KreativGenius:



All of us. Too much self-dependency in teenage did this to us all. Argh, I'm so wrapped up but i've decided to make space for someone in my life. Life's too hard for me to take it all on myself. How will you cope ? I mean needs

That's cool. If you can make room. I wish I could, but I'm very irritable. And about needs, I'm mostly self sufficient.

RaggedyAnn:



That's cool. If you can make room. I wish I could, but I'm very irritable. And about needs, I'm mostly self sufficient.

I'm super self suffienct too. Learning here to make room for someone to fill. That's the secret, our own soul, and not the other individual i believe, if our satiety levels can e worked on, expectations can be reduced and things would still work out fine

KreativGenius:



I'm super self suffienct too. Learning here to make room for someone to fill. That's the secret, our own soul, and not the other individual i believe, if our satiety levels can e worked on, expectations can be reduced and things would still work out fine

Yes, you may be right about that.

RaggedyAnn:


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Yes, you may be right about that.

I've been super self-reliant since teen years back in secondary, almost never asked for help from anyone, i always work within my means. But we all need each other Ann. Shoudl the fear of not getting it make us so locked up that we don't wanna love?

KreativGenius:


I've been super self-reliant since teen years back in secondary, almost never asked for help from anyone, i always work within my means. But we all need each other Ann. Shoudl the fear of not getting it make us so locked up that we don't wanna love?

Wow, since secondary school......You were toughened up pretty early, then. No, it should not.

RaggedyAnn:


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Wow, since secondary school......You were toughened up pretty early, then. No, it should not.

Argh.Was in Cadet since 11, left home for boarding since 11, started making money since that age, gambling and all sorts. Just didn't do woman, the typical tupac shakur dude, somehow, i didnt cross the line too far, learnt too be a soldier from a kid, ran into so many troubles with friends, now back with been solo, s i know why we lock ourselves up, btut what if true love exists out there, isnt it worth the risk than remaining locked up for life Ann?

KreativGenius:



Argh.Was in Cadet since 11, left home for boarding since 11, started making money since that age, gambling and all sorts. Just didn't do woman, the typical tupac shakur dude, somehow, i didnt cross the line too far, learnt too be a soldier from a kid, ran into so many troubles with friends, now back with been solo, s i know why we lock ourselves up, btut what if true love exists out there, isnt it worth the risk than remaining locked up for life Ann?

, you're making it sound like I've locked myself away in a tower; away from the world. Well, we all begin with a plan, it doesn't stop random things from happening to us anyway. Love can be that random thing even if we don't set ourselves up for it directly. I don't even know what I'm saying anymore, sef. I should go and sleep.

RaggedyAnn:



, you're making it sound like I've locked myself away in a tower; away from the world. Well, we all begin with a plan, it doesn't stop random things from happening to us anyway. Love can be that random thing even if we don't set ourselves up for it directly. I don't even know what I'm saying anymore, sef. I should go and sleep.

Damn it. Perhaps you need to reflect on your life dear. It's time for the teacher to pause and reflect on personal doctrine, within our own soul comes directive on our next path in life, we can do an overview of the road behind us Ann, we can correct mistakes, and change path if we feel we've been on a wrong path all along. Yes, you're locked up trying to be in that state of " no flaws ", i've keept a careful eye on you since i became active this year, why you're discplined,motivated,smart,got your head up, perhaps it's time to embrace vulnerability and ply a different route, don'tyou think ?


What if the teacher has been taking a wrong path ?


What if a new path with better promise is imminent and lies just around the corner Ann ?

Should we not get tired of been locked up in perfection ( I no want fall hand, i have a rep to keep )


We can experiment, and yeah baby, we can have our cakes and the cherries on it too. We can have it all, a beautiful meaning full life, we can all have a fantasy life, we can create our world.

It's never to late to make a right turn i tell myself, so no matter how far i travel, once i realise it's a wrong path, even if it's twenty years after i started, i start the journey of the right path the day i realize i've been on a wrong path all along

If we make our minds to seek, we shall find what we desire, if we reserve ourselves because of the tides and waves of the ocean, we would have been caught up by the trauma it inflicts on our souls and make decisions based on fear and not on rational deductions. So no more spectating about the waves of the ocean,it's time to plunge into the deep and test the waters

It's time to soften stance

Time to release thyself from the perfection mode and let the girl jump out of the woman

KreativGenius:



Damn it. Perhaps you need to reflect on your life dear. It's time for the teacher to pause and reflect on personal doctrine, within our own soul comes directive on our next path in life, we can do an overview of the road behind us Ann, we can correct mistakes, and change path if we feel we've been on a wrong path all along. Yes, you're locked up trying to be in that state of " no flaws ", i've keept a careful eye on you since i became active this year, why you're discplined,motivated,smart,got your head up, perhaps it's time to embrace vulnerability and ply a different route, don'tyou think ?


What if the teacher has been taking a wrong path ?


What if a new path with better promise is imminent and lies just around the corner Ann ?

Should we not get tired of been locked up in perfection ( I no want fall hand, i have a rep to keep )


We can experiment, and yeah baby, we can have our cakes and the cherries on it too. We can have it all, a beautiful meaning full life, we can all have a fantasy life, we can create our world.

Hmm. Nice lines...........I hear you.

RaggedyAnn:





Hmm. Nice lines...........I hear you.

Lol @ lines. I'm not joking. I meant every word in all i typed tonight. See when a woman sees real love ehn, she go throw way scarf, purse, wallet, bank account, atm, feminism ideologies, throw way NL password. a swear, ask Kashy


If hand go fall make e fall, i go try am too ( Make me enter this lane )

RaggedyAnn:





Hmm. Nice lines...........I hear you.

Now one of the greatest problems in life is who teaches the teacher? Intelligent people are the people with the heaviest burden in life, cause most times, there's no teacher for these species.When the intelligent ones get stuck, who unstucks them, cause our life is a function of our belief systems, our belief systems on our ideologies and knowledge, so knowledge limits us and confines us to our life's path. So how we live now, and choices are based on limitations of what we don't know more than what we know. You get? Flow with me, just flow, so for an intelligent person the challenge is to, what path, when i see many options before me, or when i've been travelling along a path, do i continue, or how do i move from here? This kind feeling.Flow with me,


More than ever, the teacher can travel along time without taking heed to his/her path to examine if there are right or if a change is necessary. Reflection and then clarity will come my dear

KreativGenius:


Lol @ lines. I'm not joking. I meant every word in all i typed tonight. See when a woman sees real love ehn, she go throw way scarf, purse, wallet, bank account, atm, feminism ideologies, throw way NL password. a swear, ask Kashy


If hand go fall make e fall, i go try am too ( Make me enter this lane )

Why did you have to ruin those lyrics with this now . Throw away my ideologies? I can do without the scarf and even the purse, but my ideologies? Now, you've put me on the defensive again. .Seriously though, the reality falls short of these expectations every time. And I already told you why that is.

RaggedyAnn:



Why did you have to ruin those lyrics with this now . Throw away my ideologies? I can do without the scarf and even the purse, but my ideologies? Now, you've put me on the defensive again. .Seriously though, the reality falls short of these expectations every time. And I already told you why that is.

Na so every lady says that, the reality falls short. Ann get a diary and a pen and write, when a lady sees true love,she'll throw away everything. I ain't joking. Too bad we aren'tin the same city, would have given you a demo

KreativGenius:



Now one of the greatest problems in life is who teaches the teacher? Intelligent people are the people with the heaviest burden in life, cause most times, there's no teacher for these species.When the intelligent ones get stuck, who unstucks them, cause our life is a function of our belief systems, our belief systems on our ideologies and knowledge, so knowledge limits us and confines us to our life's path. So how we live now, and choices are based on limitations of what we don't know more than what we know. You get? Flow with me, just flow, so for an intelligent person the challenge is to, what path, when i see many options before me, or when i've been travelling along a path, do i continue, or how do i move from here? This kind feeling.Flow with me,


More than ever, the teacher can travel along time without taking heed to his/her path to examine if there are right or if a change is necessary. Reflection and then clarity will come my dear

I'll edit this tomorrow to give you a proper response. Or I'll send it to your box. But for now, good night, dear.

RaggedyAnn:



I'll edit this tomorrow to give you a proper response. Or I'll send it to your box. But for now, good night, dear.

Aiit Night Night, My day's just started here dear

Divay22:
Is there any decent lady that will choose to be a baby mama.

Actually I think there are.

emperormossad:

Actually I think there are.

Alright.

Divay22:

Alright.

How is your night going? We seem to have a 'problem' in common

I suggest you go to a proper dating site and drop your contact details there

Chybeibe:
No lady will agree to be a babymama, even ashawo sef no go gree unlike you use love follow a lady and get her pregnant by mistake then babymama don start, that's if she doesn't abort the child. Kuku marry.

Marriage is definitely not on d table for me. At least not with the memory of my parents drawing knives and objects to fight each other with. My dad going away for many years to later die alone in isolation only to be discovered 4 days after.

RaggedyAnn:
I think it's good that you seem to know what you want. I believe that there may be women out there who might take you up on your offer; and you've chosen an age bracket where the chances of that happening may be as high as you could hope. Not every woman wants a husband either. You might find one who is only looking to duplicate herself just like you are.

However, in Africa, we are still concerned with maintaining fronts; and having a child out of wedlock may not be a choice any woman would consciously make. For the sake of everyone concerned, especially the child. That's why people would rather go into short-term marriages. Have children and then separate; like you see with several couples in the public eye. You can draw up whatever conditions that suit you: 2 years, 5 years, live separately, etc.....Not every marriage has to be a fairy-tale these days. And who knows, maybe as you embark on this stone-cold quest you might actually fall in love in the process. No pressure.

Good luck to you.

Thanks,but i dont want to entertain any tots of love or companionship now or in future.

Yigiyaga:
Marriage is definitely not on d table for me. At least not with the memory of my parents drawing knives and objects to fight each other with. My dad going away for many years to later die alone in isolation only to be discovered 4 days after.

Sorry about that.

Yigiyaga:
Thanks,but i dont want to entertain any tots of love or companionship now or in future.

You're wrapped by the horror of your parents' experience. Snap yourself out of it

KreativGenius:



You're wrapped by the horror of your parents' experience. Snap yourself out of it

Bros,its not that easy. I cant even be in a relationship cos that protective instinct comes up always.

Yigiyaga:
Bros,its not that easy. I cant even be in a relationship cos that protective instinct comes up always.

R u in Lagos ?

KreativGenius:

R u in Lagos ?

I reside in Lagos,though in Anambra at the moment.

Yigiyaga:
I reside in Lagos,though in Anambra at the moment.

When you're in Lagos, let's meet in person. There are things you need to fix o. I can't say it publicly

KreativGenius:



When you're in Lagos, let's meet in person. There are things you need to fix o. I can't say it publicly

mindset? Hmm bros you think that will help?ok,will let you know,thanks.

Yigiyaga:
mindset? Hmm bros you think that will help?ok,will let you know,thanks.

It's beyond mindset o. It's serious.When you're in Lagos, let me know