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Dear Guys, Here Are 7 Big Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Michlu84: 8:12am On Oct 13, 2017
As a man, don’t bet your life on everything your woman tells you irrespective of how much you trust and adore her. The fact is that many women lie to their significant others sometimes.
Sometimes, they lie to carry off a situation without hurting the feelings of the men they love or to save themselves from trouble. Others lie on some occasions to contain their emotions and pose as good women so that they won’t be seen as jealous ........ Read more at >>>>>>>> https://www.xclussivegist.com/2017/05/16/dear-guys-7-big-lies-women-tell-relationships/

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Re: Dear Guys, Here Are 7 Big Lies Women Tell In Relationships by chipatra: 8:46am On Oct 13, 2017
abegi, make we read am 4 here jarè!

... or possessive.

Telling white lies is no big deal for women when it comes to playing it safe in their relationships. White lies are no big blunders or massive betrayals, but small lies or ‘truth manipulated’ to handle a situation.
But the fact remains that all lies, from little white untruths to serious deceit, can be detrimental to any relationship. And while both men and women are capable of being untruthful to their significant other, they may not always do it for the same reasons.
Here are some lies women tell their unsuspecting partners in relationships:

1. How many men she has had s*x with

Unless you got married right out of secondary school, it’s likely both you and your significant other have had more than one sexual partner. Although you know this to be true, it doesn’t mean you won’t cringe at the mention of their number. Which is why a woman might lie when questioned about her sexual history.

2. Saying she’s fine when she’s not

One lie women tell is, “Nothing’s wrong, I’m fine.” Anyone who’s heard these words before probably doesn’t consider it much of a punishable crime, but it is a lie, nonetheless. While it’s more acceptable in platonic relationships, such as with a co-worker, there’s no place for this little white lie in a romantic one.
A woman telling her partner she’s fine when something’s weighing on her mind could end up making her feel isolated or resentful, he needs to press her to unburden her heart.

3. How much something cost

Money will always be a topic of conversation, regardless of who makes more of it. So, it’s quite possible a woman may be tempted to fudge the truth as to how much that new outfit really cost.
Some women think telling their men how much something truly cost will make these men judge them for their spending habits, while thinking they are frivolous. But when it comes to money, though, it’s always best to be honest with one’s partner.

4. Telling her partner he’s the best she’s ever had
Wanting to please your partner in bed is only natural, and vice versa. Maybe you are with the person you are meant to be with for the rest of your life, and that’s great. But the truth is, this doesn’t always mean you will both be the best the other’s had. Some women lie to their husbands about them being the best s*x they have ever had.

5. Fantasizing about someone else
Before you go getting your underwear in a twist, though, remember you can’t control your thoughts, and neither can your partner. And while it may not be the perfect scenario, it’s probably not done purposefully. If you do decide you want to know the truth, be prepared for an answer you may not want to hear.
Just think twice before you ask your woman whether she has fantasies about another man, you might not like her answer unless you want her to look you in the eyes and lie.

6. Having an orgasm
It’s not an urban legend by any means; some women have faked an orgasm at one time or another. Regardless of the reasoning behind it, it’s still a lie. Maybe she wanted it to be over. Or, perhaps she just knew it wasn’t going to happen this time. Whatever the case, it’s possible.

7. She wasn’t that into her ex
Anyone who’s devoted a significant amount of time to someone else surely had feelings for them, even if they no longer do. A woman may lie about how she felt about an ex for a few different reasons.
She might do it to come across as a good girl, to make it seem like she wasn’t endlessly searching for the right person, or just to protect her partner’s feelings
Re: Dear Guys, Here Are 7 Big Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Lalas247(f): 9:01am On Oct 13, 2017
Number 6 makes sense ...True That Very true

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Re: Dear Guys, Here Are 7 Big Lies Women Tell In Relationships by Dillusionist(m): 9:02am On Oct 13, 2017
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Re: Dear Guys, Here Are 7 Big Lies Women Tell In Relationships by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:06am On Oct 13, 2017
what a pile of rubbish geared toward (or probably written by) immature insecure men. if she lies then call her for it, et voila, case closed!

1. How many men she has had s*x with
why would a man care about such issue?! only an insecure man would. enjoy the babe and basta, if she is great now then the answer to the question shouldntreally matter. men who ask such question would never be ok with whatever number a woman tells them, it will always be "too many"

2. Saying she’s fine when she’s not
its called being confused, and many women are during disagreements....but the reality is that, if she says she is ok, then accept it, and if she ever mention this issue again, then tell her to shut the fukc up about this matter as she said she was "fine" with the issue.

3. How much something cost
so long as WE (men) dont have to pay for these outfits, who cares how much they cost?!

4. Telling her partner he’s the best she’s ever had
why should a man disregard such comment? if she says so then best believe it is the truth, and if it aint then let this sorry woman live with the consequences. at the end of the day, a real man shouldnt care.

5. Fantasizing about someone else
we all do (mine is Beyonce etc), thats why its call FANTASY, its NOT real... but the reality is that she has to live in the real world and date someone like YOU (aka REALITY)

6. Having an orgasm
if a woman fake an orgasm then the joke is on HER. as much as her man is lacking, he can never get better if this deluded woman says nothing about his poor sexual skills, and instead keeps pretending that all is ok.

7. She wasn’t that into her ex
who cares what happened between her and exes?! if they were that important in her life, she wouldnt be with you NOW, duh! [/b]

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