chloride6:
You haven't provided enough information on this issue.

See forget that guy and all the I will take care of the baby. The guy no get money. If the guy get money e no suppose dey fu.cck small pickin. Na your family go take care of the baby last last.

If your family dey okay financially, keep the baby. If not , you know what to do. No carry person come suffer abeg.

Besides once your sister don born, husband go scarce like mad. Factor that one too. 99% probability dey say the guy no go marry your sister.

The most sensible comment so far on this thread.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Every man in earth is accountable for his actions ...no one can blame you or your family for your sisters mistake. Forget the children on this forum talking. They just sit to conclude,are they in your house to k ow what your mum must have gone through training her on morals ? Have people forgotten peer pressure and devil influence? You did nothing wrong. You are a man and should hustle so disregard what any slwo thinking perosn UST have stated here?
Allow your sister to have the baby ..let hr learn from her mistake and carry the cross of her burden ..but tell her she should write the date she stood her ground on that decision and should not in her wildest imagination assume she can come back and blame your family
None should tell her any thing again

Don't make 2 mistakes ...do not kill an innocent soul to save "reputation" of a person who sees nothing right in your acts to save her .
Its best she lives her live blaming her self than living Hee life hating you.
What if she dies on abortion ,what if in future she can't conceivr, ? Or she keepshabinv guilty conscience conscience over what she did
LET HER KEEP THE BABY ..TRAVEL TO PH SUMMON THE MAN FOR AMEETING AND CONCLUDE HOW HE WILL ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITIES.

Bros don't add abortions to the list of things the girl has done. Allow her please. If she dies its really on you.if you succeed you are both murderas

#candid advice
do ur they love themselves or was it a one chance game?
Abortion is a no for me cos the cry of that little baby will always be on u ppls head...Never u abort a baby I beg you.....
You haveaby options which I will present to u and show the better one
1) if that they love themselves, support them in the marriage, if the man is not working. start sometkn for him and let ur sister begin school again when she is done wit child birth.
2) if they don't pls Neva give that ur sister out to marriage cos she will forever be in bitterness which I don't pray for, take her to a far away state and allow her to give birth to her baby to avoid runny- runny mouth
3) Give the birth after birth to any childless couple but remember that the baby automatically turns theirs no going back
4) Let you parent go to a far away state to start all over again wit the notion the baby is theirs and not the girl

She has made her mistake and she regrets it. pls give her a second chance to amend her mistake by showing her love and care.
it can happen to any one, she needs love, care and encouragement like no other.
That she got pregnant at a teen age doesn't make a failure for life but know that anyway u manage her life now will mar or make her future. Pray over it and let God direct your part.......
I know of a covenant university girl that got pregnant at a young age and later became the best graduating student of that year.....She said she will forever be grateful to her parents for not giving up on her.....

#Shalom#
It's well

nigeriancritic1:

Are you trying to throw away the knife after it has cut through and inflicted damage. Rise up to it,the latest uncle in town!

Pls shut up. You are not making any sense. I know you are trying to act to live up to your moniker but you are doing a terrible job.

OP after she went and slept around she's now threatening members of the family that if anything happens it will be on your head

Let me tell you the truth don't abort that baby, if you do then she'll know how easy it is, and she'll know the location to go and abort the baby and she'll become the serial killer of babies.

Hello,
In my best and candid opinion. I will strongly suggest you allow her carry that pregnancy even if it means to her exam Hall. This will teach her a good learn and save you the mental torture if anything happens to her during the abortion process.
Giving birth at 17 does not necessarily mean the end of the world. For some kids, like your sister, this could be a defining moment of her life. She could come out of all issues to become stronger and more determined in life after the whole drama, shame and insults due now. This does not mean the end of her life or end of the world. This could be a motivating factor her needs to set her on a good course of life.
Aborting the pregnancy can spell doom!
She may not have another again in life - if that's the only one God has counted for her-. She could also loose her life in the process. And lastly, the Bible says "he who covers is sin shall die" so leave her to face the consequences of not listening to advises in the first place. This will be a lesson for her and the rest of the "slay mama" out there and also in her group of friends.
Meanwhile for the guy claiming he will be responsible and ready to cater for her, I simply laugh. I doubt if he knows what this entails! He has succeeded in messing up the girls life somewhat! He needs to be schooled and get him to see the shame he has brought upon himself and a girl of 16 years old for that matter! Shame on him.

justscorchone:



That wahala is necessary brotherly

Very very necessary ....

looseweight:


Save us sermon Mr preacher and give advice or STFU??

I swear and it's not like his English is all that. Just talking without making any sense

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

Are you educated? It's easier for a 16year old to give birth than a 27year old.

Have you ever thought of what will become of her if she loses her womb in the process of aborting an innocent soul?
Her getting pregnant is not a mistake on her part, but a mistake on you n your family's part for not educating her sexually thereby allowing friends and environment influence her. It's really disappointing to know that majority of parents out there today do not educate their wards on the dangers associated with sex, it is even more a problem in our society where parents do not want to know that their ward is having a relationship. If as a parent you do not know who the boyfriend or girlfriend of your child is, how then will you be able to guide them to adulthood? If your kids cannot be free to share their problems with you as a parent, then it suffice to say that one have failed in his/her 1st duty as a parent.

Antina:
You should have cautioned her when you see her towing the wrong path, it would have saved you from asking people's opinion. Save the rod and.....

Back to the topic!!

I beg of you, don't abort for her, she may be giving birth to a future president, who knows. And since the guy promised full responsibility of your sister, please let her be.

I know she would be happy someday she gave birth earlier!!.

old story if d child die or aborted pple don finish for d earth to bcum predident

@ skipuru.
guy am so sorry man, ur sis was decieved. De truth is no legal doctor would abort a baby in 9ja, wat if u go quack and ur sis dies or worse? I advice u to stop thinking about de shame now so u can concetrate, ur sis still has a future bro. de worse tin dat would happen 2 her is getting married to dat pedophile if he is ready 2 tak responsibility den he should b sending money 2 her, ur sis is still very young we cant afford 2 lock up her potentials in a careless marriage she has to be made 2 understand dis. She must complete her education she has to.

Maximus85:


Are you educated? It's easier for a 16year old to give birth than a 27year old.

Professor please sir Just let me be.

Skipuru:


I hate insulting people online please can you just be yourself.

bro honestly DAT guy is giving you very nice advice in a wrong way,
u need to embrace ur sis,show are more love it has already happen .........no go abort for her

Op, this is my true experience. I did two abortions but the second one was hell cos through that process I have a miscarriage before terminating my pregnancy. The second one was much more painful than the first. Well, I have lots of lessons to teach my unborn kids how I spent my life and the tragedy in it when the time is right. I find it hard now to trust men. So....this is it.

QueenOfNepal:
Nice advise but plz blot
Out d aabortion part because some stories don't deserve to grace here.


I will modify mine when you read.

It's not your decision to makee
Respect her for once

The gods are still not talking... I think u suld hire the town crier to summon the elders make dem come reason the matter

nigeriancritic1:

Are you trying to throw away the knife after it has cut through and inflicted damage. Rise up to it,the latest uncle in town!

who b dis?

nigeriancritic1:

With technology like phone you dont need to be in ph. Since you know this is a possibility you should have warned her regularly through calls on why she should keep her thighs together. You are not worthy of a big brother.

Oga, you're sounding extremely unreasonable and annoying too. What the heck?!!
For crying out loud, this guy is only 22years and he's the brother of the said girl and not the father! Girls get pregnant under the noses of their very strict and disciplined parents (sometimes even Deeper Life pastors), and here you are talking about admonition on phones. Abeg, shift joor!
Pray God that your children remain responsible as they keep growing up. Don't come here and be forming super dad.

Hmmm , she shouldn't abort the pregnancy, let her give birth, her boyfriend should take full responsibilities of the baby , pls don't give ur sister to him, let them see occasionally , n warn her against any future occurrence that can trauncate her future .#my opinion.

highchief1:
why de go fear prick e get wetin sweet reach prick ?

There is so much more to life than p.rick loving or cravings with its many consequences so... so much more oga..



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You have no right to decide whether she aborts or not though. It's her call.

Touchey:

She might also give birth to the future Hitler

Or future Buhari, which, to me, is even worse of.

Skipuru:


A guy of 27 years old impregnated my 16 years old sister mean while she's about to write her waec next year.
I called the guy on phone and he said he's ready to take responsibility of the girl and she will marry her , but me I don't like it that way because she's too small to bear a child and I don't want that to happen to my sister because she's the only girl in my family.
Now the question is I want her to abort the child and focus on her education but the guy said he ready and my mom called me and said that my sister said if anything should happen to her that it's on our head.
Please I want you to post it so I can hear people's opinions on this so I can know the right thing to do because I'm I'm going crazy.

Please I need a good advice on how to follow this matter. My mom want her to suffer so she can learn her lesson but me she will bring shame to me and my family. I'm just a boy of 22 years old still on the street.

What kinda loose joint are you fukkers running that allows a 16 year old to get knocked up?

iamceemeon:
This world av spoil finish.... Wen we were young, the only thing on our mind was books.

haunty! haunty!
i de hail ooooo

nigeriancritic1:

You neglected your duty in pointing to her the danger of having a sexual relationship before WAEC. You have failed her and as well she failed herself. Your sister is on the way to become if not already a trainee olosho and animashaun

Providea suggestion on the way forward.
Let her bear her baby. If you feel the man is a potential husband material, let them marry. If not, let her carry her pregnancy

Skipuru:


Professor please sir Just let me be.

he's just trying to let you know that it's easier to get pregnant when you're young than when you're old

WaffenSS:


What kinda loose joint are you fukkers running that allows a 16 year old to get knocked up?

Those kids are the reason I choose to hustle but thank God say Na only one girl.

Antina:
You should have cautioned her when you see her towing the wrong path, it would have saved you from asking people's opinion. Save the rod and.....

Back to the topic!!

I beg of you, don't abort for her, she may be giving birth to a future president, who knows. And since the guy promised full responsibility of your sister, please let her be

I know she would be happy someday she gave birth earlier!!.

did you or didn't you read the part where he said his sis is too young to give birth ....
use your head pls....

Let's see na

Skipuru:


No I should be carrying her on my back.
I dey Lagos dey hustle mean while they are living comfortably at ph.

Sorry about your situation.

Here's my take;

1. At 22,.you are No longer a boy.

2. What If you were shown that If your sister aborted she will lose her womb and never have kids again, would you still advise her to go for the abortion?

3. It seems you're more worried about what people will say than what's best for your sister.

4. Please encourage her to give birth to the baby. She wasn't raped. The sex was consensual.

5. As a matter of fact abortion is murder. Do you want to have that on your conscience?

6. The man has agreed to take responsibility.

7. She can always go back to school after nursing the baby, But she can't unabort the baby.