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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by mickybeejay(m): 1:52pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92:Pls can u mention some of the great men that got married to their wives after they might have reach a greater height. And with the way you are talking, you should be earning nothing less than 500k a month otherwise you are on a long thing. 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 1:52pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
I married with 40k as salary 2014. Today my take home monthly is 700k. 5 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by dominique(f): 1:52pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Some of those girls commenting rubbish will jump at a man earning way less. Its on social media that some people get mouth. That was how a girl came to wail on fb that she was advised her by her friend to dump her boyfriend because he was earning120k at the time and the guy was 8 years older. The said friend eventually married a man who was 10 years older and earning 80k, she's still single. To be honest, 35k can't raise a family properly. So a man earning that little should not be in a haste to get married and have kids. 5 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by castro316: 1:57pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
omoharry: The funny part is that you don't even know the guy you are insulting like this. How do you know he is earning less than N35k. Look at how you are so quick to lay insults on someone? For the fact that you are independent doesn't make you mature from your rantings. That's why I don't like dating some girls biko kwanu. Nothing will happen to you if you had ignored him or counter his argument. That's my contribution 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Alexk2(m): 1:58pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
refiner:More sense to your brain. |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by ImaIma1(f): 2:01pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
mickybeejay: This definition of a great man means he won't be earning 35k when he gets married. Except he is just a thinker without action. The kind of men they call "acting big man" 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Waletoy(m): 2:04pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92:It's ladies like you that are prone ritual guys. SMH 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by castro316: 2:05pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Some of you here don't know that many families started well then but could not boast. Of N20k now. If you are the wife, what will you do? Leave your husband? Or help out. This are the women that will cast and bind divorce in their marriage but end up becoming the cause of their divorce. Many families are living below N20k line. Including the families of some girls here posting trash that they cannot marry such but you are surviving. The question I wanna ask you girls is. Have you ever earn N1 in your life?if. You haven't stop thinking it's easy to make it. Its love and cooperation that sees those families thru. 4 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Phyde: 2:05pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
naifizzy:You have said it all sir. Best comment ever.... I have stopped reading. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:06pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
DouglasH92: There are people earning less who are married. Stop being myopic 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by ImaIma1(f): 2:08pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
BlessedRayman: 40k in 2014 compared to 35k in 2017... |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by mickybeejay(m): 2:08pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
ImaIma1:What if he has an ongoing project that he's working on before before the marriage and the project has started yielding a positive result( known to him only) and he's earning 35k at present........ can't he go ahead with the marriage? 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by JeffreyJamez(m): 2:11pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
dominique: I agree with you. But then again getting married and having kids are 2 different things. Lovers get married because most of the times getting married gives a man some sense of responsibility and he is able to get other aspects of his life in order all because he has a wife who is a great companion and wonderful supporter. Having kids will come later. Sometimes getting married is good for the Pyschological well being of a man. I have seen countless situations that backs this ideology. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Alameer(m): 2:15pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
[make them continue to sell their pu**$y for 1k] abeg no be by force 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by jimmyj: 2:19pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
My salary when I got engaged to my fiance then was 34,after which we got married after two years when my salary as increased to 65k. But today my income is above 300k. My message is,it not the present that matter but what you are doing to better your tomorrow 4 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 2:19pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
NairalandCS:He sha can... But to who? Not just anyone,, someone extremely wealthy or someone in the 35k class |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by chukzyfcbb: 2:20pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
35k? No! I can't even let my sisters marry one who earns 35k monthly. Neither will I as a male be thinking of marriage with 35k. Money is the no1 problem in marriage, with 35k at stake there will definitely be problems. I didn't grow up in a house where Dad started with 35k, so why should I or my siblings start with such. I didn't grow up to think like that low. If your Dad started that small in marriage then that's a good motivation for you. For me, Nope.
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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by GOFRONT(m): 2:21pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
And when u earning 35k and u want to wait till u start earnin 600k before u get married......and u found out u are alredy 60yrs old...... And on the other thread, they will say "Guy better marry on time and watch ur kidz grow" "If u marry late, ur kids might start callin u Grandpa" When they were sayin all these, they forgot to lay Emphasis on d salary of the single guyz. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 2:23pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
NairalandCS:but some even marry with 25k na 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by newoffer: 2:27pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
u guys shud do extra things apart from your salary. stop hoping cos salary is fixed |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by kpaofame: 2:31pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
rosalieene: Money is not enough to keep a marriage, divorce is more rampant among the rich and famous 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Bossmafia(m): 2:32pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Little wonder desperate guys use Nigerian girls for money rituals. |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 2:32pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
refiner:That's nice but I think this is the kind of mentality that drive's men to dabble in unwholesome acts. Don't be with a guy with the intention of motivating (aka nagging) him to succeed if he can't help it. You can only motivate a man to do something within his ability, e.g go back to school, manage his finances better etc. How do you motivate an unemployed graduate with no head for business to start earning more than 35k when those are the only jobs available to the common man? If you have connections, you can link him up with somebody that can open doors for him, but in a situation where you have nothing to offer that can improve his situation, its better to just advise him on ways to improve his lot. That's why I always say its better for girls to settle down with guys they wouldn't mind spending the rest of their lives with in his present condition (unless he works in a place where there's possibility of promotion). So that if it turns out the guy doesn't achieve his goals, you won't feel frustrated, as you're prepared to accept his circumstances for life, while hoping for a better tomorrow. Personally I don't even think anything less than 200k is enough for a married couple to live a reasonably comfortable life, that's why its advisable both parties work, so their combined incomes can afford them the opportunity to save/make investments. 2 Likes |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by segunojo866: 2:34pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
rosalieene:God Is the king of masturbation |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by kalufelix(m): 2:35pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Are The Ladies Themselves Disabled ...Ayam Not Understanding 1 Like |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by kpaofame: 2:39pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Then i will want to use this platform to appeal for job oo for people like us on n-power salary scale |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Phyde: 2:39pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
rosalieene:Mummy, no one is destine to be poor when GOD, HARD WORK and PRAYER exist. |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by chukzyfcbb: 2:42pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Phyde:maybe so. but the poor will always exist. Jesus says the poor you shall always have amongst you. Just as no one is destined to fail in a class however you will still find students who failed. that's life |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by kaptaneSaka(m): 2:44pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Nwaoma198:How old are you?..... Because aged ladies can even marry unemployed guy.. |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by youngin(m): 2:46pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
Evaberry: He actually started with millions in today's currency, have you ever read his story |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 2:49pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
NairalandCS:lol |
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nwaoma198(f): 2:51pm On Sep 05, 2017 |
We are of same age,,,me and u no come from same mama sir if I like I marry unemployed guy it's not ur biz,u can't tell me u are earning 1milion monthly kaptaneSaka: |
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