i have this friend as in we've been best of friends for like 5 years
then then she introduced me to one of her friends who eventutally became ma girlfriend
now the problem is that there was a quarrell between both fo them nd ma girlfriend want's me to stay clear of her
i don't thinnk i can do it cos of the bond between me and ma best friend.
please people out there tell me wat u think i should do

@Poster
I fink that your so-call gf should be the one to stay clear.

eridah2007:

@Poster
I fink that your so-call gf should be the one to stay clear.

why do u say that?

why don't you just find a way of settling the fight, thats what i'll do if i were in your shoes.

Sorry am trying to deviate a little,but your story reminds me of those innocent days(very young age)when anytime my friend fights with my younger brother,he'll then ask me not to play nor speak with my brother again,which is almost impossible cus he's my brother and he should come first even before my friend whom av lost contact with for years now; while my brother is always a part of my life. Well, i think you should always play a role of a mediator whenever your best friend and your girl are in contension,cus it 'll be childish in your own part when surpporting one against the other.

daylae:

Sorry am trying to deviate a little,but your story reminds me of those innocent days(very young age)when anytime my friend fights with my younger brother,he'll then ask me not to play nor speak with my brother again,which is almost impossible cus he's my brother and he should come first even before my friend whom av lost contact with for years now; while my brother is always a part of my life. Well, i think you should always play a role of a mediator whenever your best friend and your girl are in contension,cus it 'll be childish in your own part when surpporting one against the other.

that's why i can't settle them cos it'll look like i'm supporting one person