too isn't happy. It's telling on us guys because we want our sister to be settled. Despite all the things ladies here are saying, if all things were equal, by now she would have tied the knot. I'm just worried that's all. My immediate elder brother and I have even slowed down on anything called relationship for now so as not to put pressure on her or make her feel sad. I'm just worried that's all. |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by Nobody: 7:08pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
ImaIma1: Thank you very much. Every lady here seems to be attacking me as if I hate my own sister. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by Nobody: 7:09pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
1Sharon:Yes |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by Nobody: 7:11pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
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Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by Nobody: 7:12pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Thanks guys. Everyone though not all has been helpful. I've been able to get something from the advices and attacks. |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by Humanistme: 8:20pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Motuke01: does she have a job? |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by EfemenaXY: 10:42pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by loshybab(m): 11:11pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
Daeylar:Nah! being foolish is when you resort to using insulting words before you can drive your point. Lady! I'm still in the sweet Sallah mood pls and no one is gonna ruin that for me,not even you... so, just swerve,face front and keep moving. pele ooo! |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by loshybab(m): 11:15pm On Sep 02, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:An adult dt doesn't knw when to act and react,give marital life a chance..... is dt one even an Adult. mi o se pepefuru kankan-an ooo |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by dangotesmummy: 8:37am On Sep 03, 2017 |
loshybab:why is another person's matter paining you more than your own.awon agberu eleru sori,fatiwon dani.face your own front too because you have your own issues like every other person 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by Nobody: 8:45am On Sep 03, 2017 |
Motuke01: And what makes you think that a relationship will make her happy? Have you not seen unhappy relationships / marriages? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by loshybab(m): 1:56pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:....more than my own! that phrase from your statement is laughable. You would have seen me dealing with my own topic rather than posting on someone else's,if there was any aorta of truth in what you've written up there. if I had any issue to post on this platform, I'd appreciate if ur likes stay off it. thank you! |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by dangotesmummy: 2:10pm On Sep 03, 2017 |
loshybab:see this jester ![]() I'm referring to you and the likes of op who like to leave your own issues unattended to and now be pocknosing into other people's issues and be criticizing them based on their own marital status as if your life is all perfect and issue free 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by loshybab(m): 10:29am On Sep 04, 2017 |
dangotesmummy:You see wah I meant,can't pass a point without insulting.....kwantinu! I'm referring to you and the likes of op who like to leave your own issues unattended to and now be pocknosing into other people's issues and be criticizing them based on their own marital status as if your life is all perfect and issue free [/quote] nah! you're getting this misconstrued. the person the Op is referring to isnt just any person, she is his sister. Nkan to ba kan oju ti kan imu na |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by onyegwu(m): 2:33pm On Sep 04, 2017 |
Dcholeric:You said it all Brother. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Cope With An Unmarried Sibling. by dangotesmummy: 3:53pm On Sep 04, 2017 |
loshybab:*yawns* |
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