Hi all,
My first post. Please advise.
I have a friend who really liked a guy but from afar. She said nothing to him. About 6 months ago he approached her. She was so happy. But the happiness was short lived. It turned out that he really only had one agenda. She's a V, but she didnt tell him that. The thing just fizzle. She stopped returning his calls and he stopped calling. She heard that he had started dating someone else. Anyhow, fast forward to a week ago. The man is back and seriously making an effort to get back into my friend life. I think she's still hurt and isnt really entertaining it much. She talks to him when he calls but thats about it. Do you think she's making a mistake in not giving him a chance? I dont know wat to tell er.

Same guy same agenda. Leopard's don't change their spots easily especially where s-ex is concerned.

I hate to tell her to stay away because I have a tendency to be close-minded but my gut says to tell her to shut it down.

SunnyDayz:

I hate to tell her to stay away because I have a tendency to be close-minded but my gut says to tell her to shut it down.

Follow your gut! It wont stear you wrong.

if she wants to give it up. . , let her give it up. . .afterall, she really really like the dude?