Good day friends, I would like to ask what your opinion is about guys dating girls who are older than they are no matter how little the age gap is. I have heard a couple of people saying the girls end up controlling the guys and some others say the guy starts believing the lady's attitude towards him is as a result of the age gap, even though she may not have behaved in any way she would not behave even though she was dating an older guy. Let's keep your ideas rolling... Thanks.

It really depends on the two people involved. Its a really cliché saying, but maturity is really not defined by age honestly. I've personally met guys who are 29/30, and its like talking to a 14 year old kid. I once dated a guy who was younger than me, and he made me see life in a completely different perspective. So intelligent, way beyond his years. Society looks down on it, especially our culture but my happiness comes first. They're pros and cons to it. But if i meet a guy who's younger than me who ticks all the right boxes, i'll be a fool to turn him down just because of his age.

Safiaa:
It really depends on the two people involved. Its a really cliché saying, but maturity is really not defined by age honestly. I've personally met guys who are 29/30, and its like talking to a 14 year old kid. I once dated a guy who was younger than me, and he made me see life in a completely different perspective. So intelligent, way beyond his years. Society looks down on it, especially our culture but my happiness comes first. They're pros and cons to it. But if i meet a guy who's younger than me who ticks all the right boxes, i'll be a fool to turn him down just because of his age.

because he was rich?.
Sigh. You know nothing bout maturity, just moneeey.

jamariwolf:
because he was rich?.
Sigh. You know nothing bout maturity, just moneeey.

K

Safiaa:
K

so rude. Bitch

Thanks safiaa, that was really helpful.

Thanks

Safiaa:
It really depends on the two people involved. Its a really cliché saying, but maturity is really not defined by age honestly. I've personally met guys who are 29/30, and its like talking to a 14 year old kid. I once dated a guy who was younger than me, and he made me see life in a completely different perspective. So intelligent, way beyond his years. Society looks down on it, especially our culture but my happiness comes first. They're pros and cons to it. But if i meet a guy who's younger than me who ticks all the right boxes, i'll be a fool to turn him down just because of his age.