cease d call/text, get rid of d line, try getting close to him, please him, be kind and generous then watch his action with time..be patients. I know how u feeling!

BigSarah:


But if I'm djcuppy it'd be alright, please enough about my pictures I need help

What picture? Your current dp or what?

BigSarah:


Vlamidir Putin

My dear throw away that sim card and start on a fresh note. Start by getting close to him,...find out his interests...and follow him to church . Trust me the last tip works like magic. But be ready to give your life to Christ...no other friend like Jesus.

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

Babe from its reply to you, I know he got game

And if he got game and you hot, he would have hit or planning to hit on you

If he is planning to hit on you, and you give him the greenlight first, you guys are going to make good friends

If he has never noticed you, and you give him green light your options are 50/50

But if he has noticed you but you not his spec, which I doubt cause if you were his spec he should have noticed you, that means you don't stand a chance and even if anything works his going to bang you with all recklessness till you run for your dear life

So pick your game wisely

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BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

Why not come clean and tell him? If he accepts good for both of you.... Otherwise let it be, girls also say NO. got 3 NOs this year

Princedapace:
Come to me and I will give u rest baby.

U are pretty.. As for him, forget him.. He will just use and throw u away..

Come to me

who are u...?

come to u kor..go to u Ni...


Ole...fi omolomo le o

BigSarah:


Vlamidir Putin

Savagery!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cacawa2:
story.

it wont work

Am here just to see op's pics . But sadly, she has remove the controversial pics. Op, chat me up if u need REAL LOVE .

You are harassing the innocent boy.
Back off or prepared to get sued

The right thing to do is face him and tell him your mind.
Then prepare for acceptance or rejection

Hide and seek is a game for kids.

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

. And nobody cared enough to tell this young one to FACE HER STUDIES and leave boys alone

IamAirforce1:
You don't deserve a reasonable reply with that pic up your profile ..

Men...brov reserve a chill pill na....why you wan use laff kill me? besides,she ain't bad...@OP I think you should use your own number this time to express your feelings to the guy....as for the new no....um...just keep that for a while

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now?

go to youtube & search for 'joromi', watch the video and do the same thing simisola did
GOODLUCK

BigSarah:


� lol such a meanie I don't want him to kiss me passionately just be addicted to me, that is all

Deadrat is the only guy who has told you the truth.
Please do no try any of systems' advice.

Do not EVER reveal your identity: the guy would play along but mock you with his friends behind your back and the gist would spread like wildfire.

Do not try to seat around him or anything.
You messed up big time already, that might have worked.

Move on.

Do not embarrass yourself my dear

supersystemsnig:



You can recall the game.This is what you should do, don't contact him through that number again. Don't make the first attempt anymore, let him be the one who appraoches you...Hang out around him, simple, look for what he loves, or casual female friends he keeps, and try to hook up with them, join the circle of trust and build it from there...If you're too fast, it will crash, take it slow, be in the owner's corner, and let him be the one that approaches you...This isn't spoilt yet, make it work...If you need more tips, let us know...

Good luck with love dearie...

Am grateful to God ur Papa didn't use condom to avoid you.
Your wisdom will grow more..
I love you for this advice u gave her.
I no be Lesbby oo

fvckme:

Am grateful to God ur Papa didn't use condom to avoid you.
Your wisdom will grow more..
I love you for this advice u gave her.
I no be Lesbby oo

Lol @ Am grateful to God ur Papa didn't use condom to avoid you.

Amen @ Your wisdom will grow more..

Don't reveal yourself just yet. If he dates you, he'll end up taking you for granted. Let him be the one to make the move. If he doesn't, then he doesn't dig you.

OP, you are beautiful. I like you but the problem is that I'm base in Kano. Just started my PhD. I need a relationship that can work out. I'm 29 yrs.

lefulefu:
na shit u be wan shit for toilet b4 snapping dat pix wey dey ur dp? Biko take am down.e no look cool.

You just being nasty Mr lefulefu.
Her picture is just blurry, but she fine .
As adviced , change the picture.

As to ur problem, probably just call him with the number he knows you with and chat, see where it goes. Be smart about it, dont appear desperate or cheap so u don't get played.
Best of luck

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text

.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

the guy is GAY..LOL

why would i refuse a request from a woman..am i mad ni..lol

lawman88:
OP, you are beautiful. I like you but the problem is that I'm base in Kano. Just started my PhD. I need a relationship that can work out. I'm 29 yrs.

na phd she go chop??
oboy go and hustle and make money

supersystemsnig:



You can recall the game.This is what you should do, don't contact him through that number again. Don't make the first attempt anymore, let him be the one who appraoches you...Hang out around him, simple, look for what he loves, or casual female friends he keeps, and try to hook up with them, join the circle of trust and build it from there...If you're too fast, it will crash, take it slow, be in the owner's corner, and let him be the one that approaches you...This isn't spoilt yet, make it work...If you need more tips, let us know...

Good luck with love dearie...

Bless you brother. Unlike some crazy insecure creeps on here. Calling the OP ug_lee and shiit.

Even if she's ugly, there's always someone out there who'd see her as the most beautiful woman in his life.

BigSarah, take the advice of this my guy I mentioned jor and don't let anyone tell you you're ugly or too desperate blah blah blah.... Truth is no one is, it's just your passion for something (in this case someone) you really feel attracted to that's why you've gone out of your way to do what you wouldn't have done ordinarily....

Good luck girl... And I've seen your picture on your profile, you're not ugly facially. You'd be surprised those calling you ugly are the real ugly ones. Their hearts ain't beautiful at all hence anywhere they look, all they see is ugliness.

Again, don't give up and I wish you the best.

aye le oooo ibosi ooo

MaritzaNL:
I can't date him not cos am not into him but cos I can't afford to be seeing my supposed boyfriend face everyday, I get bored.

what of when you get married? It better you get use to it now... Before you start counting numbers of guys all because you get bored

BigSarah:


What if he does nothing after me admitting who I'm?

you started with a wrong approach, but you still have one final shot at him....

Stop calling and chatting him for two weeks then the third week try and meet him...tell him you admire him and would love the both of you to start dating and also tell him that should he not feel the same way towards you,you are totally cool with whatever his decision is...should he embarrass you,don't take it to heart..move on

BigSarah:
So there's this guy in my department looks so much like my primary school sweetheart who passed away .
Anytime I see him I get so drawn to him.. I'm a really shy person like nervous, Sweating,heartracing kinda shy, only around him though.
So I took his number off my department group chat and started sending him all sort of texts and he replied back well for the first 3days but he kept saying that I should tell him who I'm (I didn't use my number got a new line, just for that purpose). As of Yesterday He Sent me this mean text



.Mtchew.... Wtf
Sarah or whatever ur name is, dont call nor text me again
Who cares abt who u are.
Let's dis be the last time u call and text me..
To hell with u, mtchew ..

I didnt call him throughout that day, but I called today he still asked who is dis, I ignored the question then he hanged up.
What do I do now? Telling him it's me is gonna be so embarrassing to me I've poored out my heart shamelessly in those texts and it'll be horrible if he ends up not dating me after the revelation.
I don't wanna miss him please Tips

Go and bleach, ,, ur not that attractive tho, maybe that's the reason

cristianisraeli:



the guy is GAY..LOL

why would i refuse a request from a woman..am i mad ni..lol

My brother, both of us really have to sit down and change this lifestyle of always consenting when a woman flash us some green light o...

I get that same problem wey u get so o.. There's nothing like a "No" in matters like this where daddy is concerned

It's either the guy is a GAYbriel or BigSarah make him vex.
But if na me, my mumu button go dey show green and I go follow-up till the end
I just dey pity myself, SMH

Dont call him wit d numba used in sending him those messages. hang out wit him, get close to him, chat wit him privately with ur REAL numba. if u do dat 4 a while and still no changes.. my dear voice out ur mind

So you wan date your late boyfriend that sneaked back into the world again. Ghost prick dey hungry you abi?

WO, pursue your academic life first and every other thing will be added unto you. I know u started having seks or making love @ a 'too' early time of your life but not withstanding, your life can still be repaired. And the only repairer you can find available is yourself and not that boy, pick up the shatters and fix the fixables. At the end, you will be glad that you did!

Peachess:
That's creepy sha, taking someone's number from a group and start chatting. This is what should have done, sit close to him in class then start a conversation with him (I'm super shy too, maybe ask him for movies, it works lol). Then if you guys didn't talk up to the level of exchanging numbers, then you can do your WhatsApp method. But this time you introduce yourself (it's creepy talking to people you don't know), ask him about maybe something they taught you guys. You'd say you can't remember, stuff like that. Then you can start saying hi sometimes, but if he's not interested don't force yourself on him sha.

BigSarah...This will werk!

correctguy101:


Bless you brother. Unlike some crazy insecure creeps on here. Calling the OP ug_lee and shiit.

Even if she's ugly, there's always someone out there who'd see her as the most beautiful woman in his life.

BigSarah, take the advice of this my guy I mentioned jor and don't let anyone tell you you're ugly or too desperate blah blah blah.... Truth is no one is, it's just your passion for something (in this case someone) you really feel attracted to that's why you've gone out of your way to do what you wouldn't have done ordinarily....

Good luck girl... And I've seen your picture on your profile, you're not ugly facially. You'd be surprised those calling you ugly are the real ugly ones. Their hearts ain't beautiful at all hence anywhere they look, all they see is ugliness.

Again, don't give up and I wish you the best.

Bless your soul my soul brother...We can't and should not put people down, what profit lies in it? The oP has a ryt to love and should not be crucified for her desire.