So my neighbour/friend has been getting advances or something that looks like it from this chic close to our compound. He got married last year (court wedding). Though his wife isn't around she's quite far away in taraba state, i hear him speak to her over the phone and he loves her very much. The thing is this girl keeps coming into his room even though she knows he's commited to someone else and it seems like she'd be okay with being a side chick but my friend isn't like that. Funny thing is she's looking in the wrong place where she isn't gonna get what she wants, i keep wondering why she'd never venture into bringing the deal to me that am single
Anyway sha my friend came to me for advice abt what to do with this determined and unrelenting chic. Your thoughts pls.
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You want her to come to you instead, that's why you are bothered, anyways she doesn't find you attractive so no need.

Simple, he should tell her to stop coming to his house since he's a married man or risk sleeping with her.

Which would your friend prefer?.

Ur frnd is being 2 childish, he is asking u 4 advice instead of shunning d lady off , he is jst luking 4 a reason to start cheating

I love such ladies I live to meet them I know Wat to do with dem every time I c dem....Unfortunately I only do married ladies if she is single she's a liability

Sabrina18:
You want her to come to you instead, that's why you are bothered, anyways she doesn't find you attractive so no need.

I hardly even care abt that, she too old 4 me

Sabrina18:
You want her to come to you instead, that's why you are bothered, anyways she doesn't find you attractive so no need.

Only care abt my confused friend here

banre:
I hardly even care abt that, she too old 4 me

You are contradicting yourself.

People should learn to leave married people alone..