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But if you like to read something deeply inspiring, and if you'd love to learn something that would enable you develop a better mindset, then take time to read this.
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SEX, MONEY, and RELATIONSHIPS.
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This morning I stumbled upon a post where my friend Bruno had asked the question “Is it right for a girl to ask her boyfriend for money”. I was just about airing my views on the matter but I had decided to first read through the previous comments, and I was honestly dumbfounded by the opinions of some girls. When a girl was told to ask her father for money, she retorted saying that the guy should also ASK his mother for sex.
Firstly, I want to make it known that this is the most stupid thing a girl can ever say or think of, and I advise that as a guy if you ever come across a girl with such a mentality, please do yourself the favor of running very far from the idiot. Such a mindset shows that such a girl is grossly uneducated, and unfit for civilization, this is a primitive way of thinking, and girls who hold such opinions as true, should be taken back in time to the 12th century and left there for good. Such girls are not fit to be mothers who hope to raise independent and powerful ladies of society.
This goes to show that many guys are in relationships or rather "entanglements" with coded prostitutes who do not have the nerves to LovePeddler themselves out in the open, and so they attach themselves to unwary guys, masking their real intentions under the guise of dating. It also goes to show that majority of the girls have nothing to offer in a relationship except sex. If you happen to be a girl with such a backward mentality, then allow me to help you experience a paradigm shift in order that you will not frustrate a guy with your stupidity in future times.
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Giving a girl money is a favor; it is not her right, it is not the guy’s responsibility, neither is he obligated to do so. It is an act of good will, and if it ever happens that he cannot immediately give her money then she should either work for her own money or ask the person whose obligation it is to tend to her financial distress (her father).
Having sex with a guy is not a favor you do the guy, neither is it his right to demand sex from you; it is an act enjoyed by both parties based on mutual consent. You both agreed to have sex, to fulfil each other’s sexual desires, and I do not understand why majority of girls see this as a favor when studies have shown that females even enjoy sex more than the males involved.
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But if I may ask, why will a girl feel she has the right to ask her boyfriend for money? If you ask her why she will not work hard to earn herself the means to take care of her needs, most of them offer the excuse that they are in school, and this leaves me wondering if guys are not meant to go to school but rather to work hard just to take care of a girl’s needs simply because she is having sex with him even when she is also enjoying the sex. I fail to see the sense behind this level of stupidity because it is really deep! Some of these guys are in school too, and if they cannot take care of her needs, the girls cheat by keeping other men outside who they sleep with just for meagre handouts. And even in the case where their boyfriends are working, the girls fail to understand that majority of these guys abandoned schooling to work to take care of their own pressing concerns, family issues, etc.; and they feel no compunction whatsoever burdening the poor dude with their own troubles. Honestly a lot of this girls are just plain lazy, stingy and deeply stupid because there is no shortage of examples of girls in school who take pains in doing odd/menial jobs in addition to their schooling just to be able to take care of themselves, these independent ladies are the true heroes of womanhood, because for the main reason that they are independent of any man, no man can take them for granted, no man can find the nerve to disrespect them. Feminism will never be achieved as long as girls feel it is a boyfriend’s obligation to take care of their financial difficulties. But I don’t put all the blame on the girls, because most of them were raised by mothers who had to marry a man for the financial benefits, choosing to become housewives who are nothing but a liability to the men who married them.
Some even say “I will not ask, but he should know when I need money”. Madam the fact that you do not ask doesn’t make you any better or different from those who do, because the mindset that he is supposed to give you money still exists in you, just that you don’t have the nerve to actually ask for it. You are a stingy idiot! You yourself, how many times have you gone through your boyfriend’s wallet, found it empty, and put some of your own money (which you earned) into it? How many times have you given your boyfriend money without him asking? How many times have you surprised him by taking him out on a date and footing the bills? How many times have you spontaneously sent him airtime? All you do is Bleep and collect money. And yet you wonder why he treats you like a rag. No man treats a diamond like charcoal, if he treats you like a rag, watch it, you have been behaving like a rag.
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If you have read this and still hold the same mindset, save yourself the trouble of having a boyfriend and simply go to the streets where you can unleash your inner LovePeddler and get paid for it.

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Lol... Same topic

l ove money!


I love sex like kilode! raw sex can make me forget some acrimonious moments.my future wife please deny me food, don't cook for me, but don't deny me entrance to strong room.


relationship! !! mtchwwww! !!! overrated.

@ op .....ur topic make sense


I will invite my ex -gfrnd to NL just to read this post



tho it's normal to assist our bae in 1 way or another but not like every prblm must be solve by ur bfrnd ...


If ur guy always satisfied ur needs , then u too need to know hw to appreciate no matter hw small the gift u received from him & don't be like ( it's ur duty of coz ) do not 4gt dat both of u ar still in dating zone