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Is Marriage The Answer?! by BB25: 4:56pm On Feb 23, 2010
]Is Marriage the answer for everyone?
How do you handle yourself and your spouse in marriage specially when you do not speak the same language?
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by ifyalways(f): 6:01pm On Feb 23, 2010
BB25:

]Is Marriage the answer for everyone?
Though i dont get what u mean by 'answer' but NO,marriage is not meant for everyone.
BB25:

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How do you handle yourself and your spouse in marriage specially when you do not speak the same language?

Was there no dating?
how did the couple get along during dating and courtship days. undecided
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by coolier(f): 6:20pm On Feb 23, 2010
The same way you handled each other when you were courting! Or try sign language.
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by Nobody: 9:56am On Mar 02, 2010
Am feeling it.

Keep the ball rolling.
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by madlady(f): 10:20am On Mar 02, 2010
BB25:

]Is Marriage the answer for everyone?
How do you handle yourself and your spouse in marriage specially when you do not speak the same language?



Not speaking the same language could be a minor issue to lots of folks, to me it would be a huge problem.
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by DeepSoul(f): 10:53am On Mar 02, 2010
madlady:


Not speacking the same language could be a minor issue to lots of folks, to me it would be a huge problem.

I dont think the poster meant "language"literally eg chinese or arabic.
Language here is most likely meant to be communication style(s)

@OP
Yes! Marriage should be for everyone, according to God's plan for man.

I dont know if it's the answer cos I dont know what question is being asked in the first place  undecided
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by madlady(f): 11:38am On Mar 02, 2010
^ Yes I did consider that might not be the question.

Like you I was  undecided to the full nature of the question.
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by Nobody: 6:35pm On Mar 03, 2010
I hope to learn from this.
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by N101: 8:34pm On Sep 02, 2011
Deep Soul:

I dont think the poster meant "language"literally eg chinese or arabic.
Language here is most likely meant to be communication style(s)

@OP
Yes! Marriage should be for everyone, according to God's plan for man.


Dodgy theology - where in the bible does it say this?
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by plappville(f): 9:22pm On Sep 02, 2011
N101:

Dodgy theology - where in the bible does it say this?

I cant remember the chapter in the bible but it says
A man and a woman will come together and they become one, une, un, okpa, ovo, daya etc. Some1 can plz help me complete.
@op its not realy the answer, as u can see not every1 care to get married.
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by N101: 1:18pm On Sep 03, 2011
plappville:

I cant remember the chapter in the bible but it says
A man and a woman will come together and they become one, une, un, okpa, ovo, daya etc. Some1 can plz help me complete.
@op its not realy the answer, as u can see not every1 care to get married.

But the passage doesn't say "marriage should be for everyone, according to God's plan for man".  The passage you're referring to (Matthew 19) also talks about divorce and ends with "For some are eunuchs because they were born that way; others were made that way by men; and others have renounced marriage because of the kingdom of heaven."  Even Jesus was aware that marriage isn't for everyone.

@ OP Marriage isn't for everyone, and it is not compulsory for "everyone" to marry.  Language has nothing to do with it - people who speak different languages and from different cultures get married all the time.  Cross-cultural marriages do require an open mind, sensitivity and open communication, not assuming that "love will conquer all".
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by plappville(f): 1:37pm On Sep 03, 2011
N101:

But the passage doesn't say "marriage should be for everyone, according to God's plan for man".  The passage you're referring to (Matthew 19) also talks about divorce and ends with "For some are eunuchs because they were born that way; others were made that way by men; and others have renounced marriage because of the kingdom of heaven."  Even Jesus was aware that marriage isn't for everyone.

@ OP Marriage isn't for everyone, and it is not compulsory for "everyone" to marry.  Language has nothing to do with it - people who speak different languages and from different cultures get married all the time.  Cross-cultural marriages do require an open mind, sensitivity and open communication, not assuming that "love will conquer all".
shocked shocked So u sabi the bible reach like this? i said i dont know where it was written u ve brought it out urself so i guess ur question was answered by u. I will take note of this chapter thanks.
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by tpia5: 2:46pm On Sep 03, 2011
Asking of questions has no end.

Must everything be questioned just because you are on the internet?
Re: Is Marriage The Answer?! by femmy2010(m): 6:00pm On Sep 03, 2011
The language in marriage is love.

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