Tarmpa:

As 4 me,i dont go sleepn with d girl i dont love & cant marry.I propose as soon as i discover that she's good enouph 4 me,i'm always very happy to spend so much on them without looking back,all because of love.

Tarmpa:

But what do they pay me back with? Disapointment, infidelity,& any bad thing u can think of.Just imagine me, catching my ex fiancee,RED HANDED,cheatn on me just few weeks 2 our weddn,

Krissykriss:

How many times will i say this? Love doesnt live here anymore. All we do is deception. The guy says he loves u cos he wants intimacy, d girl says she loves u cos she wants u to marry her. Deception!

omega25red:

dating is just that "dating" you can date fall in love have intimacy and meet the friends but what else are you doing to make sure the initial mutual intrest stays the same?
honestly though (poor excuse) men are wired to look for the newest and freshest girl because no matter how hot you look no matter how good your bed game is and all the other stuff our mind is always on what the next hot girl can do.

henryhemon:

Women think the d best they can offer in a relationship is n that's where d get it all wrong,even wen u don't f.u, c.k them,d give out 2 another dude.when a woman has strong personality,a man will nvr dump her,cuz he'll always want 2 be wit her cuz only few women ve it n he wil be proud of wat he got.
A dude i knw almost got crazy cuz of a woman he luvs n she went 2 give it 2some other guy n by d way d girl gives it 2 any guy dat cares.how then can he b commited?

brutal:

A real man will commit if he finds d right woman. . .

OBLONG:

Men usually committ the moment a woman has[b] more than SEexX to offer, why committ to a woman who can only offer you SeExX ?! [/b]

Im sorry to burst your bubble but thats not a good enough reason for me to committ to you, I can have SExXD with anyone.

harakiri:

Thank you very much.I overlooked that.A lot of women think that once they are having seExX with a guy. . .they have given up their most priced "possession" (as if we don't have ours).

OBLONG:

Men usually committ the moment a woman has[b] more than SEexX to offer,[/b] why committ to a woman who can only offer you SeExX ?!

Im sorry to burst your bubble but thats not a good enough reason for me to committ to you, I can have SExXD with anyone.

Diva 2.0:

You say like her, she says she likes you, you both go out. She meets your friends and you meet hers. You both engage in sexual activities, you like it but basically you don't want to put a ring on it. What is the point of dating and then falling in love, then call it quits for some odd reason? What are you afraid of?

ayettymama:

^^ lolz

i seriously cant laff!!

at post most men are confused and dnt no what they want!

chic2pimp:

@ POST

They ain't scared of nuffing they just ain't ready.
When they are ready  and if you are the 'Right One' they'll let y'all know.
As the saying goes it's better safe than sorry
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ayettymama:

what money??

what u on abt??

did u read th post?

harakiri:

Men are afraid to commit coz NO MAN EVER KNOWS THE WOMAN UNTIL AFTER MARRIAGE/KIDS! ! !

Period!

Woman always put up appearances during the dating phase but after a kid or two, that's when you realize that Angelina is actually Belshazzar. . .the Devil's advocate.If women could be a lil more truthful and drop the pretenses, perhaps men would take them more seriously!

Nuff said.

Re: Why Are Guys So Afraid To Commit?

ayettymama:

^^ not to mention if appearance is important the man is very shallow!!

run run run!

Sagamite:

I know a very cute girl, she herself told me this story, she was dating a guy that was crazy about her for a year. The guy was a very decent and nice guy (she said), a professional and eligible guy. She was a virgin at 24 years and even though the guy wanted to hit it, she said no and the guy caring about what she wants backed down despite the temptation and frustration of having a beautiful girl he is in love with, coming over and sleeping at his place every now and then.

They broke up after an argument a year into the relationship (the normal woman moaning palava she told me that I can not recall now). She had another toaster that had been disturbing her even before the break up ended, and 6 weeks after breaking up, she started dating this other toaster. He liked her but not as much as the first guy, actually she said she did not think the new guy loved her but liked her a lot. The new guy had more game (being more butch from my assessment) and coerced and turned her on until she gave in and had se.x with him after 2 months of dating. She told me she did it with him despite knowing she had no intention of marrying him, that it was just the way he made her feel from his dominating/manipulative self-assurance, swagger and confidence.

They broke up after 4 months and the first guy was back in town (his career involved a lot of travelling and being out of Nigeria hence part of the reason the fight was not ended), he called her and met up. They then got back together, only for her to reveal to him after a month what had happened. The poor guy was devastated.

I did not know either of the guys, I only knew her, but when she was telling me the story I was so pissed off for the sake of the first guy that I felt like slapping her (even though she is a nice and good girl).

She is now married to the first guy. I don't know how he could handle such betrayal of his patience, consideration and understanding even though she is a decent girl.

Sagamite:

I know a very cute girl, she herself told me this story, she was dating a guy that was crazy about her for a year. The guy was a very decent and nice guy (she said), a professional and eligible guy. She was a virgin at 24 years and even though the guy wanted to hit it, she said no and the guy caring about what she wants backed down despite the temptation and frustration of having a beautiful girl he is in love with, coming over and sleeping at his place every now and then.

They broke up after an argument a year into the relationship (the normal woman moaning palava she told me that I can not recall now). She had another toaster that had been disturbing her even before the break up ended, and 6 weeks after breaking up, she started dating this other toaster. He liked her but not as much as the first guy, actually she said she did not think the new guy loved her but liked her a lot. The new guy had more game (being more butch from my assessment) and coerced and turned her on until she gave in and had se.x with him after 2 months of dating. She told me she did it with him despite knowing she had no intention of marrying him, that it was just the way he made her feel from his dominating/manipulative self-assurance, swagger and confidence.

They broke up after 4 months and the first guy was back in town (his career involved a lot of travelling and being out of Nigeria hence part of the reason the fight was not ended), he called her and met up. They then got back together, only for her to reveal to him after a month what had happened. The poor guy was devastated.

I did not know either of the guys, I only knew her, but when she was telling me the story I was so pissed off for the sake of the first guy that I felt like slapping her (even though she is a nice and good girl).

She is now married to the first guy. I don't know how he could handle such betrayal of his patience, consideration and understanding even though she is a decent girl.

davidylan:

Because men are looking for something very few women can offer. Companionship, understanding, patience and a loving nature.
A lot of women spend too much time on their outward appearance and think that + should be enough to earn them a ring. nothing could be farther from the truth.