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Do I Deserve It? by Rosenay(f): 7:32am On Oct 23, 2017 |
"Until you do right by me, everything you think about gonna fail!" -Colour Purple |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by Florblu(f): 7:49am On Oct 23, 2017 |
You don't deserve it. Seems your husband wants to eat his cake and have it. Start learning how to leave without him because you might still have to leave without him pretty soon be. 5 Likes |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by kunlesufyan(m): 8:00am On Oct 23, 2017 |
Just imagine asking a grown man with business contact s, friends and family to just change his number because of one disgruntled ex. I won't', as long as he isnt keeping the phone number to get intouch with her behind you. You are good... 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by thorpido(m): 8:04am On Oct 23, 2017 |
Maybe you should take a break from him till he sorts himself out and you also figure out what you really want. You left your own career just so you could be with him and it happened so fast? This relationship of yours might be a violent one in the future.Seems you will both be dealing with anger issues. 5 Likes |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by Nobody: 9:04am On Oct 23, 2017 |
you don't deserve it dear. I'll advice you to leave him while you can so you don't become an emotional mess 3 Likes |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by Rosenay(f): 10:01am On Oct 23, 2017 |
kunlesufyan: As a man if this would fix everything with this bad situation with the woman, why wouldn't you be willing to do it? And I even gave him a way out. I said if you have a legitimate reason why you can't change your number then I won't bother you about it anymore. His reason was because he didn't want to. He must want this person harrassing him, cause I sure don't. His actions shows he is unwilling and incapable to see reason or compromise. He has no respect for me in this situation because he is allowing to problem to persist. Compromise is what marriage is made of. You sir, must not be married. Is doesn't matter what you say about asking a "grown man" what do to. Is it a pride thing with you? It's either you want your marriage to work or not. Right is right and the selfishness just to say no just because you want to is not welcome in any relationship. |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by kunlesufyan(m): 10:13am On Oct 23, 2017 |
Rosenay:True I understand you, I wont deny. I do something my baby wants just for peace to reign and also show her I have respect for her as my woman. My advice is sit him down and talk, sometimes diplomacy is just the way out. |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by TheArchangel(f): 12:43pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
Rosenay:You are desperate and too entitled. Probably suffocating the poor guy. You were the reason why he ended it with the lady......stop painting the other lady black cos it seems you are the manipulative and unstable one in this relationship. 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by Newboss(m): 5:15pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
Yes, you deserve every single piece of it! How dare you dictate to a man with real balls? How dare you? You don't know the power in his balls? Take your hands off his stuff and mind your business. If you don't like it, kindly get lost from his life and quit turning him into a monster! 1 Like |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by Cuddlebugie(f): 6:50pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
'An anger enraged in me and I jumped up and pushed him and slapped his back'. How violent are you, woman? You should know, you are no different from the ex. She's manipulative while you're controlling and violent, both can be associated with certain personality disorders..... 5 Likes |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
If he didn't want the woman to be in your life, she wouldn't. Simple and easy. 4 Likes |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by Joshchi(m): 5:43am On Oct 24, 2017 |
Cuddlebugie: And suddenly she didn't know where his rage came from when he started punching her and threatening to break her laptop. Meanwhile, she had hit him earlier and chucked it down to play play because the guy didn't react in predictable fashion. Clearly, she is creating more issues by insisting that he changes his phone number, and no it's not a thing of pride for the man if he wishes not to change his phone. Respect his wishes.Drop it and eventually he'd come around to your reasoning. 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by Nobody: 6:19am On Oct 24, 2017 |
Since their relationship ended abruptly because of you, and you and him began your relationship shortly after their breakup, you were likely a rebound. Some guys are quick to jump into another relationship after one ends to avoid feeling depressed after the breakup. This means they don't really get over that person but just hide it well since they aren't good at dealing with their emotions. Having him change his # won't change anything because I'm sure they've other means to contact each other. You should stop blaming her because she's not the one you're in a relationship with. He's the one who should man up and let her go. Remind me again why you left your life in America for this guy? 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by Talkwell: 8:58am On Oct 24, 2017 |
Cuddlebugie: Exactly This chick no smart at all,make she end everything ASAP,she get anger issues |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by YabaLeftist: 5:18pm On Oct 24, 2017 |
Will you die if you leave that man? Is your happiness in life hinged upon remaining with him? He's obviously enjoying the drama; the attention of two different women jostling over him. Frankly speaking, has no intentions of severing ties with his ex. So, it's either you leave him and find someone else who's going to be committed to you totally, or stay with him and continue to suffer from the torment he's subjecting you to. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by Nobody: 11:45am On Oct 30, 2017 |
Dear op. U jumped on him, pushed him, and slapped his back and went as far as seizing his phone and he was laughing all along. He demanded for his phone, threatened u to break ur laptop so u could release his phone yet u refused. You are a bully. He should have given u uppercut, SmackDown and brutality |
Re: Do I Deserve It? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Mar 07, 2018 |
Rosenay: I pity your guy , I just wonder how he manages to put up with a mental case like yours |
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