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For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by jeebeewell: 3:06pm On Feb 22, 2010 |
This lady is not yet married to this guy but she her started living in the guy's parent house. she now lives and acts as a wife to the guy even when nothing has been done as relating to marriage rites. Please, ladies in the house can you do this? I need your sincere contributions and advice. Thanks |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by isobel: 8:48pm On Feb 22, 2010 |
Never! dats so cheap. i guess the tot on the guy's mind is "why buy the cow if the milk is free". |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by Nobody: 12:11am On Feb 23, 2010 |
Never been a supporter of cohabitation edit lol parents' house? |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by agathamari(f): 12:14am On Feb 23, 2010 |
isobel:why buy the pig for just a little sausage? |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by H2O2: 12:17am On Feb 23, 2010 |
We never hear this one before, we are just using it to scare the sayer ![]() |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by Rehana2: 1:55am On Feb 23, 2010 |
I could not tolerate my adult sons/daughters bringing a 'partner' to live in my house, call me old fashioned. If they did want to have a prospective partner live with us for some reason, which would have to be good reason, ,I would want to know their parents and agree the arrangement, though they would have to be in separate rooms. |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by na2day2(m): 7:29am On Feb 24, 2010 |
hope she is paying rent ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
Such a lady is only fooling herself. |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
Trial Marriage- that is what it is called. MuMu girl. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by galatico(m): 1:21pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
That's share stupidity on the ladies part, she's so cheap, if my sister tries that well thank God they are married, I would have killed her . |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by iice(f): 5:55pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
Yes! ![]() |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by nana(f): 6:01pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
Not when there are still many rooms in my daddy's house. ![]() |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by puskin: 6:10pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
She ain't living with the guy in the parent' s permanently. . . . . . . .so wats the fuss!!!! Prolly . . . . the parents are checking the babe out. |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by daylae(m): 6:19pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
@nana Hello! How're u doing? @topic many ladies do this,but i think is not right! |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by Decryptor(m): 7:03pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
A lot of ladies do it nowadays. It's so lame to me. Why move your ar$e to the home of a man you are not yet married to and to make matters worse, his parents' house? Where will the bliss of marriage be after the wedding since it has been all outlived during the courtship. I mean, weekends are okay but permanently moving to the guys house is so retarded. Ladies who do it to me are insecure. Period! |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by kokoye(m): 7:38pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
na2day?: ![]() |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
Meanwhile he is planning his wedding to the other girl on the side. Poor girl, may God be with her. |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by na2day2(m): 11:32pm On Feb 24, 2010 |
iice: ur keyboard is acting up again |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by Akinagirl(f): 12:09am On Feb 25, 2010 |
Sadly its done all the time. I never will. I think its useless, why would I be trapped with a man living in his house, worse his parents house, him tieing me down calling me wifey and not put a ring on it. Heck no! |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by Donvilo(m): 12:37am On Feb 25, 2010 |
***comment reserved*** |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by mamagee3(f): 1:02am On Feb 25, 2010 |
Poster. . . Tell me the Century we are in and I'll give you my response. |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by na2day2(m): 1:11am On Feb 25, 2010 |
Akinagirl: u can always buy ur own ring ![]() ![]() ![]() mama-gee: 12th century, now what is ur response? |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by Nobody: 3:29am On Feb 25, 2010 |
is dat desperation or wot abi is she trying 2 impress her imaginary inlaws or her imaginary husband.d day d guy sees a finer gal or he impregnates anoda gal nobody will teach her b4 she leaves d house.orisirisi wonders shall never end. no bride price,no introduction,notin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by topup: 5:55am On Feb 25, 2010 |
I wouldn't want to, but I can see why it happens to women. With so many stages in a relationship it is easy to think "we've come so far, nothing can go wrong now" or "I don't want to start asking questions like I don't know him now." It's this idea of; "If I complain, I run the chance of jeopardising everything I've worked so hard to maintain." alternatively, she doesn't realise what she's doing, sometimes when you go from 0 - 100 it's difficult to see how fast you've moved because you think you'll wait and see how things continue not knowing you've travelled straight to the end of the scale already. I could easily move into a flat with my boyfriend and it would feel natural, but what wise people have told me (and religious beliefs) would be the only thing holding me back, and since it is not completely ingrained in my moral compass, it would have to be a conscious effort not to slip into that state. |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by FMK(m): 7:09am On Feb 25, 2010 |
that's called realy Love without interest that's not for sale ![]() |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by echobee(f): 7:21am On Feb 25, 2010 |
for wetin? |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by iice(f): 8:21pm On Feb 27, 2010 |
na2day?: No it's not ![]() |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by na2day2(m): 9:17pm On Feb 27, 2010 |
iice: stop being modest, ur keyboard was acting up 4 real |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by iice(f): 9:21pm On Feb 27, 2010 |
My keyboard is fine jare. |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by googles: 9:22pm On Feb 27, 2010 |
[size=13pt]lol am sure the babe will be doing some serious washing o cater to the boy's family all round,cook,sweep be kneeling up and down the compound to greet everybody, even the gateman na wa o your friend go pick beans tire shior ![]() ![]() |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by na2day2(m): 4:21am On Feb 28, 2010 |
iice: ah! then ur medication has expired ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: For Ladies Only: Can You Do This? by ThePelican(m): 4:59am On Feb 28, 2010 |
It's not such a good idea but that's not to conclude it doesn't happen. Many factors can play out in this scheme. Some girls who are doing this are blinded, for instance, by thinking they've gone far too deep into the relationship to experience any breakup--this is a wrong assumption but it's always what some girls do. Another feature is that instances have been witnessed where girls did this successfully and they got married eventually. Some parents can't help thinking that this is a modest way for a girl to prove her worth to the man to determine, and in furtherance, prove that she's going to be a worthy wife. With the kind of mentality some girls possess, this happens predominantly in a lot of places, Nigeria especially. Truth is, co-habitation isn't a good idea, never have been. Some relationships crash at this point because only then the prospective mother-in-law starts to see faults and shortcomings of the girl in question; negative comments are made and a lot of misunderstanding ensue which truncates the relationship eventually. |
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