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Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by Deo1986(m): 10:13pm On Oct 05, 2017
In most African culture, a women has no right over daddy's property but if daddy wants to give any beloved daughter, he should consult his sons first. Since there is a reason for everything, we wont blame daddy much for setting fire to his house but emmy should take it easy if he has a fair share of the property. If not, he should pursue the case traditionally to get his right. After all those ladies may be in their husbands houses living large............ Just passing by.

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Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by pastoray(m): 10:13pm On Oct 05, 2017
NtoAkwaIbom:


in yorubaland a fada cannot will his last living abode to anoda... it blongs to d firstborn...

is better to kip quaet than utter senselessness!

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Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by Cire80: 10:17pm On Oct 05, 2017
Not sharing anything to female children is callous but sharing it equally is callous as well. Ladies must not eat their cake and have it. Much more responsibilities have been given to the male children by the same society . The ladies will be married off and becomes another man's responsibility. If o were the man, I would definitely share a part of my property to the females but definitely not equally.

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Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by vhatpweetygurl(f): 10:17pm On Oct 05, 2017
A signed sealed delivered will, not an intent.That Onyiara is playing with fenced walls.
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by ipobarecriminals: 10:18pm On Oct 05, 2017
fuckboys:
women should quit this line already, there can never be gender equality in this lifetime, maybe in your next life time so deal with it.



All these females parasites still depending on men for livelyhood will still come online screaming gender equality angry
But the shameless son isn't cripple/amputated.So he can't survive without inheritance?.Hear dis,"Mura si ise re iwo ore mi.Ise ni a fi n di eni giga.Bi a ko ba ri eni fehinti,bi ole la nri.Bi a ko ba ri eni gbe oju le,a tera mo ise ni.Baba e le l'owo lowo,iya e le ni esin.ENI GBE OJU LE OGUN FI ARA E FUN OSI TA.....Find somebody to helep u translate am into ogbonje Oyinbo

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Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by pastoray(m): 10:19pm On Oct 05, 2017
TimeMod1:
You're very wrong. mynd44 is spot on.
The last abode becomes the family house.
How do you argue a tradition you're far off from?. Akpan nawa for you o.


The guy is as old as his account... deactivation fall on him
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by pastoray(m): 10:20pm On Oct 05, 2017
NtoAkwaIbom:


can we place a bet on this ?
say if I am wrong I de-activate my account and if u are wrong u do same ?

then we will bring supreme Court judgement to determine who is right and who is wrong ?

in Benin A father cannot will out his last living abode, it is even contained in the wills law.


Guess you're tired of this your account! What is Benin in this matter? some people sha!
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by Sexytemi(f): 10:26pm On Oct 05, 2017
Josephjnr:
Yes! Most Africans consider female children worthless and not actually part of the family. However, he should respect his father's will for the man have the right to even give him(the first child) nothing and give all to the daughters.

please don't generalize o, say Igbo's dont and not most Africans, I'm Yoruba and we share it equally o, in fact sef the woman dey get mouth pass men o because its expected that the man should hustle for his own money.
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by CHARLOE(m): 10:31pm On Oct 05, 2017
[quote author=dvee2 post=61144025] They always shout that Islam is backwards, Northerners are backwards, meanwhile in 2017 a woman can not inherit wealth in Igbo Land. Na wa[/quote
].
Help me tell them, backward people!
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by aceventurx: 10:32pm On Oct 05, 2017
the women will inherit properties from their husbands and still inherit from their father, the late man should have consulted with his sons before making the decisions for peace , family house is owned by sons ,outside properties can be shared among females,
my female cousin got two building from her parent , less than a year she died,her husband sold them off and painted the town red, after all it is free money

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Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by adetayoonas(m): 10:42pm On Oct 05, 2017
aceventurx:
the women will inherit properties from their husbands and still inherit from their father, the late man should have consulted with his sons before making the decisions for peace , family house is owned by sons ,outside properties can be shared among females,
my female cousin got two building from her parent , less than a year she died,her husband sold them off and painted the town red, after all it is free money





So sad





So pathetic post above
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by Nobody: 10:43pm On Oct 05, 2017
And that is why you sit your lazy ass down while at it
TimeMod1:
we all await what we get when our fathers pass on unless your dad is damn poor.
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by ebbo(m): 10:46pm On Oct 05, 2017
Christianity and igbo traditions oppressing female children right from time memorial

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Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by DALE917(f): 11:03pm On Oct 05, 2017
Abeg Abeg
Who will help
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by TimeMod1: 11:12pm On Oct 05, 2017
frenzyduchess:
And that is why you sit your lazy ass down while at it
Tell anyone asking that I'm working for my life. Nevertheless, I'm entitled to my father's wealth as my children to mine. You may not understand only if you're from such a home. wish you were but..
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by TimeMod1: 11:15pm On Oct 05, 2017
DALE917:
Abeg Abeg Who will help
what help?
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by herich(m): 11:17pm On Oct 05, 2017
Sexytemi:


please don't generalize o, say Igbo's dont and not most Africans, I'm Yoruba and we share it equally o, in fact sef the woman dey get mouth pass men o because its expected that the man should hustle for his own money.
This is ridiculous.
So Africa starts and ends in Yoruba only.

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Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by DALE917(f): 11:20pm On Oct 05, 2017
TimeMod1:
what help?




"Will"
I'm talking about the will the father shared
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by akinboluwarin(m): 11:28pm On Oct 05, 2017
You want to dictate to your father right and dishonor his wishes, i don't know why people are wicked, it's even your siblings in this case and you're bringing up tradition, you are simply saying your father is ignorant, do the right thing and try to stay a honourable man.
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by TimeMod1: 11:28pm On Oct 05, 2017
DALE917:





"Will"
I'm talking about the will the father shared
ok. It was quite ambiguous.

pretty you though..
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by aceventurx: 11:29pm On Oct 05, 2017
I have two sons, yet to get a daughter before I will give any of my properties to my daughter, I will access her hubby, seen cases of men becoming lazy over their wives inheritance, even kill their wives for their inheritance , when my dad dies, my mum became in charge of the family business and properties, my daughter is suppose to marry and be in charge of her husband properties

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Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by manny4life(m): 11:33pm On Oct 05, 2017
Some people tend to turn tradition upside down... It's incorrect to say women don't inherit properties from their late parents, they do. It's only a family house and some cases, family land, that woman never inherits. As for businesses and properties, that's wrong. Mr. Emmy would more than likely lose in court.
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by aceventurx: 11:42pm On Oct 05, 2017
why give the main family house to women, who knows? very soon men go dey answer their wife last name , after all some married women put their father name before their hubby last name , tradition is been turned up side down , women should inherit business ,outside properties, not village or family house
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by tochukwu75(m): 11:42pm On Oct 05, 2017
Let the Women brief me, so I will handle the case for them.
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by salt1: 11:43pm On Oct 05, 2017
ebbo:
Christianity and igbo traditions oppressing female children right from time memorial

Try to avoid generalization. How is Christianity oppressing female children? It teaches that before God all souls are equal.

Even the Igbo culture differs from community to community. The only properties that Igbo daughters don't generally inherit are the ancestral homes. It makes sense because she and her husband can't pack into her father's house after giving her out in marriage.

I don't even like this will business. How about empowering the children when you're alive? An Igbo family gave their daughter a block of six flats as wedding gift.
Fathers who have sons like Emmy should settle them early and not cause confusion with a will.

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Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by laudate: 11:51pm On Oct 05, 2017
osazsky:
d guy is right for those who are binis ,d house were d man died cannot b included in d will in fact its a taboo
Erm... isn't Bini culture different from Yoruba culture?

woodmood:
In the first part of your argument you said Yoruba and now you say in benin. Are you related to confuscus? Always learn to articulate your points and get your facts before coming on line. Fyi, Yoruba tradition does not discriminate between children when it comes to assets sharing.

I thought I was the only one who noticed this.... undecided
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by laudate: 11:56pm On Oct 05, 2017
NtoAkwaIbom:
guy calm down.
Yoruba is the umbrella, Benin is a subset unda d big Yoruba umbrella.

are u will to bet ur moniker that in the Beni culture a man cannot will out his last house to any body except d first son ?

if yes, reply if u r not willing then move ahead
Guy, take it easy. The Bini people do not have the same inheritance practices, as the Yoruba people. They are two totally different forms of tradition. Among the Bini/Edo people, the first son inherits everything, unlike among Yoruba people, where the property is shared equally among the children, or equally among the wives of the deceased and their offspring. So where is the similarity?? shocked
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by laudate: 12:00am On Oct 06, 2017
NtoAkwaIbom:
for ur info the topic here is about the IGBO custom.
I only said that in some cultures and some properties that customs overule the will.

and I made reference to the Iji-Ogbe custom of the Benin people a subset of the Yoruba kingdom to back my claim.

so if u r poised on holding on to my earlier arguments which was that in Yoruba king, based on the place, and property that culture will overul a will..
then I will tell you that the place in the Yoruba kingdom is the Benin Area and the property in question is the Ijio-Ogbe...
so what's your argument exactly??

Guy, you are confusing Bini cultural practices, with Yoruba custom. sad Both are totally different. They might have had links in the past, but not anymore - they have evolved into two distinct cultures. Stop arguing blindly. undecided
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by DALE917(f): 12:04am On Oct 06, 2017
TimeMod1:
ok. It was quite ambiguous.

pretty you though.

Thank you
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by juman(m): 12:12am On Oct 06, 2017
Funny thread.

But we muslims, Islam gives half of what given to the male child to the female child.

If two is given to a male child, one is given to a female child.

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Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by juman(m): 12:21am On Oct 06, 2017
dvee2:
They always shout that Islam is backwards, Northerners are backwards, meanwhile in 2017 a woman can not inherit wealth in Igbo Land. Na wa
Re: Man 'fights' His Late Father For Including His Female Children In His Will by juman(m): 12:24am On Oct 06, 2017
Egein:
This is a snippet of what Biafra would look like it ever comes to being. Saudi Arabian women will be freer than their Biafran counterparts.

Do you know that in Igboland women, by tradition, aren't to inherit landed property?

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