CyberG: Dear Agatha,

Thank you very much for your advice to people like us. I have a very big problem and I don’t know how to get out of it. I got married last year. Since then whenever I want to have sex with my husband, I don’t get aroused and sometimes I don’t feel like having sex. What do I do or my husband to for me to get aroused or feel sexy. Again when is the best time to get pregnant?

Funmi

Source: http://odili.net/news/source/2010/feb/27/400.html

This peaked my interest. . .how is this possible for recently married folks?

She needs to see a medical doctor because there are some vaginal diseases treatable and tolerable. Treatable diseases are more likely to go away with proper medication and care. Tolerable diseases are managed, but doesn't go away even with proper medication and care.

Men must understand that in order for a woman to properly enjoy sex, she needs to be aroused and lubricated. Some women aren't able to self lubricate meaning her lubricative glands aren't functioning as it should. KY jelly is one form of lubricative agent used for vaginal and anal sex.

If your woman isn't lubricated more likely she isn't aroused. If you are into pleasing your woman then you must take time to know what pleases your woman sexually even if she isn't vocal about her desires. Arousal and Lubrication deficiency is very common in women's sexual life.

Some of you have been and are with women suffering from these issues and didn't KNOW IT.

Are you sure you are in love with the man. Do you love him ?.

camelot: it appears u r not in love with your husband and ur heart is somewhere else

it's either your heart is somewhere else or you married him for the wrong reason.

camelot: it appears u r not in love with your husband and ur heart is somewhere else

it's either your heart is somewhere else or you married him for the wrong reason.

spikedcylinder: Watch blue film.

. I dey tell u. Dats better