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Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by GetMeRight: 4:43pm On Oct 04, 2017
yougos:
Fellow Nairalanders,
Please I need some advice...


My wife is pregnant and the Doctor in the hospital she registered for Ate-natal is a very good friend of mine though my wife didn't know that that's the hospital that my Doctor friend works...When she came back and told me, I was like "Whaaaat" shocked

Am thinking of her going to another hospital...

If you where in my shoe, what will you do



Matured mind please!!!


You are still going to be the decision maker here. If you are not comfortable with the situation, look for another doctor or hospital. Simple.
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by GetMeRight: 4:51pm On Oct 04, 2017
alignacademy:


What's really the issue here?

Shouldn't the safety of your wife and unborn child be of a higher priority?

It all depends on the kind of things you see as serious issues though
The issue is that he doesn't someone he knew to see his wife's private. It might not be a big deal to you, but he's not comfortable with it.
Transferring the patient to another doctor or registering at another good or better hospital solves the issue of wellbeing of his wife and child. It is not as if he's the only competent doctor or only good hospital.
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by victorioushands: 4:54pm On Oct 04, 2017
It's a simple matter, register her in another hospital. He cannot be the only good gynecologist around. If you don't, very soon and somehow, you will live to regret it and it will be solely your fault.
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by scantee(m): 5:03pm On Oct 04, 2017
Capital NO, except no other alternative or is an emergency, if not I can't stand it, imaging any time that my Dr friend visits our home eh i will uncomfortable.


No no no

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Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by rhames(m): 5:06pm On Oct 04, 2017
phemiee1810:
bro to be sincere with you your wife health comes first and that of your unborn child I hope you don't belong to those that believe a male doctor shouldn't attend to their wife bro we are in the 21st century let him do his work and attend to her if he is capable Don't because of the fact that he happens to be your friend and take your wife to those who won't be able to handle her bro a order is enough for the wise Thanks

Very much on point.
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by SURElee(f): 5:07pm On Oct 04, 2017
9jakohai:
Most doctors when examining a female patient see her as a 'patient' not as someone to 'have some fun with'.

While of is true that some doctors are nasty pieces of work, most of us just get on with the job, and that is that.(Most docs do not want to get into trouble with the law)

That said, more women need to specialise in obstetrics and gynaecology. Sadly, many women medics stay away from the field.

Why do women even shy away from that area of specialisation? We seem to have more men as gynaecologist. Let the doctor do his job, as long as he keeps it within the professional boundaries.
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Oct 04, 2017
GetMeRight:

The issue is that he doesn't someone he knew to see his wife's private. It might not be a big deal to you, but he's not comfortable with it.

OK, so it makes him comfortable for a complete stranger to see the "private"

The "private" gets seen anyhow, whether by a stranger or a friend.

If this was about wondering if an amorous relationship could develop, that would be another thing.

But worrying yourself about a simple professional procedure may not be the best use of your time
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by thorpido(m): 5:23pm On Oct 04, 2017
dominique:
Doctors have no business examining a pregnant woman's private parts except if she has an infection down there. What they mostly do is listen to baby's heartbeat, listen to her heartbeat, take BP (if it has not been taken by a nurse) listen to her complaints and advise appropriately. I don't know what gives people the impression that all a gynea does is to work on naked women . What a depraved society we live in
@bolded,what book of scope of medical practice did you get that from?That is what OBYs/GYN are actually trained to do.They offer medical care to women during pregnancy,during childbirth and post-birth Part of such care include examination of reproductive organs.

@the other bolded,I agree with you that's a misconception .

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Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by thorpido(m): 5:31pm On Oct 04, 2017
SURElee:


Why do women even shy away from that area of specialisation? We seem to have more men as gynaecologist. Let the doctor do his job, as long as he keeps it within the professional boundaries.
Becoming a gynae is stressful,takes more long hours of training and is a hindrance to having a settled family.It is easier for men because your work can take you out of the house for 48hrs sometimes.

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Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by SamgoldBaba: 5:41pm On Oct 04, 2017
Mai mum born evri1 of us without seeing a gynecologist or whatever
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by thorpido(m): 5:46pm On Oct 04, 2017
SamgoldBaba:
Mai mum born evri1 of us without seeing a gynecologist or whatever
Your mama try.Times have changed.

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Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by romeorailss: 5:52pm On Oct 04, 2017
Truckpusher:
grin grin grin grin

Paddy me , I dey feel you - No mind people.

The day you go jam ya wife dey follow your Doctor friend dey laugh innocent laugh your mind go come dey do you gbim gbim gbim !!! grin

Hahahaha baba grin U are indeed a real truckpusher
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by mytym1: 5:59pm On Oct 04, 2017
yougos:
Fellow Nairalanders,
Please I need some advice...


My wife is pregnant and the Doctor in the hospital she registered for Ate-natal is a very good friend of mine though my wife didn't know that that's the hospital that my Doctor friend works...When she came back and told me, I was like "Whaaaat" shocked
You're not serious
Am thinking of her going to another hospital...

If you where in my shoe, what will you do



Matured mind please!!!


Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by 3verblazing(m): 6:05pm On Oct 04, 2017
better you letter her know...then see how she reacts... rather than see her reaction when she finds out herself...
for me ur friend can be her gynecologist it's no big deal
her feeling is what matterzz...bu I Bet she won't be comfortable with it
WTF..lol.. the world is truly small
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by romeorailss: 6:05pm On Oct 04, 2017
SamgoldBaba:
Mai mum born evri1 of us without seeing a gynecologist or whatever
Ur mama na superwoman o grin

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Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by romeorailss: 6:06pm On Oct 04, 2017
3verblazing:
better you letter her know...then see how she reacts... rather than see her reaction when she finds out herself...
for me ur friend can be her gynecologist it's no big deal
her feeling is what matterzz...bu I Bet she won't be comfortable with it
WTF..lol.. the world is truly small
So u Don sabi the op for real life grin Abi na u be the doci cheesy
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by romeorailss: 6:07pm On Oct 04, 2017
3verblazing:
better you letter her know...then see how she reacts... rather than see her reaction when she finds out herself...
for me ur friend can be her gynecologist it's no big deal
her feeling is what matterzz...bu I Bet she won't be comfortable with it
WTF..lol.. the world is truly small
So u Don sabi the op for real life grin Abi na u be the doci cheesy
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by Kyllahmc(m): 6:23pm On Oct 04, 2017
And your wife gets seriously uncontrollably Hot... During the puccy touching process.. And eventually your doctor friend come be very bad sexy guy... Lol Na die!


Na Joke o...

Well I'm not in support of that idea, especially the fact that he is your friend,
I don't even like the idea of male doing that work... It should be left for women alone, or are there no capable women out there in the medical field?
The idea doesnt balance even on a common sense...
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by Origin(f): 6:27pm On Oct 04, 2017
The funny thing is the doctor friend could even be avoiding treating her as well.
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by refreshrate: 6:36pm On Oct 04, 2017
Am very selective when choosing friends

I don't have gynaecologist friends so sorry I can't help you here
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by Sytasteme(m): 6:36pm On Oct 04, 2017
yougos:
Fellow Nairalanders,
Please I need some advice...


My wife is pregnant and the Doctor in the hospital she registered for Ate-natal is a very good friend of mine though my wife didn't know that that's the hospital that my Doctor friend works...When she came back and told me, I was like "Whaaaat" shocked

Am thinking of her going to another hospital...

If you where in my shoe, what will you do



Matured mind please!!!


Please tell ur wife about the doctor in charge and if she is not comfortable about it please register else where
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by dominique(f): 7:26pm On Oct 04, 2017
thorpido:
@bolded,what book of scope of medical practice did you get that from?That is what OBYs/GYN are actually trained to do.They offer medical care to women during pregnancy,during childbirth and post-birth Part of such care include examination of reproductive organs.

@the other bolded,I agree with yoo that's a misconception .

I still maintain that a doctor has no business with a pregnant woman's vagina until she's in labour and he has to check how far she's dialated. Speaking from experience.

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Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by GetMeRight: 7:42pm On Oct 04, 2017
alignacademy:


OK, so it makes him comfortable for a complete stranger to see the "private"
If it works for him that way, that should be the solution.
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by tosyne2much(m): 7:44pm On Oct 04, 2017
Truckpusher:
This isn't about insecurity at all. You're overreacting bro.

Let a neutral Doctor handle it for the sake of the future of all parties involved so everyone can feel free with each other if the need arises.

The human mind is a funny place - Don't give room to anything that will give birth to something you can't even imagine now.
Alright bro
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by thorpido(m): 7:45pm On Oct 04, 2017
dominique:


I still maintain that a doctor has no business with a pregnant woman's vagina until she's in labour and he has to check how far she's dialated. Speaking from experience.
He does have business at some point @ bolded. smiley

There are some few instances too like when taking a pap smear.
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by tosyne2much(m): 7:54pm On Oct 04, 2017
Madeu:

The civilization you pointed is based on western ideology.Even though it has helped advance society in some ways, cultural pattern still has to be respected and protected.
No one is disputing the fact that cultural patten has done a lot of good to our everyday life. But saying that civilization is based on western ideology is something I will not agree with.

Betrothing a young female child to a man is something that has been practiced for a long time in this part of the world, but now that civilization has made us understand that these things are nothing bullshit and we are gradually doing away with such a thing. Would you call that a western ideology? No I guess
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by Nobody: 7:54pm On Oct 04, 2017
No matter how good looking your wife is, once she lays down on the patient table, she automatically becomes a patient and the relationship becomes professional. Trust me, doctors don't enjoy looking from one vagina to another, especially when infected.
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by speaktome(m): 8:43pm On Oct 04, 2017
fvckme:


I know say you go talk
But something reasonable


Babe how do you know??
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by speaktome(m): 8:44pm On Oct 04, 2017
Tweetysparkles:
please am always kinda confused, how do you always comment when the news never reach FP. kindly help a sister. Thanks


Are you a leaner?
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by Icon79(m): 8:51pm On Oct 04, 2017
So what exactly is the problem? You don't want your good friend to see your wife's pussy or something?
Ol' boy, na wa for you sef. It's not like your wife's pussy is gonne be the first pussy she would see.

The man, if he's a real gynecologist, dey see pussy every day so what's the big deal with your wife's pussy?
Is it made of gold or something?


O pari o

yougos:
Fellow Nairalanders,
Please I need some advice...


My wife is pregnant and the Doctor in the hospital she registered for Ate-natal is a very good friend of mine though my wife didn't know that that's the hospital that my Doctor friend works...When she came back and told me, I was like "Whaaaat" shocked

Am thinking of her going to another hospital...

If you where in my shoe, what will you do



Matured mind please!!!


Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by Win95: 9:13pm On Oct 04, 2017
As if no be house officer go still deliver the baby
Re: Men, Would You Allow Your Gynecologist Friend Attend To Your Pregnant Wife? by billyG(m): 9:29pm On Oct 04, 2017
yougos:
Fellow Nairalanders,
Please I need some advice...


My wife is pregnant and the Doctor in the hospital she registered for Ate-natal is a very good friend of mine though my wife didn't know that that's the hospital that my Doctor friend works...When she came back and told me, I was like "Whaaaat" shocked

Am thinking of her going to another hospital...

If you where in my shoe, what will you do

Matured mind please!!!


If yu dnt like it go to d bookshop & buy gynecological book yursef,read it,buy handgloves & do d examination yursef.dnt 4get to buy syringes & drugs incase u need to inject her.

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