ok sweetheart.

*rolls eyes*

*laughs in Yoruba*

good for you.

gals asking guys out is not da best
unless u're really lackin

i'm kind of new on this. Hello everyone. Well i believe u've all made good points but for those of us who think its a matter of wrong or right i believe its nt so. I believe their are somethings in this world that we've seen the way it should been done and should be left alone and nt been tampered with, such as a women or young ladies playing the position of men. You can give the guy signs u like him but nt go to tell the guy ? What is this world turning into? soon or later u will turn we guys into mumu's.

Their is a yoruba proverb that says/ ejeki a se bi wanti se ko le ba ri bin ti ri (lets do it the way it should be done so that we get the right outcome)

A lady once asked me out, i was shocked, i've never heared a lady asking a guy out before in my life, i mean its nt practiced in nigeria or Africa where we are from though we are in the west now and i believe a man's responsibility should remain his nt the opposite way

it's not good cos it shows you are desperate you are not attrative enough for guys to ask u out and it can also mean you are hott cos you are not shy to do so.

well its alrite but guys tend to look down on girls wen dat is d situation ve done dat b4 and i regreted it big time.

Males and females are the same and have equal rights afterall, so the same thing that will make a man ask a girl out, equally makes a girl ask a man out. What's the big deal about this anyway?

good guy, na you be this? how far?

i've only ask a guy to dance with him

i ask him if he wanna dance but never ask a guy out yet

i do believe it is ok to ask a guy out, but i will say it would be wrong to ask the wrong guy out. so what ever you do, be sure you are asking the right guy.

i only ask a guy if he wanna dance with me

Hello guyz,
As far as i'm concerned,i don't see anything odd in gal asking gee out, but my argument here is that which type of gee the gal is tryin' 2 ask out ? i think that is the question most girls need 2 answer bfore asking any punk ass gee out, LUV YA"ALL !!!!

Hello guyz,
As far as i'm concerned,i don't see anything odd in gal asking gee out, but my argument here is that which type of gee the gal is tryin' 2 ask out ? i think that is the question most girls need 2 answer bfore asking any punk ass gee out, LUV YA"ALL !!!!

A real woman can make any man she wants make the first move. Different men just require different levels of 'persuasion'

I repeat myself again; there is nothing wrong in a girl asking a guy out.

   If a girl should ask me out, i'll love her forever. Do you know why? Because it is not easy for girls to say out their minds in such manners and if they do, they really mean it.

  In my opinion, a girl asking a guy out does not make her cheap.

There are rules for everything in life. One of them is 'men chase women'. it is their right, for once they ar 'caught' its all over for them. Any woman that chooses to forgo her right to be chased is free to do so. Another thing is few men refuse a free **** so once she makes that move she can never be sure WHY the guy is 'cooperating'. By the time she finds out it may be too late.

A woman approaching a guy is like expo in an exam. the result will be skewed.

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I'm re-emphazising that VINNA won't ask no guy out!! Why? Like i said, its way below my personal standard. I live my life on principles and standards; there are things i can and will do, and others i can't and won't do. SIMPLE!

As for the guy not catching my hints, then its his bad luck. Its either he is not attracted (of which i can't force myself on him) or he is not a go-getter (of which i don't have time for such a guy). I'll move on, He just lost a great lady!

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i personaly think theres notting wroung in a lady telling a guy she likes him or how she feels about him,it has happend to me sevral times, & appreciate them for the courage they av to approch me , VINNA, if u like a guy feel free to tell him how u feel about him & stop feeling too much of ur self.

I can never in my life do such a thing. For what. Never. Even if the Guy is as Sexy as usher or omarion. This is not Ladylike.

A girl once asked me out, it made me feel great, at the same time it made it look like something was wrong with her, i didn't take her seriously and i treated her like sh*t. TRUST ME LAYDEEZ, WHEN YOU SEE DAT GUY, YOU WILL ASK HIM OUT B4 U KNOW IT,

A very good idea if u ask me.

since i came here, this white girls over here and some nubians too have asked me out and yes i went out with the cute ones only. there is nothing wrong with that especially if its a guy that hardly notices girls even if u give him the signal and he knows what u want, he just doesnt give 2 fu*ks. girls dat do it see it as a way to liberate themselves. since men cant be the only ones to be the breadwinner of the house, y shud they be the only one to ask girls out. i actually like girls dat do that cuzz it proves that they are confident and know what they want and how to grab it by the horn.




i don drop my 50 cents.

Talking about that. A friend of mine liked a guy and the guy asked my friend to ask him out and he is not going to say no. What do you guys think she should do? Should she ask him out?

Well another angle for the guys only. Sure a girl that likes to ask men she likes out is fine, when she's your girlfriend.But when she becomes your wife, I bet you'll still like to see that "confidence".

It's not a freaky shit for a lady to ask a guy out, C'mon y'll. If u lady out there like me, Tell me in a nutshell - wat a man can do, a woman can do better.
Moreover, Ladies c'mon, Feel free to fill in the gap for the shy guys out there, He might be made for u to be together, Who can say!

Question: If your mom heard you were asking men out what would she think?

aint nothing bad in that,today's world is quite civilized, equal womens rights? so y not

I agree with you. The only thing wrong in it is if the guy is the "Kiss n tell" type, for me i dont mind at all. SAVES ME THE TROUBLE

Ladies,please note how all these "pro" people are "m" for MALE. Like I said before no "m" rejects a free F**K.Its like leading lambs to slaughter. How sad.

Well, I do not see anything wrong in that u know.It will actually take a courage and some bit of boldness for a lady to do that.Cos the norm is that it is the men that should make the first move.Some guys can be very slow in acting that is y that bold girl has to take the courage or the initiative.It is a way of helping such guys especially when there seem to be a future in such a relationship.

to be sincere, if u r really serious, u'll know aw to get him. BUT dont approach him verbally, use ur nice behaviour and caring attitude to get him.