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I Have Anger Issues. by hoesaintloyal(m): 8:03pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
My problem is I don't easily react when I'm angry. I just keep quiet and stay calm when I'm pissed. Am I okay? |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by benzene00: 8:04pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
You bloody introvert Grow some balls 1 Like |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Homeboiy: 8:05pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 8:06pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
That's the best way to handle your anger. |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by josh123(m): 8:06pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
hoesaintloyal:u have self control |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by greatnaija01: 8:08pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
You are damaging your health by "BOILING ON THE INSIDE" let is out n let it go... That is the most HONEST way to handle anger... but if you keep it in, you will always bring it up in the future.... hoesaintloyal: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 8:08pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
You are cool, I like your type. You know how to control your feelings. |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 8:10pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
my spec 1 Like |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 8:13pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
MaritzaNL: sekxy:thé type you can easily take for a ride right? 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 8:16pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
jamarifox:when has it become a taboo to admire a good attitude? ?violence leads to nowhere.and like I said,he's my spec! ! 2 Likes |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 8:16pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
sekxy:sorry mademoiselle |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by amokeme(f): 8:18pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
sekxy:You know how we hear that a gentle man killed someone and we are all just wondering.. "how can this gentle soul be capable of something like this"? Yeah... it usually starts like the OP's description.. trust me, you don't want a lot of bottled up emotions to burst on you 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by hoesaintloyal(m): 8:35pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
amokeme: Na wa o! I doubt if i'll ever be driven to that brink of madness. |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Prec1ous(m): 8:39pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
Some people are calling you the cool type, very funny. You are a dangerous type. You are bottling the anger and it never goes away |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by hoesaintloyal(m): 8:43pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
Prec1ous: You are wrong actually. It's true that people such as me would bottle up such negative emotions but I dwell on certain principles like what will be will be. And you don't hassle yourself over a situation that is out of your hands. Besides, its true that I'm an introvert and often times avoid physical confrontation. Even when provoked, I bow to the voice of reason before ever taking action. That's just me. |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Blackhawk01: 8:43pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
hoesaintloyal: You're bottling up your emotions, you'll eventually get tired of taking it in one day and explode, it's gonna be more disastrous. Just vent reasonably when you can. |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 8:44pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
How's that having anger issues?LOL. That's keeping your cool. But don't keep it everytime oh, or you'll unleash it all at once one day and that won't be nice. |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 8:44pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
MaritzaNL: Its his type that will one day come to work with gun and anoint everyone in the office |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 8:46pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
hoesaintloyal:What if one single person keeps bothering or angering you? You are sure to get sick of it one day and then vent all the pent-up anger on the person. It's end-product is usually disastrous. Try to get angry once in a while. |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Jagermeister(m): 8:48pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
hoesaintloyal: You would pally. Mentally unstable people don't know that they are mentally unstable. People with paranoia, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, dementia and Co don't know they are ill and would deny they have this anomalies. When I'm an angry, I'll go all out to express my anger, everybody around and away MUST know I'm angry because I have to vent. After the venting comes a certain calm. I'm at peace and I almost regret my actions. Now in my case, I know I have anger issues but I won't keep it in. For you however, it's lethal because someday; unlike mine that comes in tiny bits, yours will come like an avalanche and you might kill. My advice; get angry outwardly if you have to, it's only human and it's normal. Jesus was physically angry in the Bible. Gods wrath destroyed the world with water. Why can't you vent then. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Prec1ous(m): 8:49pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
hoesaintloyal: I was not through with that comment. But I like that you understand yourself, but in the battle of emotions, you can not always win. Please, if something annoys you, do speak out and stop claiming introvert. Say how it hurts you and let it die. Most psychos are introvert and it starts from bottling anger up and one day they just go nuts. While flaring up all the time is uncalled for, it is more grevious keeping it all in. The guy who was shooting people the other, it all started from bottled emotions till he had to vent it on innocent people. Please, recheck your stand and be vocal. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 8:53pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
hoesaintloyal: Op u said, u are quiet and calm when angry But the issue is this? Do u just keep calm seething in anger, with various kind of volcanoes burning inside of u? Or u are calm, abit angry and later indifferent . So which first? Before I say my mind |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Adaumunocha(f): 8:59pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
hoesaintloyal:Its therapeutic to show ur anger once in a while but don't let it overwhelm u. Stewing inside is not healthy. Hope u saw d picture of that guy that bashed his mum's head to smithereens? Dude probably kept stuff inside until he snapped. |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by hoesaintloyal(m): 9:03pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
Lawlahdey: I avoid such people eventually. |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 9:10pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
hoesaintloyal:What if it's your spouse? |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by hoesaintloyal(m): 9:12pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
Lawlahdey:I'll definitely excuse myself. I can't trade peace of mind for anything. |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 9:19pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
hoesaintloyal:Ohkay. |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 9:33pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
sekxy: |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by amokeme(f): 9:35pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
hoesaintloyal:You are not even sure.. so there is a possibility. Just kidding, but seriously, you need to let out your feelings, and this doesn't mean you should be violent or shout about it, just let it out.. you will feel a lot better |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 9:42pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
sunshineG:lol..I mean spectacles . you have not slept? 1 Like |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
sekxy:yes..I wanted to check your pics one more time before bed |
Re: I Have Anger Issues. by Nobody: 9:45pm On Oct 09, 2017 |
sunshineG:lol,,its all yours baby 1 Like 1 Share |
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