MhizzAJ:
..... He's ready to fvck but he's not ready for a child

did he force her to open her legs

goingape3:
shut up with this God god things

didn't the bible said not to commit fornication

why will God bless this kind of sinful act?

this baby is not God sent but rather from the sinful act of it.

all this self-righteous hypocrite who know nothing about God will be giving advises.

useless.

what exactly do mean the baby is not God sent?

David said "in sin did my mother conceive me"...that is a man with legitimate parent, so who amongst us is truly without sin?

there is no illegitimate child ,but irresponsible parents

Chukazu:

what exactly do mean the baby is not God sent?

all good things cameth from above!
if you do it the wrong way! that's didn't came from God.

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

If you abort this baby, you will never carry a baby of your womb again. Wetin you de find from life self? Old woman like you and you're still considering abortion.

Chukazu:


what exactly do mean the baby is not God sent?

David said "in sin did my mother conceive me"...that is a man with legitimate parent, so who amongst us is truly without sin?

that phrase was talking about the adamic sin ( Adam and eve sin which is still affecting us)

Iyajelili:
We have a big river in my village please you and your bf should comman wash your heads. On a serious note OP, i'm 27 but if any man mistakenly impregnate me i won't even entertain his opinion of whether to keep it or terminate it. That is i'm so keeping the precious creature so borrow yourself brain if you don't have one.

Hmmm

goingape3:
there are at times that your child may not be a gift from God and God won't want a child to be born at that particular moment or incident due to some sinful act!

that child in the future maybe become an arm robbers or something else.

Why not wait till future to come before you tag the child "bad".

I ve seen orphan, kids from broken home, go on to make impact in life.

goingape3:
shut up there

is it not the two who agree to fvck themselves?

fish brain!

But you don't think the two should "agree" to take care of the baby together?

lilmax:
she wouldn't be here if she heeded to anything called correction ma'am

baba nla I hail you ooo.

the way you come up with assumptions and conjectures leaves me so speechless.

don't really have much to say,am happy wit the advice people gave you here,I think they have said it all,keep the baby and see what God will do in your life through this baby,we face challenge every day if our life,may God give you the grace to overcome them all.

don't really have much to say,am happy wit the advice people gave you here,I think they have said it all,keep the baby and see what God will do in your life through this baby,we face challenges every day of our life,may God give you the grace to overcome them all.

Na wa o. You are 39 and not ready for pregnancy(yet you had unprotected sex), from ya age i suppose the dude should be older than you say 40 to infinity & he is not ready for marriage(yet he didn't use protection/withdrawal). I guess he is ready for a child & not marriage.. Just pray always & keep the child. He may support in the child's upbringing but definitely not interested in marrying you[color=#000099][/color]

Pls keep the pregnancy... u are almost 40 and in some tribes u r supposed to be a grandmother and just so u know fertility will keep droping. So please sort urself out and have your baby.

ibietela2:


Hmmm

Yes, i'm home

goingape4:
that phrase was talking about the adamic sin ( Adam and eve sin which is still affecting us)

wetin concern David with Adam?

if you think he was talking about Adamic nature why did Christ have to be birthed through a virgin?

see my dear ...there is an element of sin in every sexual act

Ninethmare:
39yrs still not married?
what have you been waiting for all these years?
I guess you must have been too selective
He must be rich, tall handsome, and Educated(take mud go create am)
Now you are desperate to marry

Why didnt you take contraceptives when you had the unprotected sex?
Trying to trap him i guess

Please keep the baby
Menopause is close

Slay queens keep slaying while your mate get married every saturday

Please don't say that again...you have women onyour family and u willhave daughters... Every one has seoeratr destinies that's how God made it.don't conclude she is at fault you don't know her so please don't conclude and assume because a woman is old and not married means she is at fault

Chukazu:


wetin concern David with Adam?

if you think he was talking about Adamic nature why did Christ have to be birthed through a virgin?

see my dear ...there is an element of sin in every sexual act

why didn't Jesus came through someone who is committing fornication


see my dear we are talking the same things.


this her act she did may lead to her born a disable child and ya will said it is an act of god

Ninethmare:
39yrs still not married?
what have you been waiting for all these years?
I guess you must have been too selective
He must be rich, tall handsome, and Educated(take mud go create am)
Now you are desperate to marry

Why didnt you take contraceptives when you had the unprotected sex?
Trying to trap him i guess

Please keep the baby
Menopause is close

Slay queens keep slaying while your mate get married every saturday

Ninethmare:
39yrs still not married?
what have you been waiting for all these years?
I guess you must have been too selective
He must be rich, tall handsome, and Educated(take mud go create am)
Now you are desperate to marry

Why didnt you take contraceptives when you had the unprotected sex?
Trying to trap him i guess

Please keep the baby
Menopause is close

Slay queens keep slaying while your mate get married every saturday

Jimi23:


But you don't think the two should "agree" to take care of the baby together?

when the two is irresponsible what next of action do you think these irresponsible couple would do?

You knew all along that he wasn't ready..yet you kept sexssssing him

apalemighty01:


Seems I have to spell out what the by meant for u. "HIM NO WON MARRY" she should have her baby and forget about him cos all his "not ready" na passive way of saying abort it.

When people are talking of matters of the Heart you have to be careful the way you deal with them, the OP never said the guy did not want to marry, take it you are assuming,manufactured that line or all of a sudden became mouth piece for her.let us stick to the information she provided and comment based on what she tells us rather than assume.

princesscool:
At 39 u are still going out with in responsible man, shame on u

You don't even know its "irresponsible".

shame on you.

be judging there u hear? as if you are better than her.

goingape4:
all good things cameth from above!

if you do it the wrong way! that's didn't came from God.

The bible also says, "All things, (I.e., everything both bad and good) work together for good. Just as Job's wealth was sanctioned from above, his trials was also sanctioned from above. God said He made everything and nothing that was made was ever made without his sanction.
It was also in the Bible that our God instructed a prophet to marry a harlot. Harlot! That child is innocent and as pure every other child. The sin and consequences of it are solely the parents'.

Keep the baby.

IamKashyBaby:



Forget abt the dickhead OP.. u better keep the baby..Who knows that cud be a gifted child or cud be the future President of ur country..


Think positive and look at the bright side always..

if every unborn child is d future president, who will b d future citizens?

goingape4:
all good things cameth from above!

if you do it the wrong way! that's didn't came from God.

what is d wrong way & what is d right way?

Oluwasaeon:
I'm ready for both, babe!

Pls Pm we can end well

lexy2014:
if every unborn child is d future president, who will b d future citizens?

Chaaaai!

Is Buhari not a Nigerian citizen juz bcoz he is ur President?

Nawa for u ooo..

EzeEbira:
Blood of frogs
39 and not married

and what is wrong about it

lareine:
Hi guys,
I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.
I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.
I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.
I had a major surgery(myomectomy)2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)
What are my options healthwise of conceiving in the future?

You are the lucky one. keep and love your baby...