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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Pweetyjuddy(f): 11:15am On Sep 23, 2017
Lol
braine:


Okay. I concur. Based on where you're from, I totally concur. grin
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Temysteve(m): 11:20am On Sep 23, 2017
Abeg mix viagra with drink for him and see how you'll both last more than 2hrs. By the time he spend is 2min and realise the dick is not coming down he'l surely continue.

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by CraePixie: 11:31am On Sep 23, 2017
This is not a big deal at all..Bleep his ego! talk to him about what you need and how you can achieve it together...it is a million times better to face your issues than soaking it in and trying out extra marital affairs, if you do it and get caught, people would not blame him again...the blame would be on you...sex is suppose to be a gift meant to be enjoyed.

Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Kimkardashain(f): 11:32am On Sep 23, 2017
Peterosky:
.I am in totality against the attitude of the man towards his wife.I know the importance of sex in marriage and can never support any man who can not live up to his sexual responsibility. I seriously feel for any woman in this terrible situation.Just that the Op at this point needs advice that will solve the problem in her family instead of fueling the problem. But i am glad you admitted your mistake. It only leaves me with more love and respect for you. She smiles.
tnks hun
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Samsimple(m): 11:33am On Sep 23, 2017
3verblazing:
theres a big difference between sperm n semen bro...
u want to teach me biology nw or what... Semen contains sperm so what are u getting at
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Abyus(m): 12:11pm On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!


let me just tell u the whole truth, in as much as I agree with u that he has sexual dysfunction, I must also reiterate that if his sperm is fertile and good it doesn't matter if he pours it out in 5 seconds you are suppose to get pregnant.
bottom line; both of you should visit a good doctor in a specialize hospital as soon as u can.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by gabe: 12:21pm On Sep 23, 2017
Do we even have marriage counsellors in Nigeria? or even psychologists you can both see. Because if e enter family members level, all they will tell you is 'endure. you are not the first'. pastors' own 'is pray and be patient'. I suggest you talk things over with him first. communication does wonders. if you want a child, study and use billings method. Discuss it with your husband as it takes 2 to succeed. most catholic churches have a billings method training program. ask around.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by sfinkzslot(m): 12:23pm On Sep 23, 2017
sfinkzslot:
another day, another load of poo. keep serving it u hear, one day you will surely get your own o!
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by IkpuMmadu: 12:33pm On Sep 23, 2017
amakadihot87:
.............oh really u are a man?but that ur monica speaks otherwise..........what is IKPU..........matured men dont bother about such

I am telling you my perspective...and the name means human püssy like aka mmadu ...human hand
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by mod9: 12:47pm On Sep 23, 2017
Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by mod9: 12:48pm On Sep 23, 2017
What is this one saying?
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by amakadihot87(f): 12:51pm On Sep 23, 2017
IkpuMmadu:


I am telling you my perspective...and the name means human püssy like aka mmadu ...human hand
........yeah iknow but what i dont know is why a man who doesnt care about a womans satisfaction would bear that monica
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Kingofacity: 1:12pm On Sep 23, 2017
sit him down and talk things out...
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by stuffs4me(m): 1:15pm On Sep 23, 2017
Samsimple:

whether he last 30 secs or one hour he still releases d same sperm... U cant tell his family but u can tell nairaland ha ha ha... I think the problem is with both of u... If its abt d pregnancy then its u bcuz d man released...

Best solution seek help from ur doctor


The woman is just too dumb to realise this.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Felixabel(m): 1:19pm On Sep 23, 2017
Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...
U are nonentity fool idiot like u don't worry someone will do same to ur wife

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Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 1:28pm On Sep 23, 2017
jennyluv090:
Can somebody tell me where I have gone wrong. We have been married for 3 years and have a lovely son. We both want another child but my husband hardly touches me. He asked me to move to my room because the cry of the baby disturbs him at night. Now when I need sex badly i have to go to his room start initiate sex. No pre-intimacy. Most times, he tells me he s tired. On the other times he would penetrate me and even before i become wet in 3o seconds, he has released. I really dont know how to handle this. I love my husband. Im sure he s battling on how to solve his problem but he keeps blaming me infront of his family that i am the reason we dont have a second child. I have been tempted on one or 2 occasions to tell them about his bedroom problems, but i choose to save his ego.

Please help out!!
I deeply admire ur stance as ahonourable African wife and mother
Forget d nauseating bullshit some NL memebers are writing above
Send ur email through a quote to my comment and l'll send u an e-book for u and ur husban....it is d perfect solution for his problems
Further, warn him to cease accusing you in front of d family, or else u will divorce him and spill d beans in open court
I'm a lawyer and ur husband's situation is a ground for dissolution of marriage, but just tell him d above to scare him......God bless

In d alternative whatsapp me on 07019339722, so l can send it through that medium
Quote and send ur email for the book, stay blessed
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Ninethmare: 1:29pm On Sep 23, 2017
Felixabel:

U are nonentity fool idiot like u don't worry someone will do same to ur wife
No kill urself on top another person matter...
Try and check ur BP i think its higher than mount everest...
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by bayocanny: 2:31pm On Sep 23, 2017
Adaumunocha:
Sometimes knowing you have the power to make things happen really help with some of these marital issues. Don't visit his room anymore... He'll come looking for you. Get a very good toy if you open minded for such( It never fails). Plus pray.
I'm amazed with your comments
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by bayocanny: 2:54pm On Sep 23, 2017
kimbraa:
You "Liked" and "Shared" your own post with your alternates and still quote yourself to feel you made sense. cheesy grin

Guy, why two "Likes" and two "shares" on that crap you wrote and the intelligent comments haven't garnered much?. cheesy

Na wa!.
Lol, how did u know?
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Towapa: 3:10pm On Sep 23, 2017
Ninethmare:
You don't need my advice you actually need my address
Am home alone
When am through with you, you husband will call to thank me...
You are heartless
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by DONADAMS(m): 4:19pm On Sep 23, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
Are you sure I'm the one you're looking for?
It might be my twin brother ilegendd
People mix us up all the time, because I never got a PM from you.
lol...ohhh soori..I just checked.. You and this your twin sha
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by chidistrong: 4:28pm On Sep 23, 2017
This issue will best be resolved with communication. Try to find out your husband's happy hours and period. Politely discuss this issue with him and in unionism you provide an approach that will help you both.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by YelloweWest: 4:49pm On Sep 23, 2017
Skmoda360:

Nah, i don't play blame game without no prove.
Story
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by oloriIT(m): 4:52pm On Sep 23, 2017
My Sister, you have done well by keeping the issues within both of you even though he was putting the blame on you.

I think it's a problem that can be solved. You can send me a mail for advice on how he can solve this problem.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by cKing1000(f): 4:56pm On Sep 23, 2017
Ninethmare:

Yeah your nightmare
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 6:10pm On Sep 23, 2017
bayocanny:

Lol, how did u know?
I followed the thread from the first page, on second page only one comment got a "Like" at the time and others didn't. Down to where he made that comment, he was the last person to have commented there, and seconds after he dropped it he gave himself two "Likes" and "Shares" which was unlikely if he wasn't the one doing it himself. Then he used one of the account to quote and praise his comment. grin

He's very insecure and does this often, more especially when he's having a fight with someone. Again, from how he pointed out that the op should take his advise and how he called all Nairalanders who've commented before him unintelligent showed he was the one behind it.
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by bayocanny: 6:24pm On Sep 23, 2017
kimbraa:
I followed the thread from the first page, on second page only one comment got a "Like" at the time and others didn't. Down to where he made that comment, he was the last person to have commented there, and seconds after he dropped it he gave himself two "Likes" and "Shares" which was unlikely if he wasn't the one doing it himself. Then he used one of the account to quote and praise his comment. grin

He's very insecure and does this often, more especially when he's having a fight with someone. Again, from how he pointed out that the op should take his advise and how he called all Nairalanders who've commented before him unintelligent showed he was the one behind it.
Omg! Hahahahah.
Kudos to you, you are very intelligent grin
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 6:28pm On Sep 23, 2017
bayocanny:

Omg! Hahahahah.
Kudos to you, you are very intelligent grin
He knows not to argue. I'd have exposed him further, and if you check, he didn't get more likes or shares after 24hours. grin
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by bayocanny: 6:30pm On Sep 23, 2017
kimbraa:
He knows not to argue. I'd have exposed him further, and if you check, he didn't get more likes or shares after 24hours. grin
Yes I saw the comments, lol.
Clap for yourself jor
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by Nobody: 6:32pm On Sep 23, 2017
bayocanny:

Yes I saw the comments, lol.
Clap for yourself jor
cheesy grin
Re: Sex Once In 3 Months, Lasts 30 Secs Yet He Blames Me For Not Giving Him A Child by bayocanny: 6:40pm On Sep 23, 2017
kimbraa:
cheesy grin
How is your day going?

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