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I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by onila(f): 8:21pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
it just depends on if you want to work hard where ever you are i live in the west but my housemates complain how lazy i am Africa is not bad as I think it is 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by hungryboy(m): 8:47pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
ever since i join this forum,sister na only you and mamagee were dey always create topics were need translation for this nl , abeg who hear wetin she dey talk make him help me translate am 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by IAMSASHY(f): 8:56pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
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Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by gabinogem(m): 9:00pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Lol...do you feel you are actually lazy ![]() |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by akaahs(m): 9:39pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Just can't understand this threat
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Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by smardray(m): 9:54pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
yes life is hard all around...
the hardness goes even as far as ur watery brain |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by onila(f): 10:10pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
gabinogem: i don't but some people said i am it hurts but i have to struggle, life ain't easy |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Nobody: 10:24pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
This thread is almost sensible,a first from onila.Life is hard everywhere jare.You just gotta double your hustle. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by gabinogem(m): 11:11pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
onila:Do You Have Any Idea Why They Think You Are Lazy...or What Do You Normally Do That Makes Those People Say You Are Lazy? |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Born2conquer: 11:13pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
Onila but you get sense before! Your threads do make sense..you do post about people cultures from all over the world "beautiful people from this and that" But recently it seems your brain has been hacked! You just go about opening Stupid thread all in the name of attention! Why! Leave this fuckery to FrustratedRat and Mamagee |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by louiskay(m): 11:19pm On Oct 05, 2017 |
onila: Abeg make we swap location.... Biko ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by onila(f): 3:09am On Oct 06, 2017 |
gabinogem: because at the moment i am not working . .not because I don't want to work i am still deciding if I should go back to school or work i want to think before i make a major life decision so some people in the house think I am lazy because they think I have been thinking for so long ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by gabinogem(m): 6:30am On Oct 06, 2017 |
onila:...you need to prove them wrong then, by doing the needful... 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Nobody: 7:52am On Oct 06, 2017 |
ONILA WHY!?
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Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Nobody: 9:28am On Oct 06, 2017 |
life is hard everywhere just that it seems harder here |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Augustap(f): 10:47am On Oct 06, 2017 |
hungryboy:
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Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Augustap(f): 10:47am On Oct 06, 2017 |
Onila ur drugs don finish? ![]() |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by onila(f): 1:08pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
Diffident: thanks dear |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Nobody: 1:48pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Fulaman198(m): 4:16pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
Yep, life is indeed hard everywhere. You have to work hard to succeed everywhere you go. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by olaboy1: 4:29pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
I think you are recently coming to terms with the reality of life, and the laid back approach of your Africaness is conflicting with the hard work ethics of the west, you suddenly realized that many people do 2-3 jobs to stay afloat compared to Naija lifestyle. Don't let this overwhelm you or demoralize you and don't let anyone push your gas pedal faster than you could handle, take your time and soon you would start to figure things out and the journey becomes clearer. Make sure u are working at least 2 hrs daily just to keep you in perspective. Ask yourself some basic questions like >> what's the core reason why I feel less motivated >> what steps can I take to feel motivated again >> where do I want to be in 2-5yrs time Write down all your answers and gradually walk your way up. I wish u good luck 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Fulaman198(m): 4:32pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
olaboy1: If someone gets the right education, they only need to work 1 job in the United States, Canada, and other "first world" Western nations. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Nobody: 5:10pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
Of course life is hard, it's not just hard its unfair coupled with survival of the fittest. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by olaboy1: 5:13pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
Fulaman198: Yes, I was referring to her post where she alluded to further her education or opt for jobs. You agree with me that it is going to be a tough task to combine work and study in the west considering all the bills you need to pay and also especially if OP needs to pay tuition fees. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Fulaman198(m): 5:38pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
olaboy1: Oh I got you. I agree that it is difficult to combine study and work in the West. That is very true. But if she is in a situation where she can not go back to school full-time what she could do is work part-time and then go to school part-time. Many Western countries at big renowned schools offer their degrees online, so she could consider that (e.g. Arizona State University, Pennsylvania State University, University of Illinois, etc.). There is a coffee company in North America known as Starbucks, if she works part time there, she could have her school paid for freely by them: https://asunow.asu.edu/20170322-asu-news-starbucks-partnership-expands-pathway-to-admission If I were in her situation, I would try to find a company like Starbucks, even if the pay is menial, she could attempt to work maybe 20 - 25 hours a week, and then pick a major from their online degree major that will be well-paying like Software Engineering or Electrical Engineering. Just my 2 kobo. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by olaboy1: 5:44pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
Fulaman198: Your advice is golden. Hope OP can seize this advice and look up that link. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Fulaman198(m): 6:15pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
olaboy1: Thanks bros |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Fulaman198(m): 6:15pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
Fulaman198: |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by waywardpikin: 6:39pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
hungryboy: At least she's no longer a virgin. We can be thankful for that at least ![]() |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by lastmessenger: 7:57pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
onila:in Africa even the least paid job is difficult to get but there in the west u can always work if u are ready to work. You can never compare the west to Africa. Make a decision quick and get going .there is no time staying at home thinking if u want to make it in the west. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by Fulaman198(m): 11:26pm On Oct 06, 2017 |
lastmessenger: This is false information. In the West (North America), people are quickly being replaced by automated machinery. It only pays to read STEM subjects in the West now unless if you have connections (as in knowing someone who can give you a good job). Corruption exists everywhere. |
Re: I Am Beginning To Believe Life Is Hard Everywhere by onila(f): 5:50am On Oct 13, 2017 |
olaboy1: thanks |
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