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Don't Get Married by Nobody: 6:38pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
I can remember the night my aunt, Kemi came to our house rolling on the ground and shedding tears, her hair was tattered, she was spotting a black eye and we thought she was robbed and beaten. We made efforts to contact the police station but she begged us not to. It was obvious something was off, we dialed the number of her husband Uncle Tomi but there was no reply, we tried several times until his phone was switched off. My brother kept fuming, punching the walls, but Aunty kemi kept begging him giving excuses like, what would her friends say, how would her church members see her. We had to beg her to even seek medical attention and downplayed the case of domestic abuse with the doctors so that they do not give a report to the police. she spent months in the hospital and not once did uncle Tomi come to see his wife. He was the definition of a useless man. He was unemployed for 2 years after some downsizing in the company he worked for and Aunty kemi immediately assumed the role of the breadwinner thereafter. She owned a big hair saloon in Lagos with workers who Tomi constantly had extra marital affairs with. You can imagine how juicy the gossips that went on in the saloon would be. It became personal when uncle Tomi shamelessly asked to have sex with me then, I knew I could take his nonsense no more, immediately I went to aunty Kemi to report, and what was her reaction? She covered for the shameless dog with the excuse that men of his age are attracted to other women but wouldn't abandon their wives. It was then I knew she was under a spell. Maybe she was acting this way probably because she married at an older age and she was desperate due the pressure from family and friends. I think she's either too stupid or very brave to have stayed in the marriage for this long, the heartaches, abuse and neglect is just too much for a sane person to handle but keep seeking for any atom of love she can get from that man. Unfortunately she's yet to realize that she doesn't need the man. by Anonymous https://www.sauceandsound.com/2017/09/30/dont-get-married/ |
Re: Don't Get Married by uninvited: 6:50pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
This is serious |
Re: Don't Get Married by purem(m): 6:50pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
Re: Don't Get Married by akinade28(f): 7:04pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
Ok |
Re: Don't Get Married by Nobody: 7:09pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
So because of one person experience people shouldn't marry? What sort of bullshit title is this? |
Re: Don't Get Married by Nobody: 7:13pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
Rokia2: I tire oh by that logic I might wanna rethink using the road to go to work, if only the beam teleporter was perfected I would have had an alternative. 1 Like |
Re: Don't Get Married by Lagboyinibadan(m): 7:54pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
Rokia2:I was thinking exactly the same |
Re: Don't Get Married by Lalas247(f): 7:59pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
I'll just be blunt Aunt kemi is stwepid #fact Ask me why ![]() And please change ur title makes no sense cause the lady saw all the signs she chose to remain and get beat up "even though wrong " doesn't mean ppl shouldn't get married ....no marriage is the same What happened in year one ![]() |
Re: Don't Get Married by Nobody: 8:07pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
Learner blogger |
Re: Don't Get Married by Nobody: 9:08pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
Rokia2: It's is what the writer feels. No one is telling you no to get married. |
Re: Don't Get Married by Drwolf: 8:49am On Oct 01, 2017 |
Rokia2:exactly |
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