TAKE YOUR HOLY BIBLE, STUDY IT, MEDITATE ON IT, BELIEVE EVERYTHING WRITTEN IN IT FOR YOU, BRING YOUR SPOUSE INTO STUDYING AND MEDITATING ON GOD'S WRITTEN WORD CONTAINED ONLY IN THE HOLY BIBLE, DECLARE ONLY GOD'S WORD IN YOUR LIFE AND FAMILY. TAKE DECISIONS AND ACT ONLY ON GOD'S WRITTEN WORD THEN WATCH OUT AS THE HOLY SPIRIT LIFTS YOU OUT ANY TROUBLE YOU ARE FACING. IT IS ONLY THE HOLY SPIRIT THAT CAN HELP A MAN OR WOMAN. HIS HELP CAN ONLY COME THROUGH THE DELIBERATE STUDY, MEDITATION AND PRACTISE OF HIS WORD CONTAINED IN THE HOLY BIBLE thus "The flesh has nothing to OFFER, it is the SPIRIT that gives LIFE to the FLESH, the WORDS I speak to YOU are SPIRIT AND LIFE" {John 6:63}. Do not look for HELP IN MAN that will cause you more PROBLEM thus "CURSED IS HE/SHE who trusts in MAN" {Jeremiah 17:5}, although MAN can guide you to GOD but GOD {HOLY SPIRIT} is the ONLY HELP YOU NEED WHO CAN SUSTAIN YOU IN HIS PATHWAY TO HEAVEN as we achieve OUR PURPOSE HERE IN THIS EARTH thus "But when HE, the SPIRIT of TRUTH, comes, he will guide you into all the truth. He will not speak on his own; he will speak only what he hears, and he will tell you what is yet to come." {John 16:13}. YOU MUST BELIEVE THAT the WORD OF GOD WRITTEN IN THE HOLY BIBLE is THE HOLY SPIRIT OF TRUTH who alone can make you do what pleases GOD thus "The Spirit alone gives eternal life. Human effort accomplishes nothing. And the very words I have spoken to you are spirit and life." {John 6:63}