DeadRat:
what Are You Saying? What Do You Mean By Slave... Do You Even Know What Slavery Is? Men Naturally Dominate Women, it Cant be Changed... This Una feminism Is Becomin Irritatin abeg...

MhisTahrah:
I'm sure its someone like you who'll ask your partner(s) to kneel down to serve you food.The husband is meant to complement his wife and vice versa.It shouldn't be a subordinate-superior thing.

MhisTahrah:
I'm sure its someone like you who'll ask your partner(s) to kneel down to serve you food.The husband is meant to complement his wife and vice versa.It shouldn't be a subordinate-superior thing.

tosyne2much:
A home will never be peaceful if a woman is not subjected to the man to rule over her. Forget all these nonsense wey all these small small for Nairaland dey talk

Linux007:


Wife should be submissive to her husband, or dont u think so?

tosyne2much:
So, a wife subjecting herself to her husband is slavery? I shake my head for many of you

This display of feminism in the family is the reason why many homes collapse.

DeadRat:
what Are You Saying? What Do You Mean By Slave... Do You Even Know What Slavery Is? Men Naturally Dominate Women, it Cant be Changed... This Una feminism Is Becomin Irritatin abeg...

My brother, what has a woman submitting herself to her husband got to do with "slavery"?

Apart from men naturally dominating women, submissiveness has got to do with faithfulness, humility and being apologetic when you're wrong. It means a woman should be able to humble herself to her husband even if she earns more than him. She should be able to give the man the chance to exercise control over her despite her accomplishments.

I just don't know why these ladies equate submissiveness to slavery

RaggedyAnn:



I don't think that it will. Emancipation is a curious thing; human beings didn't go back to running around naked after the 'Garden of Eden debacle'. And black people have succeeded in establishing a political incorrectness about racism for good. It's not in our nature, as human beings, to be okay with being seen and treated as inferior (in our humanness) to the next person. Once the genie is out of the bottle, it's hard to force it back in. Watch or read 'The handmaiden's tale'. It's an interesting study of occurrences resulting from the decision to re-subjugate women.

Linux007:


Wife should be submissive to her husband, or dont u think so?

What do you expect from people who don't know how to keep ordinary boyfriends? Such comments are expected from them nah

Blackhawk01:


Submission is totally different from subjection.

MhisTahrah:
That's what feminists are trying to change.Those who take dating/marriage as a poverty alleviation programme are mostly poor,narrow-minded,unintelligent people.

QueenSekxy:

so we should crawl while the husband walk just because I'm married to someone with carrot abii?

Linux007:


But it's synonymous to being subordinate?

tosyne2much:
My brother, what has a woman submitting herself to her husband got to do with "slavery"?

Apart from men naturally dominating women, submissiveness has got to do with faithfulness, humility and being apologetic when you're wrong. It means a woman should be able to humble herself to her husband even if she earns more than him. She should be able to give the man the chance to exercise control over her despite her accomplishments.

I just don't know why these ladies equate submissiveness to slavery

tosyne2much:
What has kneeling down to serve food got to do with subjecting yourself to your husband? Or is it that you just want to argue blindly just to sound intelligent?

MhisTahrah:
It was meant to rile you up.In your dreams,right?I'm not a feminist yet and y'all are already pooing all over my mentions.Are you scared i'm gonna take your manhood away?Worry not,I'm only coming to take my rightful place as a woman which is definitely not in someone's kitchen.

tosyne2much:
So, a wife subjecting herself to her husband is slavery? I shake my head for many of you who come here to form commando

This display of feminism in the home is the reason why many homes collapse.

DeadRat:
That Was The Very Reason I Had To Quote Her. Let Her Define Slavery... I Dont Know But These Young Ladies these Days Seem To Misunderstand The Submissive attitude. They Take It To Be Weakness... The Point Here Is No Woman Should Try To Be the Man. Women Who Try To Equate themselves 2 Men or Try 2 B More Dominate Will Only End Up dying Before Their Husbands. Feminism Is Just So Annoyin these Days, maybe Because I Started Givin Attention To Their noise

Blackhawk01:



Lmaoooo

"Subjected to the man to RULE over her"?

You rule your gf?

Linux007:


Wife should be submissive to her husband, or dont u think so?

BluntBoy:


I hear you.

We had an altercation sometime ago. I didn't know you were my "Akanke"

MhisTahrah:
It was meant to rile you up.In your dreams,right?I'm not a feminist yet and y'all are already pooing all over my mentions.Are you scared i'm gonna take your manhood away?Worry not,I'm only coming to take my rightful place as a woman which is definitely not in someone's kitchen.

Proudgorgeousga:


a slave subjects to the master whether for good or bad.

That you are a man doesn't make you perfect It is only a foolish person with low self esteem that subjects herself completely to the will of another who a flawed human at that.

MhisTahrah:
The only people I submit to are my parents and elder siblings.What a marriage shouldn't lack is mutual respect.

Linux007:


Lol. I was not talking about re-subjecting women to the status quo.
I meant libration of the male folks(masculinity) . feminism may have succeeded in their revolt, and that is because far too many men are ignorant of the female power, and it's ways nd means.

MhisTahrah:
They say respect is reciprocal.Subjecting myself to my husband would be akin to stripping me of my fundamental human rights.Let me reiterate that marriage should not be a subordinate-superior relationship.The husband doesn't call the shots likewise the wife.It's all about teamwork.The both of them should be jointly involved in making decisions pertaining to the home.The wife must be seen and heard.I'm not arguing blindly,some men still live in the dark ages.

MhisTahrah:
They say respect is reciprocal. Subjecting myself to my husband would be akin to stripping me of my fundamental human rights Let me reiterate that marriage should not be a subordinate-superior relationship.The husband doesn't call the shots likewise the wife.It's all about teamwork.The both of them should be jointly involved in making decisions pertaining to the home.The wife must be seen and heard.I'm not arguing blindly,some men still live in the dark ages.

Are you kidding me @ the emboldened?

Back to the matter, only an insecure husband demands for absolute predominance of control over a woman. A man should not always call the shots but must seek the wife's opinions before taking a decision and vice versa. In fact, there are lots of women out there who have good decision making skills and can take sound decisions to matters even in the absence of their husbands.

Let me remind you that a peaceful home is usually the work of the woman, and I will like to correct the notion that being submissive to your husband is akin to stripping yourself of your fundamental rights

BTW, you don't know what "submissiveness" means in the context of marriage. Your own definition of submissiveness is wife battering

tosyne2much:
Can you see the whole idea of Nigerian version of feminism ?

It still beats my imagination why a lady will think that submissiveness is all about weakness and enduring suffering.
Don't be surprised that most of these ladies don't have any man in their lives.

Just as I said earlier, no home will be ever be peaceful if a woman doesn't want a man to exercise control over her. This has nothing to do with misogyny, it's just the basic fact

Lalas247:

Well we birth life without us life human life stops ... simple

tosyne2much:
What has kneeling down to serve food got to do with subjecting yourself to your husband? Or is it that you just want to argue blindly just to sound intelligent?

DeadRat:
am Not Surprised You Are In Line... Go Check Out Homes Where Women Try To Dominate Husbands... Come Back And Tell Me How Things Went... That Curse God Placed Will Never Stop To Manifest till The World ends

DeadRat:
True! I Know They Want A Man In Their Life But they Will Still Come Online To Tell You That They dont Have Time For Love or Some Will Say They Have Given Up On Men... Let Them Continue To Fool Around. Their Mates are Busy Living Happily with Husbands, they Are Busy Followin Madam Linda... Wrong Convinction and Mentality Is A Disease. I Swear