My girlfriend and I had an impass today. In rage I asked her and he sister to get the Bleep out of my house. To my surprise they needed no further instruction. Within 30 minutes their bags were packed. Now I'm hiring a nanny tomorrow, but I'm in a fix. Don't know how to mix her food or what up do. She's asleep now but have not eaten since afternoon. Do I wake her up to feed her?

Hmmm

Please don't scare us with an emotional storyline

You need a nanny not an advice online

Please bro

Emotional garbage I'm not fond of. Thank you for input.


Anyone knows if its ok to wake up a one year old to feed her?

Chelseafan99:
Emotional garbage I'm not fond of. Thank you for input.


Anyone knows if its ok to wake up a one year old to feed her?

I said you need a Nanny

sarrki:


I said you need a Nanny

Read what I posted. There's a nanny coming tomorrow. She hadn't had a meal since 1. Was wondering if its prudent to wake up a baby to feed her.

Chelseafan99:


Read what I posted. There's a nanny coming tomorrow. She hadn't had a meal since 1. Was wondering if its prudent to wake up a baby to feed her.

Let her wake up in her own.

Give her little water when she wakes up

Call or chat your girlfriend about her food

For her diapers remove it now while she's asleep

Don't change it .

Clean it with diapers and leave it dry with a little powder

That should help

Great. Thanks.

Where is the mother of the child because I have assumed your girlfriend didn't give birth to the child because there is no way you can make a mother leave her young baby with a novice like you

am calling the police immediately, where is your baby permit?.

Exactly, where is the mother of the baby?

You urself need a diaper because no matter what the mother of the child could have done to u.. Only a baby will send a nursing mother packing leaving her child...

Awon oloshi gbogbo... Turning NL into dumping ground for all sort of gilberish

Oh boy. Your responses smacks of ignorance. Big ignorance. What I did today is what I should have done long ago. You never bothered asking what she did and the circumstances, instead you jump the gun and start spewing crap. These are facts you should consider :

1. No real mother will pack her bag on a whim with elation and relief because of an angry outburst.
2.Since yesterday She'd deliberately provoke me, forcing my response, then she says should I leave her for you? C'mon. That bitch was begging to leave.
3. She is not mygirlfriend, she has a boyfriend. We are not dating. The circumstances surrounding her coming to my house is based on the fact that the stupid bitch for one full year dumped the baby with some local women where she was to pay N10k monthly.
4. She spent one year partying, leaving the baby to her fate.

5. Just last week she lied she was coming to see me with her mom, we need to talk. I said fine, I'm home. An hour later she calls saying I should open the gate she is outside. I did, but lo nd behold she was no where to be found. Instead I saw her mom. Hmmm

Twenty minutes later, you have her mom opening up to me, that the child has been at some foster care in owerri, They cannot afford the fee bladabla. I was neyond mortified. An hour later I wired N400,000 TO her account for them to get my baby out.

They come back 48 hours later with a baby looking mmalnourished and stunted.Next day I spent another N100k buying stuffs and all she needs to regain her health.

From the day they brought her back the so called mom had hardly stayed home. The Day she does we have her and her sister playing mind games, looking for a way out. Provoking me to take action. You see, they wanted to leave without guilt hanging over their head. The moment finally came when I had had enough of the I crap and told her its like you will leave. I drove out to get fuel. When I came back theyr bags were already outside. They never looked so happy. They wanted out with a narrative vilifying me.

So before you spew no sense out if ignorance, answer this. What sane girl dumps her baby in a local traditional care in a village in Owerri. Refuses to pay up, not even once, never shows up to check on her, never caring about her wellbeing. To see again I practically had to pay them nearly half a million you dimwit.

Lastly if you took your time to read through my post you will where I said for the night. The stupid bitch left about 4 hours ago. I already have a nanny coming tomorrow morning. My thread was about knowing what to do tonight, but of course you, hair trigger alert dimwit like you never bother getting facts before spewing crap. Nonsense.

Yyeske:
Exactly, where is the mother of the baby?

If I am to guess partying up. Celebrating with her friends her new found freedom and a N400,000 windfall. I think I may have been scammed. But I don't really care. Her mother epitomizes the debauchery and filth that has taken over traditional values and the sacredness of being a mother.

Chelseafan99:


If I am to guess partying up. Celebrating with her friends her new found freGTedom and a N400,000 windfall. I think I may have been scammed. But I don't really care. Her mother epitomizes the debauchery and filth that has taken over traditional values and the sacredness of being a mother.

Don't you have female relatives around?
She dumped the baby for a year and where were you all the while, I guess partying too.
She has a boyfriend and you still kept her in your house.
I think this story is just made up or if true, both of you need to be given some treatment or both immature

Chelseafan99:


If I am to guess partying up. Celebrating with her friends her new found freedom and a N400,000 windfall. I think I may have been scammed. But I don't really care. Her mother epitomizes the debauchery and filth that has taken over traditional values and the sacredness of being a mother.

U're trying to buy a year with cash?!

Just leave d poor girl, let her wake on her own. Clean her up, change her daipers n feed her whatever they left behind. She'll probably be used to neglect, so she shouldnt make too much trouble. Cartoons should calm her down if not.

Guys like u should be whipped! For a year, u didnt see n know d status of ur offspring/ward, living in d same country?!

That baby needs to be loved, so u dont end up wasting ur time raising her. Money alone wont cut it.

Just so u know, d mom is coming back, once she goes broke! Since u av custody, u dont owe dem kobo!

Your story might be true or it might be lies but whatever.

Instructions to change diaper are on the komkom, don't make a mistake of allowing your child sleep without one except you like the smell of piss on your bed. Instructions for baby food are also on the komkom. You could have called your mom or any of your close relatives who have experience with children for advice instead of bringing it to nairaland, that's why is hard for people to believe you

Chelseafan99:
My girlfriend and I had an impass today. In rage I asked her and he sister to get the Bleep out of my house. To my surprise they needed no further instruction. Within 30 minutes their bags were packed. Now I'm hiring a nanny tomorrow, but I'm in a fix. Don't know how to mix her food or what up do. She's asleep now but have not eaten since afternoon. Do I wake her up to feed her?

Change the diaper any time it is soiled.

Feed her whenever she wants to eat. Hope the kid is already weaned.

You're starving the kid

RZArecta:
Your story might be true or it might be lies but whatever.

Instructions to change diaper are on the komkom, don't make a mistake of allowing your child sleep without one except you like the smell of piss on your bed. Instructions for baby food are also on the komkom. You could have called your mom or any of your close relatives who have experience with children for advice instead of bringing it to nairaland, that's why is hard for people to believe you

hahahahahaha......Komkom.
his relatives number is equally on the komkom.

OP, you have to narrate more for me to believe this food and diaper story. I want hear it all. Dont hold back or lie o. Give me that girl name and number, i want hear her side too.

Start from how you meet the girl. Is your child her first baby, is she the only baby? Has this ya girfriend ever been on the production line in East?

Moderator coomu o, come moof dis thread go Romance abeg.

Na hia i go do my morning shift today, if possible sef add overtime and extend my perch till evening time.

Change the diaper when it's filled.


The food? She needs breastfeeding(dunno how old she is) and other baby food. I also dunno the time spacing for feeding.



You and your wicked girlfriend want to suffer the baby. Who's the mother of the baby?

ImperialYoruba:
Moderator coomu o, come moof dis thread go Romance abeg.

Na hia i go do my morning shift today, if possible sef add overtime and extend my perch till evening time.

@Op you did well by sending her out, such a woman shouldn't be allowed to bring up a child.

You also share an equal blame, you abandoned the child for close to a year without caring to know where the baby was only to turn around to blame her for keeping the baby at foster care, had it been you took care of her while she was pregnant or after she delivered, leaving the baby at the foster care wouldn't have been an issue

Doling out 400k for dis Buhari regime shows you are not lacking, so I wonder what would have been your reason for abandoning the baby for close to a year.

All, said and done, you did well by taking the baby in and sending the woman out, now before the nanny arrives, always check to see if her diaper is soiled, the direction on how to change it is on the packet, as for the food, a one year old can eat noodles or cereals or any food at all.

Pet the child always and show the child you love her/him.

Welcome to fatherhood.......

Have you considered DNA test? Not saying the baby is not yours tho, but, to be double sure sha.

Jesos! You are angry!

Anyways, since the baby is more than a year old, she ought to have started eating real foods like indomie, rice, etc alongside whatever you feed her. She could eat like six times daily. You need not wake her at night to eat unless she wakes by herself. Although, its OK to wake her like twice before day breaks to pee. A nanny won't be enough...don't you have a mother that could really care for her. Grandmothers are awesome with their grand children.

Good luck.

Chelseafan99:
Oh boy. Your responses smacks of ignorance. Big ignorance. What I did today is what I should have done long ago. You never bothered asking what she did and the circumstances, instead you jump the gun and start spewing crap. These are facts you should consider :

1. No real mother will pack her bag on a whim with elation and relief because of an angry outburst.
2.Since yesterday She'd deliberately provoke me, forcing my response, then she says should I leave her for you? C'mon. That bitch was begging to leave.
3. She is not mygirlfriend, she has a boyfriend. We are not dating. The circumstances surrounding her coming to my house is based on the fact that the stupid bitch for one full year dumped the baby with some local women where she was to pay N10k monthly.
4. She spent one year partying, leaving the baby to her fate.

5. Just last week she lied she was coming to see me with her mom, we need to talk. I said fine, I'm home. An hour later she calls saying I should open the gate she is outside. I did, but lo nd behold she was no where to be found. Instead I saw her mom. Hmmm

Twenty minutes later, you have her mom opening up to me, that the child has been at some foster care in owerri, They cannot afford the fee bladabla. I was neyond mortified. An hour later I wired N400,000 TO her account for them to get my baby out.

They come back 48 hours later with a baby looking mmalnourished and stunted.Next day I spent another N100k buying stuffs and all she needs to regain her health.

From the day they brought her back the so called mom had hardly stayed home. The Day she does we have her and her sister playing mind games, looking for a way out. Provoking me to take action. You see, they wanted to leave without guilt hanging over their head. The moment finally came when I had had enough of the I crap and told her its like you will leave. I drove out to get fuel. When I came back theyr bags were already outside. They never looked so happy. They wanted out with a narrative vilifying me.

So before you spew no sense out if ignorance, answer this. What sane girl dumps her baby in a local traditional care in a village in Owerri. Refuses to pay up, not even once, never shows up to check on her, never caring about her wellbeing. To see again I practically had to pay them nearly half a million you dimwit.

Lastly if you took your time to read through my post you will where I said for the night. The stupid bitch left about 4 hours ago. I already have a nanny coming tomorrow morning. My thread was about knowing what to do tonight, but of course you, hair trigger alert dimwit like you never bother getting facts before spewing crap. Nonsense.

have u done a paternity test on that baby yet, no mother will leave her little baby like that. Just saying tho i might be wrong.

sarrki:


Let her wake up in her own.

Give her little water when she wakes up

Call or chat your girlfriend about her food

For her diapers remove it now while she's asleep

Don't change it .

Clean it with diapers and leave it dry with a little powder

That should help

Must you blab all over NL
What's 'clean it with diapers and leave it dry with a little powder'
The powder is for what, exactly?
Remove diapers but don't wake her up" What are you on?
You don't know the weather condition of where op is, yet you suggesting Powder and a little water! Tepid, warm or cold?
Abeg, Gerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrout

RZArecta:
Your story might be true or it might be lies but whatever.

Instructions to change diaper are on the komkom, don't make a mistake of allowing your child sleep without one except you like the smell of piss on your bed. Instructions for baby food are also on the komkom. You could have called your mom or any of your close relatives who have experience with children for advice instead of bringing it to nairaland, that's why is hard for people to believe you

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OP,
I have things to go do today and cant sit here waiting indefinitely.

Did nanny show up?

He be like say you rich. The nanny fit upgrade herself and start feeding you too, in all the imagined ways a man can be fed .

How old is she, good looking?

Babies are fed on demand ,u don't wake a baby up just to feed her. God created babies in such a way that when they are hungry or need attention ,they will cry .
U talked about diapers ,for u to know when it needs a change;check the weight of an unused diapers then if the one she's putting on becomes heavy that means its time for a change.
I also gathered that the baby is malnourished and if I must be frank with u , a nanny is just one out of the many things u need . Go see a health care provider and most of all a dietitian to help put this baby back on track.good luck and happy baby sitting

nursennenny:
Babies are fed on demand ,u don't wake a baby up just to feed her. God created babies in such a way that when they are hungry or need attention ,they will cry .
U talked about diapers ,for u to know when it needs a change;check the weight of an unused diapers then if the one she's putting on becomes heavy that means its time for a change.
I also gathered that the baby is malnourished and if I must be frank with u , a nanny is just one out of the many things u need . Go see a health care provider and most of all a dietitian to help put this baby back on track.good luck and happy baby sitting

OP, this is the nanny you are waiting to arrive. Your quagmire has ended.