I don't really know wat to do  now. my guy dumped cos he saw e talking to guy at night. how do i convince him i wasnt datin the guy

It doesnt quite sound right.
You lead me to think in 2 directions:

1) You have not given us all the info we need, did u do more than just talk with this new guy? was there a hug. . .  a kiss perhaps? and why at night and in public? Did u hold hands with him? How were u dressed and where were u going or coming from?

2) Your boyfriend may've just been looking for a good reason to dump u. If it was just a chat with the new guy, then it definitely isnt adequate for him to dump u, except he has major insecurity issues.

adextra,i doubt if that is the whole story becos i don't see how he should just dump you just like that for just chatting with a guy at nite.pls update the story.

Girl we need to know more details to be able to give your advice, and i think there is more to this story.

Omo Eko:

Girl we need to know more details to be able to give your advice, and i think there is more to this story.

true, u sure there ain't more to this whole story and u wasn't doing more than just talking to the other guy?

your guy is whack. what sort of stupid excuse is that. at least you were not shagging him so why shld he dump u. he was prbly looking for an excuse to dump u. forget him. you prbly deserve more. he might not be the right person for you.

But if you did more than that u prbly deserved to be dumped.lol

i guess it was his ego, i feel if u try sum mur begging, and the use of gurl power, u cud win him back, except his mind is made up

**yawn**