KreativGenius:


This is the traditional mindset of people going into dating. It's wrong. He should man up, up his game and win his love. It's stressing chasing one girl alone let alone jumping from one to the next

Wishmore:
So I’ve been dating my gf for over 20 months, we’ve been cool, loving and all.

Two months a go, she was down with ulcer( chronic ulcer pains) and have been taking medications since then...

Along the line, she started complaining that I don’t care about her health and all I do is to give her money for drugs and just call to tell her she’ll be fine.

On my part I most confess that the way I call/text reduced solely because I recently got a new job and still in the process of mastering it.(tho i still keep good communication but not as b4)

I explained all this to her but she wasn’t contented.

So there’s this guy she’s been taking to for a while (was just back from his masters). Initially she tells me about how he’s her friend and that he’s doing his masters and all.

I was cool cus it’s healthy if she keep a few male friends.

Along the line, I started noticing how they’re now close and she can how they call n text each other so much!

I confronted her and she lied he’s not the one... not until I found out n she agreed and said they’re just friends.

I was still skeptical about everything and I was fast loosing my trust for her.

Now she does stuff “low key” with the guy, they guy is back in the country and they’ve met a couple of times! Yet she maintains he’s not an issue.


Two days ago, I went to see her in a bit to clear the air and bring her close. She was all cool with the idea and even said she doesn’t have anything to do with the guy again that they don’t even call or text again. I was happy but one thing was telling me to verify.

So at that point, I cloned her WhatsApp (was a bad idea I guess) and left.


Loll. Just few mins after I left, she texted the guy and was like;

“Hi”,
“how did it go?”,
“John I am so bored and lonely”

I was shocked!

This was the same girl that said she no longer talks to him and all.


And to crown everything, she called me a few hours later and thanked me for coming over with all the love talks etc.


Still in shock.


So she chated me up on WhatsApp and was like she already misses me and she can’t wait to see me again.


I just replied her with the screenshot. N left.

Luxuryconsult:
fight for wetin my sister? That girl is playing games.. I'd walk away if it's me.. 'seven billion people in the world trying to fit in' - justin bieber.

Bibi294:

You see, you can crucify me for this but I'm telling you the fact...
Ladies have a very flexible heart.... The lady might not be cheating. .. I'm currently into shii like this... I even went extreme for a couple's shoot with my friend for his clothing line ... Boo was practically mad, his bae was angry too...
You know, not all ladies are strong... Some needs someone who will always be there every time..... Someone to talk to and all that.... Since her bf is busy... she might be getting that from someone else but I bet she's not cheating... My advice for the said gf is that she shouldn't choose friendship over her relationship.... She should trend carefully around the so called friend so the guy won't take advantage of her...

Please, don't attract me o.... Just saying my mind

Wishmore:
So I’ve been dating my gf for over 20 months, we’ve been cool, loving and all.

Two months a go, she was down with ulcer( chronic ulcer pains) and have been taking medications since then...

Along the line, she started complaining that I don’t care about her health and all I do is to give her money for drugs and just call to tell her she’ll be fine.

On my part I most confess that the way I call/text reduced solely because I recently got a new job and still in the process of mastering it.(tho i still keep good communication but not as b4)

I explained all this to her but she wasn’t contented.

So there’s this guy she’s been taking to for a while (was just back from his masters). Initially she tells me about how he’s her friend and that he’s doing his masters and all.

I was cool cus it’s healthy if she keep a few male friends.

Along the line, I started noticing how they’re now close and she can how they call n text each other so much!

I confronted her and she lied he’s not the one... not until I found out n she agreed and said they’re just friends.

I was still skeptical about everything and I was fast loosing my trust for her.

Now she does stuff “low key” with the guy, the guy is back in the country and they’ve met a couple of times! Yet she maintains he’s not an issue.


Two days ago, I went to see her in a bit to clear the air and bring her close. She was all cool with the idea and even said she doesn’t have anything to do with the guy again that they don’t even call or text again. I was happy (relived) but one thing was telling me to verify.

So at that point, I cloned her WhatsApp (was a bad idea I guess) and left.


Loll. Just few mins after I left, she texted the guy and was like;

“Hi”,
“how did it go?”,
“John I am so bored and lonely”

I was shocked!

This was the same girl that said she no longer talks to him and all.


And to crown everything, she called me a few hours later and thanked me for coming over with all the love talks etc.


Still in shock.


So she chated me up on WhatsApp and was like she already misses me and she can’t wait to see me again.


I just replied her with the screenshot and left.

donsimo:


If I slap you.

Bibi294:

You see, you can crucify me for this but I'm telling you the fact...
Ladies have a very flexible heart.... The lady might not be cheating. .. I'm currently into shii like this... I even went extreme for a couple's shoot with my friend for his clothing line ... Boo was practically mad, his bae was angry too...
You know, not all ladies are strong... Some needs someone who will always be there every time..... Someone to talk to and all that.... Since her bf is busy... she might be getting that from someone else but I bet she's not cheating... My advice for the said gf is that she shouldn't choose friendship over her relationship.... She should trend carefully around the so called friend so the guy won't take advantage of her...

Please, don't attract me o.... Just saying my mind

cletz991:
how did you clone the whatsapp

donsimo:
First rule bro, never trust a woman, you can love her, live with her care for her but never trust her.
A girl see you trusting her as a weakness,
Look brother, girls will tell you to be patient, but the thing is, this girl has proved a point to you, she will never be satisfied, your not married and Shes already saying your not giving her time.
I think you should have a sit down with her, dont react, just tell her you want to talk, then ask her to tell you every thing, from the beginning. Don't interrupt her, remind her that you know, but you guess she should have a chance.

Once she's through lying tell her that you love her but you haven't seen any girl other than her, you care about her and your want her to be happy, so you'll let her be happy with her guy, that you guess a man who can be happy with another man's girl will trust her completely and probably marry her.
Then leave and block her number for a week pls this is the hard part, you might get messages like "I'll do something to myself if you don't answer me" call confirm shes OK then block her again. She has a chance and a choice, she will try to get back to you and ditch him of her accord or she will stay with him. That choice is the only thing that can save the relationship.

She has to let go of him by herself,am sure your tired of thinking what she's doing when your not there.

Wishmore:
And for thoes asking about the clone.
Send me a DM, I’ll reply.

Bibi294:

Coman slap me na

Luxuryconsult:
my brother, it's better for you to love a girl so much and she never gives you a chance at all than dating a girl and grow love for her only in the course of the relationship and she leaves you.. Bro, you don't really know what heratbreak can cause especially from someone you so much love.. Have see lot's of people from good homw tuned to LovePeddler, many living sngle life even at age 40, many becoming a demon.. Sometimes even as a man, you can't handle heartbreak, some will even become aggressive and all sorts.. The solution to this this is protecting yourself. He has done what's required of him as a faithful boyfriend who is in love but this girl is not certain for any of them.. She can choose him or choose the other guy instead so he needs to be prepared for whatever outcome my brother.

Wishmore:
So I’ve been dating my gf for over 20 months, we’ve been cool, loving and all.

Two months a go, she was down with ulcer( chronic ulcer pains) and have been taking medications since then...

Along the line, she started complaining that I don’t care about her health and all I do is to give her money for drugs and just call to tell her she’ll be fine.

On my part I most confess that the way I call/text reduced solely because I recently got a new job and still in the process of mastering it.(tho i still keep good communication but not as b4)

I explained all this to her but she wasn’t contented.

So there’s this guy she’s been taking to for a while (was just back from his masters). Initially she tells me about how he’s her friend and that he’s doing his masters and all.

I was cool cus it’s healthy if she keep a few male friends.

Along the line, I started noticing how they’re now close and she can how they call n text each other so much!

I confronted her and she lied he’s not the one... not until I found out n she agreed and said they’re just friends.

I was still skeptical about everything and I was fast loosing my trust for her.

Now she does stuff “low key” with the guy, the guy is back in the country and they’ve met a couple of times! Yet she maintains he’s not an issue.


Two days ago, I went to see her in a bit to clear the air and bring her close. She was all cool with the idea and even said she doesn’t have anything to do with the guy again that they don’t even call or text again. I was happy (relived) but one thing was telling me to verify.

So at that point, I cloned her WhatsApp (was a bad idea I guess) and left.


Loll. Just few mins after I left, she texted the guy and was like;

“Hi”,
“how did it go?”,
“John I am so bored and lonely”

I was shocked!

This was the same girl that said she no longer talks to him and all.


And to crown everything, she called me a few hours later and thanked me for coming over with all the love talks etc.


Still in shock.


So she chated me up on WhatsApp and was like she already misses me and she can’t wait to see me again.


I just replied her with the screenshot and left.


pls how did u clone d WhatsApp? am in need of it too