I remember one time, me and my friends settling into the night talking about our reviews on movies and then it hit the rest of us that one of us had to watched "Gravity".
BOOM!!! We were beyond dazed. Why?
We are a movie loving people and we love to criticise movies. So, to us, it was a friendship Crime.

Yesterday i got to know who Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie was and that was shocker to me for She's too important not to know.
To those who don't...

She is a brilliant writer, and her noteworthy works are books like "half the yellow sun", "Blue hibiscus" and "We should all be Feminist".
It gets even better , she's featured on the song "flawless" by Beyoncè or we could put it like this, 'Beyoncè asked for permission to use her words and she granted Beyoncè permission'. I think the latter sounds cooler.

So What's the point? Chimamanda has a message for all "supposed feminist " and feminist-lovers. She sees the big misrepresentation or the total lack of understanding of the word Feminism.
Here are her words while referring to her work with Beyoncè

"Still, her (Beyoncè)type of feminism is not mine," she said. "As it is the kind that, at the same time, gives quite a lot of space to the necessity of men. I think men are lovely, but I don't think that women should relate everything they do to men: did he hurt me, do I forgive him, did he put a ring on my finger? We women are so conditioned to relate everything to men. Put a group of women together and the conversation will eventually be about men. Put a group of men together and they will not talk about women at all, they will just talk about their own stuff. We women should spend about 20 per cent of our time on men, because it's fun, but otherwise we should also be talking about our own stuff."

I don't quite agree Men could gather and not talk about women. It's totally dependent on the kind of men gathered but i do get her point.
Go on Facebook, Twitter and whatever social media site there is, it's everywhere, Women talking about how "Men are scum" , how women should stand up against Men. Gender Equality and all sorts of agendas that are Men-centred.

Men don't have the time to lament about women. Men are busy seeking how to make fast money so they can accure more women.
That's the difference right there. A man's centre is money .

For too many women , the centre of their world is a man, There's too many online post about Men's fidelity, too many memes and jokes about girlfriends struggling for passwords to their boyfriend's phone and Its astonishing how women celebrate being engaged, it's seen as some milestone or a feather to the Cap to find a 'man that may as well still decide to damn the engagement and ditch you".

To crown this aberration up, one of the most searched words on the internet is "How to please a man".

It would be totally unjustified and cruel of me to blame women for their seeming misfortunes but they honestly are a part of their own problem.
They give men the very power they accuse them of having.

To be a Feminist isn't to go online disturbing the peace of your followers Timeline about how Men are this and that. It's about developing yourself for yourself; to be self-sufficient and seld-dependent .

Self-sufficiency is the best kind of attractive. It leaves no room to be bothered about how a man should or shouldn't treat you. It's power and beauty interlaced into a appealing knit.
We should all be Feminist.


http://queerlyshrewd..com

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Feminism bullshit everywhere. Y aren't they fighting to abolish d law that divides a man's property during divorce even if he made it on his own?

I think, it should be purple hibiscus and you missed out her latest book Americanah! *Boom* I got you there. +Beyonce did not ask for her permission to record her voice on her song, rather when BBC spoke with her over the phone on #hardtalk she said that she never knew Beyonce had recorded her on her song, it was someone who called her to of course break the cheering news to her.
As Beyonce anticipated. it was overwhelming for her to be recognised by Beyonce her follow #Ferminist. :-XI

Thrash

@joewill thanks for the positive review. I'm open to writers for my blog. You converse well. Reply if you're open to writing so we can publish

Feminism is bullshit.. It's just an avenue for mostly ugly women to exert superiority on men

Though I'm male, but I'm a hardcore feminist.

As long as they are not advocating for equity but equality, I'm in �% support.

I can't wait for a world where I won't be responsible for footing the bills after a date alone.

No more quota for females, let's shrug it out pound for pound ( surely, the male folks will win. But that's what equality is all about )

When we get into a fight, no more playing the victim card, we should be judged equally

All guys should be at the forefront campaigning for gender equality. We are equal

....

Interesting

.

Be a feminist if you want. I'm not interested!!!

When will feminist start digging borehole?

Datapoboi:

Feminism bullshit everywhere. Y aren't they fighting to abolish d law that divides a man's property during divorce even if he made it on his own?

Which law is that?

Unfortunately, this writer fails to define feminism,
leaving rooms for kids to engage in imaginative
and straw-men arguments.

Unfortunately, this writer fails to define "feminism",
leaving rooms for kids to engage in imaginative
and straw-men arguments.

Women don't want to be equal to men... Because they know they can't cope.

F

Ok

No be only feminist but Foolminist.

Feminism is highly misunderstood by most persons. Feminism is simply equality. I think the problem is the use of the prefix 'femi'.

This is feminism: http://www.mortalpoet.com/men-chill-feminism-not-think/

Queerlyshrewd:
I remember one time, me and my friends settling into the night talking about our reviews on movies and then it hit the rest of us that one of us had to watched "Gravity".
BOOM!!! We were beyond dazed. Why?
We are a movie loving people and we love to criticise movies. So, to us, it was a friendship Crime.

Yesterday i got to know who Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie was and that was shocker to me for She's too important not to know.
To those who don't...

She is a brilliant writer, and her noteworthy works are books like "half the yellow sun", "Blue hibiscus" and "We should all be Feminist".
It gets even better , she's featured on the song "flawless" by Beyoncè or we could put it like this, 'Beyoncè asked for permission to use her words and she granted Beyoncè permission'. I think the latter sounds cooler.

So What's the point? Chimamanda has a message for all "supposed feminist " and feminist-lovers. She sees the big misrepresentation or the total lack of understanding of the word Feminism.
Here are her words while referring to her work with Beyoncè

"Still, her (Beyoncè)type of feminism is not mine," she said. "As it is the kind that, at the same time, gives quite a lot of space to the necessity of men. I think men are lovely, but I don't think that women should relate everything they do to men: did he hurt me, do I forgive him, did he put a ring on my finger? We women are so conditioned to relate everything to men. Put a group of women together and the conversation will eventually be about men. Put a group of men together and they will not talk about women at all, they will just talk about their own stuff. We women should spend about 20 per cent of our time on men, because it's fun, but otherwise we should also be talking about our own stuff."

I don't quite agree Men could gather and not talk about women. It's totally dependent on the kind of men gathered but i do get her point.
Go on Facebook, Twitter and whatever social media site there is, it's everywhere, Women talking about how "Men are scum" , how women should stand up against Men. Gender Equality and all sorts of agendas that are Men-centred.

Men don't have the time to lament about women. Men are busy seeking how to make fast money so they can accure more women.
That's the difference right there. A man's centre is money .

For too many women , the centre of their world is a man, There's too many online post about Men's fidelity, too many memes and jokes about girlfriends struggling for passwords to their boyfriend's phone and Its astonishing how women celebrate being engaged, it's seen as some milestone or a feather to the Cap to find a 'man that may as well still decide to damn the engagement and ditch you".

To crown this aberration up, one of the most searched words on the internet is "How to please a man".

It would be totally unjustified and cruel of me to blame women for their seeming misfortunes but they honestly are a part of their own problem.
They give men the very power they accuse them of having.

To be a Feminist isn't to go online disturbing the peace of your followers Timeline about how Men are this and that. It's about developing yourself for yourself; to be self-sufficient and seld-dependent .

Self-sufficiency is the best kind of attractive. It leaves no room to be bothered about how a man should or shouldn't treat you. It's power and beauty interlaced into a appealing knit.
We should all be Feminist.


http://queerlyshrewd..com

Every woman's place is in the kitchen and the living room...

Papiikush:
Feminism in Nigeria is just pure poohpooh.

Nigerian ladies are hypocritical and only put on the feminist mantle whenever the situation favour them. If you wanna be a feminist start by paying the bills when you go on a date

yeah yeah

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iLickAnalFungus:
Feminism is bullshit.. It's just an avenue for mostly ugly women to exert superiority on men

you didn't read the last two paragraphs.

feminism isn't crap.

XXLDICK:
Though I'm male, but I'm a hardcore feminist.

As long as they are not advocating for equity but equality, I'm in �% support.

I can't wait for a world where I won't be responsible for footing the bills after a date alone.

No more quota for females, let's shrug it out pound for pound ( surely, the male folks will win. But that's what equality is all about )

When we get into a fight, no more playing the victim card, we should be judged equally

All guys should be at the forefront campaigning for gender equality. We are equal

Yes, we are equal.

pweetiedee:

you didn't read the last two paragraphs.
feminism isn't crap.

Tell me sweety, what is it? What do women want?

feminism again.

Dshocker:

Every women's place is in the kitchen and the living room...

And........ The Oza room