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Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by OfficialBlogga(m): 5:23pm On Sep 09, 2017
Why do some people stay in a bad relationship? It’s pretty easy to state out why people engage in such relationship There are tremendous different reasons why this happen. See below!

MAIN REASONS

FINANCIAL REASONS: Sometimes some people stay in a bad relationship in other not to loose some kind of financial benefits, they really think breaking up with their partner would make them lose that rare opportunity, in most cases its real and actually happens,but not everyone is like that. I think whatever you lost you can regain in time,But the longer time continues. The more assets they have to get from you when the bad relationship ends. So to me, it make no sense. Money can’t buy happiness of freedom to pursue it.

FEAR Another reason people stay in bad relationships is out of fear. Some people fear they will never find someone and will be all alone. A bad relationship is no picnic, and you have almost no control over whether you will have a good day or a bad day when your significant other can make it go either way. Wouldn’t peace in your life and household be better than the chaos being with the wrong person brings to your life? What do you believe is so wrong with you that you couldn’t possibly find someone better than the person you are with? Isn’t it worth the risk? Think of all you can gain. And, let’s face it, being in a bad relationship makes you feel lonely a lot of the time, and you can’t really count on them to be there for you anyway, can you?

YOU BEING THE BAD EGG:Another reason people stay in bad relationships is because they actually are the reason it is bad. You are only hearing their side of the story, and although you may not want to believe it, they are contributing to the “bad”. Some people actually do not want a normal, or what most people think are normal, relationships. They like the back and forth, breaking up and getting back together. They get some weird kick out of the drama and chaos.

MINDSET: This may sound surprising, but not all people WANT a good relationship. Seriously, they don’t. That is why people leave a good relationship to go back to an ex that made their lives hell. This is why they stay and have affairs instead of ending their marriage and pursuing someone else freely. Until they get rid of the issues that caused them to stay and contribute to bad relationships, they won’t have the skills necessary to help create a good one.

So are you really in a bad relationship?? Try do some research and get the reason why you’re in such a relationship, upon doing this discuss with your partner and look for a lasting solution to it

http://www.ivevex.com/2017/09/08/reasons-why-people-stay-in-bad-relationship/

Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by Badmanbay(m): 5:24pm On Sep 09, 2017
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Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by LalasticSeun(f): 5:25pm On Sep 09, 2017
Just one reason; they v got no sense!
Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by Next2Bezee(m): 5:28pm On Sep 09, 2017
Time/Investment

Many wouldn't want to end a bad relationship because they don't want to lose the time and investment they've put into making that relationship work

If a guy forgives a girl who cheats on him 3 times, he will keep forgiving the girl forever (instead of dunping her) as he has sacrificed a lot on the mental side to keep the relationship going. Same thing with girls.
Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by Evablizin(f): 5:33pm On Sep 09, 2017
So conclusively what is the solution? undecided
Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by cerowo(f): 6:05pm On Sep 09, 2017
Ok
Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by babyfaceafrica: 6:14pm On Sep 09, 2017
Because they are weak
Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by Nobody: 7:20pm On Sep 09, 2017
I see
Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by Nobody: 7:47pm On Sep 09, 2017
Some don't have a choice...they were pushed into it.

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Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by Nobody: 7:50pm On Sep 09, 2017
Next2Bezee:
Time/Investment

Many wouldn't want to end a bad relationship because they don't want to lose the time and investment they've put into making that relationship work

If a guy forgives a girl who cheats on him 3 times, he will keep forgiving the girl forever (instead of dunping her) as he has sacrificed a lot on the mental side to keep the relationship going. Same thing with girls.
Exactly.
Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by Nobody: 7:53pm On Sep 09, 2017
They do it because the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know, The new relationship you might enter might even be worse than the former one. No one is perfect.
Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by Lalas247(f): 7:55pm On Sep 09, 2017
Stereotypes


Religion


Society


Family
Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by sweetetlove(f): 8:06pm On Sep 09, 2017
Low self esteem is another reason
Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:13pm On Sep 09, 2017
Sabrina18:
They do it because the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know, The new relationship you might enter might even be worse than the former one. No one is perfect.

the above is the definition of being desperately insecure.... a "secure" person would simply say:"i'd rather be single than in a bad r/ship"
only an desperately insecure person has the NEED to be in a r/ship, thus fearing being alone.its that fear that keeps them in these useless union. the fear to be alone, the fear to meet a person that is worst than the current one, INSTEAD OF focusing on the fact that leaving their useless r/ship is the #1 issue here.

sadly, so many women are so desperate to be in a r/ship that they will accept any donkey and their nonsense!

Temilayhor:
Some don't have a choice...they were pushed into it.

you ALWAYS have a choice... if they were pushed into something bad, they can simply WALK OUT of it. no r/ship is permanent.

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Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by babyfaceafrica: 8:35pm On Sep 09, 2017
Temilayhor:
Some don't have a choice...they were pushed into it.
wrong answer..if you are pushed to fire,you run away.. You can't blame the person that push you
Re: Reasons Why People Stay In Bad Relationship by babyfaceafrica: 8:36pm On Sep 09, 2017
Sabrina18:
They do it because the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know, The new relationship you might enter might even be worse than the former one. No one is perfect.
and it might be better.. Sometimes we need to leave where we are to get to a better place

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