GeeString:



Cheating WILL occur in marriage, whether you & I like it or not. I'm a realist not an optimist. I have accepted that it will happen & I'm only trying to cushion the blow. Like I said earlier, I'd rather she cheats on me with a girl than a dude because I don't feel jealous especially when I'm aware.

The other girl doesn't make me feel insecure one bit. This has been tried and verified many times over.

Thanks a lot for your well wishes.


PS: I was banned hence my inability to respond since then.

Lol,welcome back and I don't agree with you that cheating occurs in every marriage, its might be majority but definitely not all.
Well,its kind of complicated,people ain't perfect that's why I don't love with all of my heart,so I don't get burned so if any man cheats on me, its wouldn't surprise me but the thing is,it has become a common norm in our society to think that its okay for a man to cheat on a woman but its termed adultery if a woman cheats,so most married women now feels its okay for a man to cheat as long as he is fulfilling his responsibilities. I used to think like this,but now I don't think I can accept a cheat because I am 100% sure that I would never cheat on my partner.

PS: I think you are weird tho ,if you would prefer a woman cheat on you with a fellow woman than a dude.
Whatever rocks your boat,how far with the search.

Windflower:

Lol,welcome back and I don't agree with you that cheating occurs in every marriage, its might be majority but definitely not all.
Well,its kind of complicated,people ain't perfect that's why I don't love with all of my heart,so I don't get burned so if any man cheats on me, its wouldn't surprise me but the thing is,it has become a common norm in our society to think that its okay for a man to cheat on a woman but its termed adultery if a woman cheats,so most married women now feels its okay for a man to cheat as long as he is fulfilling his responsibilities. I used to think like this,but now I don't think I can accept a cheat because I am 100% sure that I would never cheat on my partner.

PS: I think you are weird tho ,if you would prefer a woman cheat on you with a fellow woman than a dude.
Whatever rocks your boat,how far with the search.

Cheating occurs in every marriage, trust me. I don't wanna say things here but I know for a fact that it does - male & female.

Yeah, I'm a weirdo and the search sucks. Met a few but we don't connect intellectually.

OP, How much do you have? we buy these kind of wives in this part of the world. and they are quite expensive,especially the wife that ticks all the boxes you mentioned.

bobonkiti101:
OP, How much do you have? we buy these kind of wives in this part of the world. and they are quite expensive,especially the wife that ticks all the boxes you mentioned.

Truth.

Dominatrix:



Hmmmmm

Op see one!! I think, but maybe she myt be shy, so lemme be her spokeperson!

GeeString:



Why are you fighting everyone on this thread?

Abeg help me ask her ooh!!

Dasherz:

You are a boy .. cos with this write-up shows that you have nothing else to offer anyone but a pained and sorry life

You will be ignored cos I cant spend my time with a toddler who feels he's got teeth

Kai, madam! Anthony Joshua no far from your bloodline!!

Lol I wish he was that close ...

Gentle034:

Kai, madam! Anthony Joshua no far from your bloodline!!

Dasherz:
Lol I wish he was that close ...

I'm wondering what it would be den if he was really close!!!!! Chai I salute ur fyting spirit!! U even dey reference constitution.

Dasherz:
Lol I wish he was that close ...

Thank God u are not really close, if not u for Don cos havoc. I sha salute ur ginger, especially dat constitutional referencing!

Fighting spirit ke ... I just dish out whatever vibes I get full dose

Gentle034:

I'm wondering what it would be den if he was really close!!!!! Chai I salute ur fyting spirit!! U even dey reference constitution.

Dasherz:
Fighting spirit ke ... I just dish out whatever vibes I get full dose

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I like ur spirit, iron lady, dishing out vibes like it's meal, no wonder ur name is Dasherz!!!

There was no initial intentions when I picked the moniker

Gentle034:
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I like ur spirit, iron lady, dishing out vibes like it's meal, no wonder ur name is Dasherz!!!

Dasherz:
There was no initial intentions when I picked the moniker

I know, and never said u did, but e follow u come!! And d first person to swerve u dash am! Abeg u fit hlp op?

Nope I can't help him in anyway he will help himself

Gentle034:

I know, and never said u did, but e follow u come!! And d first person to swerve u dash am! Abeg u fit hlp op?

Dasherz:
Nope I can't help him in anyway he will help himself

What of me? Though I no need bi, I just need straight frnd!

U need reccomendations?

Gentle034:

What of me? Though I no need bi, I just need straight frnd!

Dasherz:
U need reccomendations?

Nah, just accommodation from u, but my own no b marriage!

Accomodation? I don't own a house yet to give it out for rent. so do u need recomendations?

Gentle034:

Nah, just accommodation from u, but my own no b marriage!

Dasherz:
Accomodation? I don't own a house yet to give it out for rent. so do u need recomendations?

Why would I want recommendations when u r here?

Lol Mr Gentle I hope you're having a good day

Gentle034:

Why would I want recommendations when u r here?

OP try Bobrisky na....highly intelligent self made bisexual fellow.

Dasherz:
Lol Mr Gentle I hope you're having a good day

Sure I am, especially talking to this iron lady! U?

A very good dAy indeed

Gentle034:

Sure I am, especially talking to this iron lady! U?

Dasherz:
Accomodation? I don't own a house yet to give it out for rent. so do u need recomendations?

I'm very sure you had deciphered the guys intention but you just want to force the defensive mechanism perculiar with naija girls....no wonder the high number of single ladies around...I don't mean to come off offensive, just implying you decode his move and blatantly turn him down or graciously give him a chance...

Ahahaha lwkmd yes I got his drift but maybe I don't want. To sail his way

Gwan2:

I'm very sure you had deciphered the guys intention but you just want to force the defensive mechanism perculiar with naija girls....no wonder the high number of single ladies around...I don't mean to come off offensive, just implying you decode his move and blatantly turn him down or graciously give him a chance...

[quote author=Dasherz post=63117677]A very good dAy indeed [/quote
We don too derail Op topic fa? I just hope he dosen't send shango to look for us? What do u think?

Derailing the thread will even keep the thread trending in this section hence more views from d ladies

What do u think? [quote author=Gentle034 post=63117832][/quote]

Dasherz:
Ahahaha lwkmd yes I got his drift but maybe I don't want. To sail his way

Then either openly or subtly turn him down naa....I DM ladies on instagram, Oblivious of the fact the I'm in search of a wife, some just ignore my pleasantries while some act rude. I will be in UK from next year and maybe onward , probably have less time in naija thereafter....so I just want to atleast build a defined relationship with someone of my spec....but no way, the naija persona in most of these ladies won't see pass their nose.

Gwan2:

Then either openly or subtly turn him down naa....I DM ladies on instagram, Oblivious of the fact the I'm in search of a wife, some just ignore my pleasantries while some act rude. I will be in UK from next year and maybe onward , probably have less time in naija thereafter....so I just want to atleast build a defined relationship with someone of my spec....but no way, the naija persona in most of these ladies won't see pass their nose.

To be frank it's not as if I want a G.f, I already have, I just want to catch fun!!

Dasherz:
Derailing the thread will even keep the thread trending in this section hence more views from d ladies

What do u think?

Oya now! Let's kwantinue!! After all what happens here stays here

Well goodluckt to u

And maybe he needs to read inbetween lines

Thanks for the advice tho

Gwan2:

Then either openly or subtly turn him down naa....I DM ladies on instagram, Oblivious of the fact the I'm in search of a wife, some just ignore my pleasantries while some act rude. I will be in UK from next year and maybe onward , probably have less time in naija thereafter....so I just want to atleast build a defined relationship with someone of my spec....but no way, the naija persona in most of these ladies won't see pass their nose.