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Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Mayflowa(m): 2:21am On Oct 25, 2017 |
kennygee: Is she cheating? The marriage is long over. Do you foresee her going back to her husband that could not even pay his rent. The problem with op's sister is not about cheating but with the way she is leading her life. She has gone through two hectic marriages and she hadn't learnt her lesson. One would think she would draw a grand plan for her breakthrough and remain dedicated to it, so she could have her kids together and make them better. She had returned back to what has caused her pains. Very soon, she would be put in a family way again only this time with younger and less capable boyfriend! Or just maybe she is looking for love aibeit wrongly. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Yampotatocarrot(m): 2:31am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Skmoda360: E b like say MOD dey time d guy b4 them go ban am again So him wan tread with caution this time |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by PrimadonnaO(f): 2:33am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Melodyz: Why do you keep using "via?" To your story, I'm sorry to say, but there's probably something your sister isn't doing right...to be unlucky in marriage twice, and her in-laws wanting nothing to do with her. Rather than trying to be dependent on men, she should fix her life and turn to God. Her current husband may be a better man if he had more support from his wife. Her marriage can still be salvalged. She should turn to God sincerely, otherwise, things may never really be well with her. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Nobody: 3:20am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Ya sister is receiving bedroom communion..wetin consine you |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Nobody: 3:23am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Benita27:you are a wise woman 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Slowvenom(m): 3:42am On Oct 25, 2017 |
nrexzy: Are you ok? |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by cajet: 3:56am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Your sister is wicked, she is even extending the wickedness to her son. Why can't she take care of even her son when she can. If the boy grows up tomorrow and become something else , she will blame the devil? Does she think that if takes care of the son and the becomes somebody tomorrow in the society the the boy boy will forget her? Haba if she can't help the man at least she should take care of her son. You go ahead and talk to her especially concerning her son to avoid regret later in life. She has her life to live. Divorce or no divorce it is obvious they can't co-habitate any longer but if anything happens to that man any day, she is answerable to that bet me. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Amberon11: 3:58am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Why didn't you add this to the main article ? You just focused on your sister and her bad sides as though her husband is an angel. I respect your sister because even after life dealt with her she still found a way to be productive by working hard and being able to afford her own apartment and upkeep. Nobody wants a useless man. Melodyz: 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Amberon11: 4:01am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Just look at the useless man you want your sister to return to. Melodyz: 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by ERICOPLC(m): 4:02am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Young man, if what you said is the truth, your sister have no blame whatsoever. She should not die, because she is unlucky in marriage. She has survive to take care of her children. The few time she sends you money, do know where such money come from? Or how she got it. 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Amberon11: 4:08am On Oct 25, 2017 |
So doesn't the African culture say that men should be the breadwinners? Or are you a hypocrite? highchief1: 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Amberon11: 4:16am On Oct 25, 2017 |
You seem to be dyslexic. What part of the article suggests that the woman disregards the well being of her children? Na wa for your train of thought. Freeman59: |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by egopersonified(f): 4:18am On Oct 25, 2017 |
What I am most concerned about here is, what kind of man is she seeing now? Hope it's not the same drinking, smoking, womanizing type. Please since you are there for now, watch this guy carefully and find out if he is any better than her husband. If he isn't, advice her to choose wisely. Make every effort to ensure she brings back her son to stay with her. This man is no role model for a child to live with. She is just setting the poor boy, who didn't ask to be born, up for destruction. As for her marriage, you people should return her bride price with immediate effect. Na una chop the money, she say she nor dey do again, no be by force. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by cococandy(f): 4:18am On Oct 25, 2017 |
He was probably raised by a goat. You never know selflessmaya: 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Amberon11: 4:20am On Oct 25, 2017 |
How hard is it being a man? Do you know the pain of child bearing is the second worst pain a human being can experience ? The first being getting burnt alive. The op's sister is a very strong woman. If after all she went through in her previous marriage she still had the courage to move on and is now financially independent then she is truly a strong independent woman. The man is loser. sholajigga: 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Amberon11: 4:23am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Its obvious you were raised by a lipstick wearing goat. komododragons: 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Nobody: 4:24am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Melodyz: Ur sister is heartless, what kind of woman is that? no wonder the people he married their son pursued her the first place. Stupid fellow, let her continue with her adulterous life, teach her daughter bad things, what goes around must surely come around. As for the son, when he finally grow up and make it in life, she will know that she is on a very long thing. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Amberon11: 4:25am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Hahaha.....I remember that useless thread. Trust Nigerian hypocritical men to support him. pweetiedee: 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Amberon11: 4:30am On Oct 25, 2017 |
You don't have sense. angelusbrut: 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by pawesome(m): 4:38am On Oct 25, 2017 |
She has for forgotten vows o cz it says fr richer fr poorer so make she de dia odawise end it cz is adultery no matter what |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Rhea(f): 4:47am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Melodyz: The mistake has been made. You should learn from your sister's experience and try not to suffer her fate. Make sure you can sustain yourself financially before you get married. The same advice goes to any woman today that aspires respect and peace of mind in her family. If you depend on your husband for financial support, he will treat you the same way he treats an empty bottle of beer. And NEVER give up your job for any man. You can even run a career / business from home, but make sure you are financially independent before marriage. That way, you can tell your husband to go to hell when he decides to feed you ratshit. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by DeRay98(m): 4:50am On Oct 25, 2017 |
sKy007: Why conclude that his financially handicapped when there's no evidence of such from the story. If he was financially handicapped his wouldn't be expecting much from him as long as she help out. So, concluding and blaming her as you did is wrong. I guess she's an unfortunate woman in relationships. |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by DonaTee(f): 5:21am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Melodyz: she should go and take her son. Pls. He's better off staying with her. also I cringe when I reason he may get exposed to vices early with a negligent father. pls 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by gare2510(m): 5:32am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Why is the husband unable to cater for his family? Is the issue willingness or capacity, is he making efforts? While you are answering the questions above, move out from her place if it means going back home cause sooner or later you will start getting used to what she is doing and start making excuses for her in your mind. |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by thunderbabs: 5:43am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Shuoooo....see Marriage counsellors, Relationship experts that are very good n scattering.....wehdone all of u |
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Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Sall(m): 5:49am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Greenbullet: You on point brother. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by Benekruku(m): 5:52am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Use your aunt for money rituals! |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by SycophanticGoat: 5:56am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Melodyz: Stop using "via" wrongly bro.. Hope you know it's a synonym of "through". It should be I have no experience about (not via) marriage. That said, advise your sister to get a divorce. It's as simple as that. |
Re: My Sister Is Cheating On Her Husband For Not Supporting Her Financially by SycophanticGoat: 5:59am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Melodyz: Bear in mind that the son she shipped off to the father will definitely grow up to hate his mother. She should've just catered for him rather than shipping him off to the irresponsible man she got married to. 2 Likes |
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