Hashimyussufamao:
he's tired of u?? oya kill urself and run away

If she kills herself how would she run away

[color=#550000][/color]give me an opportunity i will show u all dat

jamariwolf:
Firstly koor. U for kuku use pidgin. Olodo. Hoe

damn, ya a savage mehn

If someone truly love and care for you, he should keep the door of communication wide open. If he is so busy not to take your Calls and return your calls as well. It simply means he don't care about you as much as you care. Move on.

ucnwafor:
Ashawo, dat s how u will be jumpin 4rm one guy 2 anoda

This is totally uncalled for haba mana!!!

QueenMarvella:
My Boyfriend Is Just Getting More Annoying These Days. He Won't Call nor text for days, always claiming to be busy .
But anytime we see, he will turn to the sweetest guy on earth and I will feel like things should stay that way forever. But once we say bye to each other, it's the same story until when we see again.

It's not a long Distance Relationship as u guys may think but I don't know whats' stopping him from showing care through calls and texts too. He doesn't pick my calls too most times and that's what I hate most.

I like clingy, I like double texts, phone calls, Good morning and Good night texts.

And now, am getting tired of the relationship.

Dunno what to do,any advice ,Pls.

first get busy with your own ,so two of you can compete on "busyness"

QueenMarvella:
My Boyfriend Is Just Getting More Annoying These Days. He Won't Call nor text for days, always claiming to be busy .
But anytime we see, he will turn to the sweetest guy on earth and I will feel like things should stay that way forever. But once we say bye to each other, it's the same story until when we see again.

It's not a long Distance Relationship as u guys may think but I don't know whats' stopping him from showing care through calls and texts too. He doesn't pick my calls too most times and that's what I hate most.

I like clingy, I like double texts, phone calls, Good morning and Good night texts.

And now, am getting tired of the relationship.

Dunno what to do,any advice ,Pls.

OP pls don't listen to those saying he doesn't love you..I am a perfect example of your guy when I was dating my wife..I hardly call her, reason being that I'm not a calling type of person, secondly I know she loves me and she always do the calling which increased my non calling altitude.. What you need to figure out is that does she give you attention? I mean if he's always available whenever you want to see him, does he respect you,Have you met few of his family and friends, Is he surportive..If he does all this then you don't have to worry much,he's just a person like me.

The guy is a pretender, no love, he only show u that fake love when u guys are together becosvof what he will get from u at the moment, that is sex, ikwa iko

QueenMarvella:
My Boyfriend Is Just Getting More Annoying These Days. He Won't Call nor text for days, always claiming to be busy .
But anytime we see, he will turn to the sweetest guy on earth and I will feel like things should stay that way forever. But once we say bye to each other, it's the same story until when we see again.

It's not a long Distance Relationship as u guys may think but I don't know whats' stopping him from showing care through calls and texts too. He doesn't pick my calls too most times and that's what I hate most.

I like clingy, I like double texts, phone calls, Good morning and Good night texts.

And now, am getting tired of the relationship.

Dunno what to do,any advice ,Pls.

I bet even if you get the guy that's clingy with double texts and lots of phone calls as you said, one day you'll get tired and you'll come and be telling us on nairaland that "my guy is choking, he can't even give me a lil space"

QueenMarvella, do not mind those telling you that you're making "unnecessary demands". It is a vital part of what makes a relationship work. Nor should you be too quick to conclude that he doesn't love you enough. Hasty conclusions are dangerous and can make you do wrong and offensive things.

Rather, have a SERIOUS discussion with your boyfriend about how you feel. Tell him how much he's hurting you, 'cause he might not realize it. Many a people have absurd notions about love. They have no idea that there are DIFFERENT KINDS of love, and that there are myriad ways they can EXPRESS it, and a thousand and one ways their partner might EXPECT them to express love. That's why your notion of love must RESONATE with your partner's - there should be no contradiction, as that would be a recipe for disaster. COMMUNICATION is vital for the sustenance of connection in loving relationships. That's the only way you can come to an understanding and arrive at an agreement - it is when the final conclusion does not satisfy you that you're now justified to walk away, since you know what you want, and must never settle for less, as that's no different from compromising your happiness.

So, talk to him and let him realise the depths of your hurt and pain. He might be thinking he's doing what you want, that he understands women, that he's showing you the kind of love you want, not knowing he's mistaken.

His actions after hearing you out would determine whether you should walk away or not. If, after realising what's hurting you, he sticks with his behaviour, then he's selfish and inconsiderate, and you shouldn't be wasting your life with him.

All the best.

AlmiqhteeAllah:
Hmmmm. That's deep.

And it's very true. The very first thing to note is that falling in love itself isn't a thing you do consciously. It's a thing that just happens to you. It's like a force from within, a spirit deep inside you reaching out to another beckoning onto it. But that unconscious force doesn't sustain itself. With time, it fades, and it takes conscious effort to maintain it. Failure to do this, or going about it the wrong way is what has led to the failure of many relationships - it is this mistake that has made many people FALL OUT OF LOVE.

So, the fire of love, burning intensely, is always shortlived, and will always need the fuel of COMMUNICATION [connection] to always rekindle the dying flames and keep the fire alive. Understand this and act on it well enough, and, believe me bro, you've got it made.

The Greeks refered to a kind of love known as Ludus. Ludus is PLAYFUL LOVE. Ludus is flirting, teasing, getting to know someone, getting stvpid with them, gisting with them etc. It can also manifest in the form of cracks and jabs lovers take at one another in a playful manner. A couple who are playing a video game together are engaging in Ludic love. Ludus is always light-hearted, warm, sassy, and fun.

Most relationships cannot survive without Ludus, as it is an all-important factor. Afterall, if you can't have fun with someone, it will kill a lot of joy in the relationship. Ludus is a form of CONNECTION and COMMUNICATION.

Move on already, he mush have had enough of your .....

jamariwolf:
Firstly koor. U for kuku use pidgin. Olodo. Hoe

what is wrong with her write up? Don't claim authority where you are not one.

Lol


Firstly,I'm not a hoe

Secondly,I wouldn't blame U coz obviously, there's something wrong with u
Lastly,my thread is for sensible people not for senseless people like u

Is that your picture QueenMarvella if yes, not to worry he is playing around and doesn't want to lose you, He knows what he is doing Babe.....

The only question is Are you willing to wait for him till he is done doing what he is doing??

Let's hope that he does not get carried away while playing around but I REALLY LOVE THAT SMILE ON YOUR FACE SHA

Chai.. Nd I dey find person 2 call every second

QueenMarvella:



Lol

Firstly,I'm not a hoe
Secondly,I wouldn't blame U coz obviously, there's something wrong with u Lastly,my thread is for sensible people not for senseless people like u

Savage. #KillerBeanSquad

Listen attentively.... The relationship is over.

QueenMarvella:



Its not easy...anytime I want to put an end to it,he will go all emotional and promised to change

My honest advice, move on. Your BF doesn't love you anymore. He's tired of the relationship and has probably moved on.

All those calls and good night texts, etc., that you want him to be doing is normal. Nothing wrong with it and I'm sure he's doing just that when he's first wooing you. But suddenly he's stopped because he's found another babe. Just move on, you're pretty and would find another guy. Hopefully, you won't fall for the wrong guy this time around.

P.S: Don't be clingy in a relationship, most guys hate it.

Hashimyussufamao:
he's tired of u?? oya kill urself and run away

... Guy u wuked ooo

u didn't fill any form before u start the relationship so if u are tire, walkway.
life Na per head.

Give him some breather. But try telling him how you feel and ask him to be straight with you.

If he says there's nothing just that he's busy, the paddy don waka far from you. Start preparing your mind for a break situation so when it happens, you won't be caught unawares.

As a bonus advice, keep yourself more occupied with things that will advance you as a person not a guy.

Oya leave that G. Am available click on this link asap www.facebook.com/simmyrich

The simple truth is that the guy has someone else he loves more than you. Forget those saying they are like also like that. The point is when you are in love with someone you will at least send a message to the person once or twice a day.

I'm not the calling type too and I hardly call my siblings even my parents but when I am in love with someone I send at least a messages early morning and late at night, it's natural, it's not something you make effort or look for time to do. Forget that talk

It becomes a big problem If your friend is not calling and he's even picking when you call and you think he's someone else.

Please do borrow yourself brain.... You can see the handwriting boldly written on the wall, ignore it to your peril.

Looking at your pic you still look very young, while can't you use this time to add value to yourself instead locking yourself into a relationship that you yourself know is heading nowhere.

One thing that baffles me is that what will your future husband enjoy if you have given out all the goodies to all the series of slayboys that come your way in the name of boyfriend before marriage. Please keep yourself for your future husband.

QueenMarvella:
My Boyfriend Is Just Getting More Annoying These Days. He Won't Call nor text for days, always claiming to be busy .
But anytime we see, he will turn to the sweetest guy on earth and I will feel like things should stay that way forever. But once we say bye to each other, it's the same story until when we see again.

It's not a long Distance Relationship as u guys may think but I don't know whats' stopping him from showing care through calls and texts too. He doesn't pick my calls too most times and that's what I hate most.

I like clingy, I like double texts, phone calls, Good morning and Good night texts.

And now, am getting tired of the relationship.

Dunno what to do,any advice ,Pls.

The problem is that you are jobless dating a gainfully employed young man. Leave him let him date more serious minded babes

Pay him a surprise visit!.

Then, make your decision.....

frankkydee:







She said she has done that over and over again,that the guy will change for some time and go back to the attitude.

OK then. let her break up with him. if Pangaea could break up. why can't they??

Oya drop your phone number na... You go see attention you go run.

come, I have time for u

Effiezynews:



Hi sis,
You are pretty..Stop making him the centre of your world. He is the "Kamal" on your profile, right?
Try to stop giving him too much attention. Try to balance things. Most importantly, get busy so that you won't have free time on your hands to feel tempted to call or text..
Any man that loves you enough will not sit on the "fence"..

I wish you all the best..

Tnx baby

DJMCOTTY:
drinks on me

thanks man

saydfact:
have u spoken to him about it?

Yes

Emasel:
He might be married