She's my babe backs then at the university.
Very caring and lovely gal to be with. My plan is to marry her but, my parents are not in support has the facts that she's an Igbo gal.
Not because she's an Igbo is the problem but they said they don't want me to marry from a far place. We both separated in a good term. Despite the separation, we do check on each other at time via social medium.
After some months we both get to find another lover and things are moving smoothly for both of us. She got married April this year while am trying to do mine by November.
The problem now is that she has being calling me almost every time for the past 3 weeks telling me how she's unhappy with her marriage. She said she was forced to marry the guy by her parents and that the guy attitude towards her is unbearable. She always confess that she still love me more than the guy despite the facts that she knows my gal. Now this is causing issues between me and my babe because of the way she calls me at time. Please kindly help me with advices, should I tell her to stop calling me or I should just try and change my line all because of her.
Help a friend.

Op, Dats sumbodys wife, block her 4rm culling u, 4get her 4 life. Disconnect d communication and d feelings wl vanish. Start gvin ur babe d attention u were gvin her, u wl b happy again

Nedfed:
She's my babe backs then at the university.
Very caring and lovely gal to be with. My plan is to marry her but, my parents are not in support has the facts that she's an Igbo gal.
Not because she's an Igbo is the problem but they said they don't want me to marry from a far place. We both separated in a good term. Despite the separation, we do check on each other at time via social medium.
After some months we both get to find another lover and things are moving smoothly for both of us. She got married April this year while am trying to do mine by November.
The problem now is that she has being calling me almost every time for the past 3 weeks telling me how she's unhappy with her marriage. She said she was forced to marry the guy by her parents and that the guy attitude towards her is unbearable. She always confess that she still love me more than the guy despite the facts that she knows my gal. Now this is causing issues between me and my babe because of the way she calls me at time. Please kindly help me with advices, should I tell her to stop calling me or I should just try and change my line all because of her.
Help a friend.

move on! U nd ur ex r once upon a time# accept d reality, u cannot b 2geda

See question!!!!
Hunhun, do not tell her to stop calling. Tell her to pack to your house.


I believe you are old enough and mature to be considering marriage by November but i am surprised you are unable to make this decision and be firm with it.
Forget that rubbish she said that she was forced. Was she tied with rope to her husband's house?

Your sissy body language is what is still giving her access to you. Pay no attention to her again then she will learn to face her marriage.

You don't need to change your number except it has no effect in connection with your business/job.
Be a man!

Don't do married women, its not good.

Can't you just get a new sim? Cut all forms of communication between you two and focus on ur gf btw no be u send her go marry

TINALETC3:
Op, Dats sumbodys wife, block her 4rm culling u, 4get her 4 life. Disconnect d communication and d feelings wl vanish. Start gvin ur babe d attention u were gvin her, u wl b happy again

Tnx dear, ur advice is noted

Ahmed0336:
Can't you just get a new sim? Cut all forms of communication between you two and focus on ur gf btw no be u send her go marry

Tnx bro

I know how it feels wen u love some one but can't b with them

Used to tink it was easy to let go till I experienced mine

Stay away from her she is married later she will understand but stay away from her

Sabrina18:
Don't do married women, its not good.

Its a lie!! Its good!!!

Hmmn.

selflessposhheart:
I know how it feels wen u love some one but can't b with them

Used to tink it was easy to let go till I experienced mine

Stay away from her she is married later she will understand but stay away from her

hmmn, heared it do hurt deep, nd em d emotional type. dnt wanna experience that tho. love being on my own

It is unwise to take advantage of another man"s wife because of their failed marriage. If you really love her and your current fiancee, you wouldn't yarn to be with her again. This post clearly show you don't love your gf 100%. You should be advising her on how to find happiness in her marriage. And zero any thought of you being with her again from your mind and hers.

TheManofTomorrow:
It is unwise to take advantage of another man"s wife because of their failed marriage. If you really love her and your current fiancee, you wouldn't yarn to be with her again. This post clearly show you don't love your gf 100%. You should be advising her on how to find happiness in her marriage. And zero any thought of you being with her again from your mind and hers.

I do luv my current babe but mind you, am the cause of the break-up btw me and her. That makes me feel for her. Though I av no intention of going back cos she's married.

Ladyjumong:
hmmn, heared it do hurt deep, nd em d emotional type. dnt wanna experience that tho. love being on my own

just like me

Nedfed:

I do luv my current babe but mind you, am the cause of the break-up btw me and her. That makes me feel for her. Though I av no intention of going back cos she's married.

If you love you babe as u claim. Then I don't see a problem looming. Just tell her point blank to move ahead and not cry over spilled milk. Tell her you can't do what she is yarning for and focus giving full attention to your fiancee.

Wish you a sweet marriage in advance.

Nedfed:

I do luv my current babe but mind you, am the cause of the break-up btw me and her. That makes me feel for her. Though I av no intention of going back cos she's married.

Don't feel for her. Bone her and get married pls.

Tnx to you all especially the ladies, I appreciate dis coming out from you.

Let's be truthful...you both won't be happy!!

You're still in love with each other..

Even in marriage..you won't be happy with your preseny gal!

I will advice you to Elope with your EX and leave your family outta it

wahles:
move on! U nd ur ex r once upon a time# accept d reality, u cannot b 2geda

Don't you Grab?

They were forced apart!!!

Born2conquer:

Don't you Grab?

They were forced apart!!!

@ d end of d day ders dz voice inside of him e would follow irrespective of everything here.

Nobody here has d ansa! Make a decision and stick to it, come rain come shine. Aye o pe meji

Born2conquer:
Let's be truthful...you both won't be happy!!

You're still in love with each other..

Even in marriage..you won't be happy with your preseny gal!

I will advice you to Elope with your EX and leave your family outta it

dude ur right.

buh em not with u on the elopin aspect ooo mbok

just dont know what to suggest at that point. buh if trully loves him she would not ave married off to the other guy naa. nah dia she spoil show. bros just move on

Ladyjumong:
dude ur right.

buh em not with u on the elopin aspect ooo mbok

just dont know what to suggest at that point. buh if trully loves him she would not ave married off to the other guy naa. nah dia she spoil show. bros just move on

They both thought getting a new partner would help them out

wetin parents go cause for the life of their children their hand no go fit solve am....Imagine two soul mates separated by flimsy excuses. Distance ko distance ni......

Op write it down...I know you are a very private person, hence you not mentioning nay sexual relationship btwn you but note that you guys will be straffing in future. Yes, write it down

Adaumunocha:
Don't feel for her. Bone her and get married pls.

sissy in as much as thats the right thing to do, our heart wouldnt do so, it do wispher a different thing at times. u know, cuttin off all communication with her would jus worsen or heighten the tension btwn them. does that means they would never come across each other in life. what if some thing else happens after he must ave gotten married. look is not as easy as we make it sound at times. not like em encouraging him to go after a married woman buh i think it high time the both sit together and resolve the issue once nd for all to prevent any nasty thing that might occur in the near future. cuttin off commication totally with her wunt solve the problem, it's just like leaving ur cake half bake.

Born2conquer:


They both thought getting a new partner would help them out

yeah. buh the gel was so fast in jumpin into marriage, i mean she couldnt notice all that during their courting period, if at all there was one. or was she just in a haste to marry off or something. she wasnt thinking of him when she was doing all that, why now the guy wants to get married, she cant be doing that to him nah, yeah em not doubting the love she has for him. buh to me she's just been selfish. what does she want the guy to do nah. to come in between she and her husband and snatch her out ?

she is jus confusing this guy.

Intrepid01:
wetin parents go cause for the life of their children their hand no go fit solve am....Imagine two soul mates separated by flimsy excuses. Distance ko distance ni......

Op write it down...I know you are a very private person, hence you not mentioning nay sexual relationship btwn you but note that you guys will be straffing in future. Yes, write it down

yeah i guess so.

Ladyjumong:
yeah. buh the gel was so fast in jumpin into marriage, i mean she couldnt notice all that during their courting period, if at all there was one. or was she just in a haste to marry off or something. she wasnt thinking of him when she was doing all that, why now the guy wants to get married, she cant be doing that to him nah, yeah em not doubting the love she has for him. buh to me she's just been selfish. what does she want the guy to do nah. to come in between she and her husband and snatch her out ?

she is jus confusing this guy.

I'm actually scared of getting married!

It's like a life imprisonment!

I know God will help the dude sha

Born2conquer:


I'm actually scared of getting married!

It's like a life imprisonment!

I know God will help the dude sha

lol, it all about commitment. God him through.

Bro, stop picking her calls, when there is communication gap that feelings will die