Once you are faithful, loyal and honest, you deserve true love from anyone. A lady who is faithful and loves to make a good home does not deserve all these FBI questions on virginity or who and who she slept with. The only thing is once she tells you vital truth and you love her so much, go ahead with the union because there is a better future for you.

No lady should tell lies about virginity, if you are not, please always say it at the beginning to your guy, so that all issues can die down on time. The issue here is that some ladies say it late & probably at the wrong timing... When you meet a guy and you are in love, please always tell him about your virginity status on time, and your values. Don't lie!!!! Many ladies that have good homes didnt marry as virgins, so why the lie?!!! even their husbands loved them the way they are, so dont get worried if you are not a virgin, you have other special qualities that can make a man see you as a diamond, a great woman and a dove for the future.

To be real, the lady I wanted to marry before was not a virgin, I didn't query her any day. What ended the whole thing was because there was a tussle(quarrel) with another guy ( a pastor) that was interested in her. She had other sweet & loving traits. She even told me she had cheated on someone before and was caught red-handed; but I still loved her and was pushing to marry her.

Please their are better things in life than virginity, so no need to lie about it.... After all, you can cook, you can respect, you are faithful, you can clean the house, you can keep the home, you can pray, you can help your future kids and etc.....All these are good traits, whether you are virgin or not.

in the real world, maybe, but in Africa where the value of women is measured between their legs, you must be out your damn mind.

BTW there is NOTHING wrong with a man putting value on virginity, just like there is nothing wrong with a man marrying an ex prostitute, the catch is all about HAPPINESS and fulfillment... but the minute you tell EVERYBODY that virginity does not matter, thats when you have failed (just like them bible thumping sheeps)

women do tell lies about their virgin status (with fake rape stories etc) because they fully well know that men in Africa value a pure woman over the rest, their ego will feel 10 times better knowing that they are the 1st one who mounted that toto, instead of the last of a long list of men. who are we kidding here?

let each and everybody decide what to value in a woman, and so be it, as each will have to live with it!

MrBrownJay1:
in the real world, maybe, but in Africa where the value of women is measured between their legs, you must be out your damn mind.

BTW there is NOTHING wrong with a man putting value on virginity, just like there is nothing wrong with a man marrying an ex prostitute, the catch is all about HAPPINESS and fulfillment... but the minute you tell EVERYBODY that virginity does not matter, thats when you have failed (just like them bible thumping sheeps)

women do tell lies about their virgin status (with fake rape stories etc) because they fully well know that men in Africa value a pure woman over the rest, their ego will feel 10 times better knowing that they are the 1st one who mounted that toto, instead of the last of a long list of men. who are we kidding here?

let each and everybody decide what to value in a woman, and so be it, as each will have to live with it!

You are right, that is not a license for ladies to sleep around.......But for the ladies who have changed nkor

eberetos:
You are right, that is not a license for ladies to sleep around.......But for the ladies who have changed nkor

any lady who has "changed" must accept that this is the consequences of her prior action. you cant eat your cake and have it too... let them instead make sure that they have something MORE valuable than virginity/coochie to attract a man, et voila!

MrBrownJay1:


any lady who has "changed" must accept that this is the consequences of her prior action. you cant eat your cake and have it too... let them instead make sure that they have something MORE valuable than virginity/coochie to attract a man, et voila!

If dangote's daughter is a non-virgin, she will be a virgin to you by force abi

eberetos:
If dangote's daughter is a non-virgin, she will be a virgin to you by force abi

dont assume NONSENSE.... if Dangote's daughter is not a virgin then THATS WHAT SHE IS.... no amount of wealth can change that (unless she want to fool her damn self and have hymenoplasty). why would you even think that way?!

btw, there is something more important than Virginity, and thats attraction....so if Dangote's daughter is UGLY but a VIRGIN then she is just as usuless as the non virgin ones (to these men who value virginity).