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Please, What Should She Do? by Nobody: 11:10am On Oct 10, 2017 |
Shared as i got from a friend. I live upstairs and she stays downstairs, our rope is just by the backyard where we spread our clothes. So i know her under wear, that particular pink one is her favorite. I see her wash and spread it most times. I am talking about my neighbor. Yesterday evening i was gathering my husband's clothes to the dry cleaners when something fell from his jacket. I picked it up and it was a lady's panties, i knew it was not mine, so i looked at it again and recognized it at the spot. It was my neighbors, i can swear on my life. I did not say a word to my husband because he will deny. Now this my neighbor is married too. So i went straight to her flat, knocked on her door, she opened and i asked to see her husband that my husband sent a message. She called him out, i greeted him, and told him politely that i came to return his wife's property that i saw in my husband's jacket. Then i gave him the panties, the man also recognized it and told me thank you. I left in peace to my flat. I did not hear any noise as per beating or slap. Later my husband was about driving out to buy gas when this my neighbor's husband pounced on him and gave him the beating of his life and even broke his head and side mirrors. I rushed him to the hospital after the compound had gathered. Now he is saying i should pack my load and leave his house. What should i do? 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Nobody: 11:17am On Oct 10, 2017 |
You are smart. 6 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Lovetinz(m): 11:19am On Oct 10, 2017 |
Start packing. Simple. Next time anything falls from ur husband's pocket. Don't pick it up. |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by WowSweetGuy(m): 11:21am On Oct 10, 2017 |
pack and leave asap U dont even know if he mistakenly packed it with his clothes from the line...U just wickedly **#?! infact if u r not out yet..let me help ur husband to throw your stuff outside. Back to ur mama's house fall on u 11 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Samsimple(m): 11:21am On Oct 10, 2017 |
U just joined the unmarried line |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Oyindidi(f): 11:22am On Oct 10, 2017 |
Tales by moonlight 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by psalmson001: 11:38am On Oct 10, 2017 |
You f'd up big time. You have used your hand to do yourself by yourself... |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by coolcharm(m): 11:40am On Oct 10, 2017 |
1 Like |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Nobody: 11:55am On Oct 10, 2017 |
WowSweetGuy:mistakenly packed ko? Abegiiiiiii. You and i know knows that not possible. 6 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by YourFatherLap: 12:07pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
I no dey put mouth for watin no concern me.. 1 Like |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Prognose: 12:21pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Lol, see question! Pack your load and leave his house na, Abi what do you want us to advice you again? |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by abescom: 12:33pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Such a man is useless. Pack and leave and let him live the rest of his life to regret his adulterous life style. What was he expecting? He shagged another man's wife and got what he deserves. A man like that is the reason why feminism talk shit about us men. Leave him, there is someone else out there who deserves you, not that tw*t. 6 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Spylord48: 12:42pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
you took things so far. imagine telling the man that you saw his wife's panties inside your husband jacket. you could have hidden the pant and do some investigation on your own before doing what you did. what if your husband is innocent? what if the man's wife was the one that put the pants inside your husband jacket? is good to investigate before concluding atimes. if he tells you to pack,just do it but still try everything possible to know how everything happened. 8 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Nobody: 1:08pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Spylord48:But, she didnt accuse her husband of anything. Hence, no need of investigation. She only returned the panties to the rightful owner, tru her husband. So, if the woman actually shagged her husband or not.. ., let her explain that to her husband. 12 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by goodness11: 1:29pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
I think you went too far There are men who has a fetish of smelling women panties. It might just be his fetish. He will just smell it and maybe masturbate with it and then return it back to the collection point You should ve talked to him first before reacting. 2 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Nobody: 1:36pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
goodness11:Lol. Well, i guess after the beating he got from the lady's husband.., that fetish will stop by force. 11 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by abescom: 2:16pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
goodness11:The hypocrisy and double standard on the men commenting here is shocking. You guys should just for a minute think about this - you found your wife's pant in your friend's house or pocket, what would you do? Return it to her and tell her "sweetie, you forgot your pant in my friend's house" I guess. If anything that stuupid man ought to have known he has been implicated by the incident and the wife has behaved in the right way albeit too drastic and not ask her to pack simply because he can do so. It is nonsense. If anything, he ought to himself leave the house, calm the f*ck down and then explain and seriously warn the woman to watch it. It is like getting to into a room, finding your best friend in a pool of blood and then trying to help then police come in and you refuse to explain your innocence. That supposed husband is a bully, nothing more. 16 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Zither(m): 2:36pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
I believe you acted in haste. There are some people that a simple and severe caution would suffice to make them desist from their cheating ways. Maybe he feels hurt you denied him that right and that you preceded caution with punishment. Anyways, you did what you believed to be right the outcome no matter. To the matter, I think his telling you to leave his house is his best response to the shame of being caught in his game and disgraced publicly. Best to leave him to lick his wounds and reflect on the futility of his adulterous ways with its many unexpected, unwelcome and dire consequences. He needs time alone to come to his senses. Give him space to do that but before you do that notify his parents or anyone he respects. In my opinion, you may have acted in haste but you have just saved your husband big time....maybe he knows it and is not willing to admit it. 1 Like |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Zither(m): 2:50pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
In fact, don't leave the house. Stay there. Let him do his worst. You are not some housemaid that can be sent packing at anytime when the employer is tired of her presence. You are not on a monthly salary as wife. You are his WIFE for goodness sake! You have always taken good care of him, you left other men to be with him. DO NOT GO ANYWHERE. Stay right where you belong. He should be glad that he only got some beating for his adulterous nature. Tomorrow, who knows what would befall him should he persist in his cheating ways? 11 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
abescom:God bless you dear. 2 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by abescom: 3:12pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Zither:He is a bully. Plain and simple. He wants to have the right to his actions and then determine the consequences of his actions as well. That's impossible. We all react to things differently. And as much as people try to hold grief for him, I am 95% sure that man has shagged his neighbour's wife and is still disrespecting the woman. Idiots like him give pen and paper to feminists. 7 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by ImaIma1(f): 3:35pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Very smart way of handling the issue . He is asking u to leave when he should be explaining to you and apologizing if he is guilty. Call his family to come and judge the case before you leave the house. He needs ro facethe consequences of his actions instead of using sense and strong head to cover it up 3 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
I love how she handled it! 4 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Adaumunocha(f): 4:10pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Nicely done. No need to stress yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Roland17(m): 4:15pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
I don laff die for where i dey. Madam your sense tooooo much. I know say you don size your husband and the woman husband and conclude say the man go beat your husband wella. 10 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by egopersonified(f): 8:22pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
too funny, obviously your husband is not the only other man, he is just the scape goat for others to learn from 1 Like |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by eyinjuege: 10:36pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
The husband probably likes sniffing women's panties, and took the neighbour's pant off the line 3 Likes |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Nobody: 3:32am On Oct 11, 2017 |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by Oyindidi(f): 6:21am On Oct 11, 2017 |
IwantToShashe:The story get as e be |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by ElsonMorali: 7:21am On Oct 11, 2017 |
Then pack out of his house. |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by ElsonMorali: 7:27am On Oct 11, 2017 |
abescom: The woman's action was wrong. Imagine If the husband had just snatched the panties from the line. Giving it back to your neighbor's husband is implicating an innocent woman in your husband's crime. If the neighbor's husband had broken her head instead of your husband's own, that would be sad indeed. What the woman should have done was to have put the pant in a covered plate and served it to her husband for breakfast. No need to say anything after that. He would have taken the hint. 1 Like |
Re: Please, What Should She Do? by abescom: 7:38am On Oct 11, 2017 |
ElsonMorali:So you snatch someone else's wife's panties and keep it in your pocket? And what's wrong in what the woman has done? Imagine the reverse was the case? He finds his best friend's boxer in his wife's car. Let's stop the hypocrisy jare. He shagged that woman and even if he didn't, putting the pant in his pocket has already implicated him. He should know this and not try to be a bully. You unfortunately find yourself in scene where robbery has just taken place, police came who is prime suspect number one? Putting it in a plate and serving it to him also makes sense. However, people react differently to issues. If he was not a bully he would have moved out to think properly. Not ask the woman to leave the house simply because he has the power. That man is a useless un-remorseful bully. End off. 11 Likes |
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