my bf travelled sometime,and when his friend was coming back he gave him somethings to give me,he was the one that gave the guy my phone number.when the friend went back he kept calling me,i told him and he said there was no harm in the calling.now my bf is back in the country and the friend is still calling and even sent me money last week,which i told him,now he is accusing me of been in love with him,i have told the guy to stop calling and he said he just want to be a friend only.but am not in love with him,how else will i tell my bf that it is him that i love?

change your phone number and stop collecting money from his friend

This one nawa oo, Na which kind friend he be?.

I hope its not a trap or setup, better still, if u decide to change ur number, wat is d assurance that ur boyfriend will not still give his "friend" ur new number
I f I were u, I can bar the guy's call without telling my guy, it's a personal decision

change ur number

you shouldn't have to change your number. All you have to do is have your so called boyfriend confront that friend of his or better yet dont pick up the phone so he can leave you a message then play it for your boyfriend to hear. also you are now in too far because of the exchange of money which would make anyone suspect you because if you didn't talk back to the friend he wouldn't have known that you needed money or wanted money and he wont even be calling to let you know that the money was sent. (something smells fishy from your end)

well you cant blame ur bf, it does sound sort of suspicious (I'm not implying anything) but you could ease up on the talking
to the friend. and stop holding money from him.

first, he starts calling and then he sends you money , of course, your bf will be suspicious

1. you must have really started talking a lot and probably getting very close , (too close for comfort)
2. your loyalty is to your bf but maybe because you have been communicating with this guy so much now, you tend to bring him in often in your gist with your bf which is making him uncomfortable
3. you are already financially involved with him? haba , you too, sit down and think , where do you want this your so called friendship with your bf's friend to lead to?
be truthful to yourself and do the right thing

@omega25red, she does not need to tell the guy dat she needs money b4 he sends her money. He might have tot of buying her love wit money. @poster, tell ur bf to confront his friend in ur presence. Then stop collecting anything from him. U can also change ur number if u like.

Hmmmmmm. . .

sweetmum:

my bf travelled sometime,and when his friend was coming back he gave him somethings to give me,he was the one that gave the guy my phone number.when the friend went back he kept calling me,i told him and he said there was no harm in the calling.now my bf is back in the country and the friend is still calling and even sent me money last week,which i told him,now he is accusing me of been in love with him,i have told the guy to stop calling and he said he just want to be a friend only.but am not in love with him,how else will i tell my bf that it is him that i love?

tel us d truth,he sends u moni as a begar or wat?.U girls disguest me at times.Ur gal is rite u ar playin game wit his frnd prabably he has too much moni.Stp wat u ar doin is totaly wrong.Use ur head young lady.

Stanfordx:

tel us d truth,he sends u moni as a begar or wat?.U girls disguest me at times.your gal is rite u ar playin game wit his frnd prabably he has too much moni.Stp wat u ar doin is totaly wrong.Use your head young lady.

who broke your heart?