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Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Yoshy: 7:25am On Sep 07, 2017 |
I'm not saying you should settle for less, I'm saying you should settle for happiness. Personally, I won't marry a girl that doesn't have a good job, though if she has good prospects and willing to do what's necessary to upgrade, I will help her and see where it leads. Nobody is certain of tomorrow we can only do our best to secure it and try not to be short sighted. The guy you call poor today might be rich tomorrow and the guy you call rich might be poor tomorrow. Seek the face of God and follow his directions on this matter. Finally OP, gather your self together, be open and genuinely happy as a single, the universe will send the right person to you naturally. 5 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by ochobaba(m): 7:33am On Sep 07, 2017 |
pocohantas:Well articulated If we could be blessed with women like you in the world..definitely we won't have cause for women-men inequalities We need more like you Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by carzola(m): 7:50am On Sep 07, 2017 |
LadyGoddiva:Tomorrow u will say u are a christian.... 5kobo LovePeddler burn by a 2kobo poll dancer.... its to early to lend you my attention... cause some of us are not jobless like your father.. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Babacele: 8:20am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Life is all about choices; the ball is in your court. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by hammerX: 8:57am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Evaberry:Na ur brother be dis, from isoko land. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Ifedith(m): 8:58am On Sep 07, 2017 |
missloluwa:Define less. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by CandidSeeker(m): 8:59am On Sep 07, 2017 |
It depends on your definition of less. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by beautiful232(f): 9:00am On Sep 07, 2017 |
dear guys,May you never marry a woman that need marriage more than she needs you. that's all I can say.. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Lexusgs430: 9:00am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Keep waiting...... He might come along, if not ............ Beautiful232, took it out of my mouth ........ Seeing that she is above me, it feels like we are having lady on top ....... |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by MrDoGood(m): 9:00am On Sep 07, 2017 |
I don't react to these kind of people. Am I controlling your life for you? |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by okerekeikpo: 9:01am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Stupid question, but millionaires will travel to the village and pick a dirty girl who can't boast of 1k, girls and their thinking ehn 6 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by poseidon12: 9:03am On Sep 07, 2017 |
NCANpatroller: Don't mind her. Nigerian ladies and their selfish, gold-digging mindset. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by hedonistic: 9:04am On Sep 07, 2017 |
This is why I hate the fact that girls are favoured over guys in the job market. Selling their bodies and feminine charms to get good jobs that they're barely qualified for, while better qualified guys roam the streets. This is the outcome... Unfairly favoured bimbos would now be feeling special and talking about not "settling for less". The effrontery is mind-boggling. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Maxvasia(m): 9:04am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Looking for the rich guys? Lol. Ok na. The truth is that the responsible, rich guys which huge potential are the ones most overlooked as they NEVER flaunt their riches and potential on social media or elsewhere. So I guess u would have to use ur 6th sense here while being patient and alert. If u rush into marriage, u either rush out or get flung out of it before u know it. Watchful wait is key. Its even obvious that genuine LOVE is not ur priority here but maintenance of ur "standard". 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by lollmaolol(m): 9:04am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Lets talk 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by kingdenny(m): 9:04am On Sep 07, 2017 |
People think marriage is boyfriend and girlfriend thing. At the end of the day you might find a man that fits that criteria. But he might be lacking in an area that might make you crazy.. No man is a total package. No marriage is a total package. Your man's fault should be something you can endure for the rest of life and his good qualities should be a spring of life to your marriage 4 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by greggng: 9:05am On Sep 07, 2017 |
missloluwa: |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by kingdenny(m): 9:07am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Maxvasia:No mind her. She doesn't understand what marriage is yet 3 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Amhappy(f): 9:08am On Sep 07, 2017 |
An average guy in a good career path will do. Even if he cannot match all your tastes,he can reason with you. And you will spur him to work hard. Don't settle for someone who you will carry his burden. All the best. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Maxvasia(m): 9:08am On Sep 07, 2017 |
kingdenny:Smiles. Yea i have since been smiling at her subtle naivety here. 1 Like |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by galax1: 9:08am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Hmmm ..young lady ask yourself what exactly do you want in a man.mind you no man with potential is poor just that maybe he might be needing a little help to explode.and actually u never stated what u want in from your man apart from class.Love is the only bedrock that can keep a home.u can't get anyman that's 60% ok ,he might lack elsewhere.so ask yourself wat he lacks can u manage it ,if not run run run. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by luminouz(m): 9:10am On Sep 07, 2017 |
missloluwa: I can just imagine how many guys go don PM u now.... Nice advert babe!!! Nice advert!!! 3 Likes |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by varmint: 9:10am On Sep 07, 2017 |
carzola:Lol... Thank God say God no be man Hardwork brings taste |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by millionboi(m): 9:10am On Sep 07, 2017 |
missloluwa:Wait ontil u are 45yrs The ans will fall on u. |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by millionboi(m): 9:12am On Sep 07, 2017 |
galax1:abeg she go undstnd when she clock 45yrs |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by AFONJACOW(m): 9:12am On Sep 07, 2017 |
I want to donate my sperm to the female IDP's |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by bettercreature(m): 9:12am On Sep 07, 2017 |
These same thing I was telling a friend few days ago,I don't have any advice for the this poster as I have many people around me suffering from this same problem |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by Funkybabee(f): 9:14am On Sep 07, 2017 |
Sister don't settle for less!!!! don't be desperate, you have to marry who worth your standard so that you may have happy home.. May God grant you ur own husband that will take care of you.... just remember this wait for your time |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by hedonistic: 9:14am On Sep 07, 2017 |
beautiful232: Words on marble. Guys, take note of this... And read the deep meaning between the lines. Meanwhile, like I mentioned elsewhere, people need to stop making long-term decisions on the basis of short-term considerations. So-called good jobs and so-called money are things that can disappear at any point. And then you're stuck with a partner you barely love or understand, with a couple of kids and battered bodies as baggage. What do you do, then? Live the rest of your life in misery and discontent, ruing a paradise lost? You can't assume that someone who has a good job or a thriving business today will have that in 5 or 10 years time. We all know people who were large yesterday and are nothing today, and vice versa. It's called life, and it has very many vicissitudes. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm A Young Female With A Good Job, Do I Really Have To Settle For Less? by goodnewscliff(m): 9:17am On Sep 07, 2017 |
LET ME GO SO PLAIN WITH U BAE!!!!! U AINT MATURED ENOUGH TO GET MARRIED!!!!! u aint ready yet!!! just wait a bit for d right time wen u get emotional , marriage wise, sacrifice wise matured den u can get married!!! 1 Like |
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