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My Boyfriend Has Changed by Glorialaw2020(f): 12:23pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Good day Ma, My boyfriend and I have being in the relationship for almost 2yrs. Initially he was all i wanted in my dream man but all this changed since he started making money. He barely calls nor return mine when I complain he gives me long sermons. Though he respond to my financial needs almost immediately, some times we stay for Days without calls or texts. Please what should I do? |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Greenbullet(m): 12:26pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Why are you behaving like a fool , a man that is trying to make ends meet for both of you ,and you say he dosent care right now you should be there for him, go to his house to cook when he is at work, clean his house and make him happy, you are here complaining 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Nobody: 12:28pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Glorialaw2020:I can see that now that he is making money you want him badly.He has seen the sign already. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by IAMSASHY(f): 12:32pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by adajoe555: 12:34pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by izaray(f): 12:35pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Call him and talk him. Tell him you are not comfortable with the way things are now going in ur relationship. He may be too busy with his work, or his getting atention from some where else ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by ikp120(m): 12:40pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
What do you want him to do now? Don't you know where he stays? ![]() Just go there and suck his dick every morning before he wake up from sleep. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() He has money now, so either you blend or you get blended. The maga dey even give you money sharp sharp. ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by pocohantas(f): 12:41pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Some men change for better when they hit money, some change for worse. People will tell you he is busier, that's the perfect excuse. Sometimes it's more than that. You don't fit into his ideal day and plan anymore. Someone that truly loves you will make out time for you. If you have really played your part, call him, observe him and talk to him... then you will know where you fall. After carefully observing my ex way back and doing my best to bridge the communication gap, I discovered I don't fit into his ideal day anymore. I made sure I GH steadily without PHing ![]() There is something called work life balance, lots of men don't know about it. They feel it's normal their relationship suffers because they are making some money. They carry this same attitude into marriage and we end up with frustrated, konjified wives. Giving you money doesn't mean he still loves you, he might be paying you your severance package... ![]() 14 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Nobody: 12:44pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Greenbullet:gbam !!! |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Toshiba49ja(m): 12:44pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
IAMSASHY: Are u serious about d bolded words? |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Toshiba49ja(m): 12:46pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
izaray: Chai! Ladies nd dea way of thinking.... Think positively for wans! ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by VERDA: 12:49pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
IAMSASHY: While I think a some girls crave too much attention from their men, I don't think a two or 3 mins call in the morning to know how ur girl is and wish her a good day and another at night to wish her a good night or at least picking hers will stop any man from making money or indicate he is jobless.....same goes to other family members, everything in life is about balance, I work hard building my business because I want to be free later on to spend time and money on the people I love. There is so much more to life. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by izaray(f): 12:56pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Toshiba49ja:No nah ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by toastedbread: 12:59pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
small matter. talk with him. maybe you're the one who's displayed some shady attitudes and he's acting on what you've shown him. give him your attention. leave those Whatsapp guys and talk to him. sometimes he might just go online to see if you'll recognize his presence but you're too busy loling with ya chykers. be more committed and he'll change. |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by QueenSekxy(f): 1:04pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
I keep telling girls...never trust the love of a broke guy..they can change once they start making money,,and will start seeing you as an old fashion....they start thinking that one woman is not enough for them . nnem,better first struck him than wait to get strucked...who boyfriend epp sef..mtchew broke baboons 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by iamJ(m): 1:05pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
problems of a local ugly girl ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() you're not the first and last u shall not be ![]() [img]https://media./images/b19bd2fa3145aa8489f90c770e1e7d9b/tenor.gif[/img] 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Nobody: 1:06pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
![]() Being busy IS NOT AN EXCUSE.. how many minutes to send a text message to the person u really love? Or a minute call juz to say hi? ![]() There is this saying " IF THERE'S A WILL, THERE'S A WAY" but once a person is starting to give such lame excuse, u shud know what do to sha... Relationship is NOT all about the money he showered you. If can't call u for days, you know what's up ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Blackhawk01: 1:10pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
QueenSekxy: Iyamm dead ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by QueenSekxy(f): 1:19pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Blackhawk01:hope I'm communicating ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Toshiba49ja(m): 1:22pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
izaray: I kno u won't giff up... Kwantinue ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Nobody: 1:25pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Stop been worried and face ur studies na work took over him,his mind is still with U |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by izaray(f): 1:27pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Toshiba49ja:Hah!!..My hands are up o ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by ruggedtimi(m): 1:53pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
good to know you value love and attention more than money!!...So i guess you have to pray for him to go broke and become less busy so he can give you the attention you desire |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Toshiba49ja(m): 2:38pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
ruggedtimi: Rugged comment coming from a Ruggedy ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Oyebee91(m): 3:01pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
izaray:so does MONEY |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by izaray(f): 3:02pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Oyebee91:Yes o, seconded |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Toshiba49ja(m): 3:13pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
izaray:
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Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by waywardpikin: 3:15pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Speaking from experience, the way women crave for attention sometimes is killing. I would advice you to adopt a siddon look disposition, don't complain and don't chase after him. Just dey mirror him behaviour give am. If he really loves you he will notice and try to retrace his steps by giving you more attention, and if he doesn't? At least then you will no longer be able to pretend that you can't see the handwriting on the wall and take the necessary steps. In case you don't know what the necessary steps would be at that point it is... MOVING ON! Still, why do women like attention so damn much? Even the ones that act b!tchy or like they don't give a damn about anything or anyone are only doing so to be noticed and for that attention. Shey attention na food ni? Hian! 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by izaray(f): 3:17pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
[quote author=Toshiba49ja post=61477662][/quote]Haba!!! Ur girlfriend must see this post ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by lenghtinny(m): 3:19pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Dump the guy and look for a dude that will place your attention over money ![]() |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by Toshiba49ja(m): 3:24pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
Re: My Boyfriend Has Changed by lenghtinny(m): 3:26pm On Oct 16, 2017 |
QueenSekxy:
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