sunshineG:
hmmm
Are you saying you don't have what you are looking for in a guy?

like love care about what you are looking for in a person.

do u mean to tell me pple considers some conditions before falling in love with a person. now this is all new. i dont understand how this one works, how sure are u that ur in love with the person, or u are just there cus of those conditions ?

no..it doesnt exist. not in nigeria.

Ladyjumong:
like love care about what you are looking for in a person.

do u mean to tell me pple considers some conditions before falling in love with a person. now this is all new. i dont understand how this one works, how sure are u that ur in love with the person, or u are just there cus of those conditions ?

yes
I believe we all have a reason or reasons for doing something
Take for example, you have a reason for coming to nairaland
You have a reason for making comments on every thread you chose to make them
So I believe when it comes to your love life, you must have a reason for falling in love

Am I wrong?

Temmyladey074:

no..it doesnt exist.
not in nigeria.

you are right

sunshineG:
yes
I believe we all have a reason or reasons for doing something
Take for example, you have a reason for coming to nairaland
You have a reason for making comments on every thread you chose to make them
So I believe when it comes to your love life, you must have a reason for falling in love

Am I wrong?

hmmn, having a condition/reason before falling in love ? well thats ur view.

i believe love happens unexpectedly. it got no reason. u can just fall in love with the person detest most, it happens. i believe love care about no conditions. my view.

we are two different pple, everyone is bound to belief whatever he or she wishes to. thats ur view nd mine differs. so no much big deal

Ladyjumong:
hmmn, having a condition/reason before falling in love ? well thats ur view.

i believe love happens unexpectedly. it got no reason. u can just fall in love with the person detest most, it happens. i believe love care about no conditions. my view.

we are two different pple, everyone is bound to belief whatever he or she wishes to. thats ur view nd mine differs. so no much big deal

if a person happens to fall in love with the person they detest the most, will that not mean the person lack standards?
Can you just fall in love with any random person?

Angy55:

From ages past, only God and your biological parents can give such.

Even biological parents love its not unconditional love, they love u because they gave birth to u.

sunshineG:
if a person happens to fall in love with the person they detest the most, will that not mean the person lack standards?
Can you just fall in love with any random person?

God ! u dnt knw how all this stuff works, it just happens. u can never predict love. u can choose nt to believe that, buh em tellin u that i myself personally believe that love care about no condition. if it do then believe me or not it what u see in the person that u love nd nt him whether wealth,looks,whatever. nd thats my view, i cant force u to accept that. u ave urs

Ladyjumong:
God ! u dnt knw how all this stuff works, it just happens. u can never predict love. u can choose nt to believe that, buh em tellin u that i myself personally believe that love care about no condition. if it do then believe me or not it what u see in the person that u love nd nt him whether wealth,looks,whatever. nd thats my view, i cant force u to accept that. u ave urs

sis no fighting
I read the change in your tone
I am just asking simple questions
Anyways you haven't answered my question properly, but thanks for your time

Unconditional love ko, unconditional love ni! Lets take for example, a guy is eyeing this lady n he does everything he can to get or win her heart, she will go about saying he loves her unconditionally, fast forward to months late he will be the one to make her cry n vice versa..can we say that one na unconditional love?

sunshineG:
sis no fighting
I read the change in your tone
I am just asking simple questions
Anyways you haven't answered my question properly, but thanks for your time

naa, like u ar insisting i go with ur view. had to make my stand. nd if answering ur question means changing my view. then em nt.

"love care about no condition"

Ladyjumong:
naa, like u ar insisting i go with ur view. had to make my stand. nd if answering ur question means changing my view. then em nt.

"love care about no condition"

naa sis..I wasn't trying to change your view.. I was only trying to question it...to see if you can defend it.

Anyways, I respect your view

Ladyjumong:
naa, like u ar insisting i go with ur view. had to make my stand. nd if answering ur question means changing my view. then em nt.

"love care about no condition"

love does care you have to have aspirations that tally with your partners, its at a young age that you believe that love overcomes all when you mature reality is very different

sunshineG:
naa sis..I wasn't trying to change your view.. I was only trying to question it...to see if you can defend it.

Anyways, I respect your view

yea i tried buh ur so into ur belief that u wouldnt allow any other view sink in for moment

nd i respect urs likewise

Piiko:
love does care you have to have aspirations that tally with your partners, its at a young age that you believe that love overcomes all when you mature reality is very different

hmmn, this might make sense tho, buh it not the same every other man's story

Ladyjumong:
hmmn, this might make sense tho, buh it not the same every other man's story

I am of a marriageable age and yet I am single to stupor so I should know beta, don't you think??

Piiko:
I am of a marriageable age and yet I am single to stupor so I should know beta, don't you think??

sure u should know beta. buh that doent speaks for every one else

No kind of love is literally unconditional anywhere, no matter how notionally unconditional it may sound or appear. At least there're three kinds of known love. Viz:

1. Agape love - here majority do give the love unconditionally in the short run, but just like respect, good behavior is necessary to maintain and sustain it in the long run. Mother's love and one's admiration for every human being fall into this category. Of course, we all know that you can't remain in your mother's good book of love if you decide to permanently become an evil towards her.

2. Fancy love - here you have the shallow erotic love, love at first sight and love based on beautiful persona (physical beauty). This kind of love may notionally appear unconditional by the giver, yet, it's never so since the bond that hold it is based on beauty and mostly sustained by material things like money and fame. Compatibility is never taken into consideration in this kind of love, thus, the reason why its chances of survival in the long run when beauty fades, fame wanes and money vanishes and reality sets in, is always hard. Majority of those involved in it always pack up or stay put together but as frenemies.

3. True love - here I am talking of the love that is still conditional, but it's always built on mutual compatibility (immaterial things) with less emphasis (but still necessary) on fancy and material things. The main bond that always hold the two people involved in this kind of love is mutual immaterial things - either one or all of good attributes, intellect, personality and belief system. This is the love on which any healthy relationship/marriage you see out there is built upon. This is the domain of selfless love.

Of a truth there is unconditional love. The love I have for LastMumu is unconditional

Unconditional love is the type of love a mother has for her own child. It does exist but it's very rare sha

IloveLastMumu:
Of a truth there is unconditional love. The love I have for LastMumu is unconditional

tosyne2much:
Unconditional love is the type of love a mother has for her own child. It does exist but it's very rare sha

Nice one bro
so you are saying unconditional love does not exist btw lovers?

sunshineG:

Nice one bro
so you are saying unconditional love does not exist btw lovers?

I never said so... Love between lovers is usually borne out of condition but that doesn't mean true love doesn't exist. It does but very rare