@poster I got this from your profile

Life's too short, so live everyday like its your last

.@babe, uve gat it g0od. . .i lyk ur style. . .it's NOT a must to hv a bf. .
.P.S. .i hv one. .lol. :-)

There are two realities here: love and sex.

After a frustating relationship anyone may want a break to recollect. That does not mean she will not be getting sex from some unpresentable fellow. It is called sex without love. or maybe a vibrator friend.

The danger is you are in college, the best place to try future relationships. You do not have to be intimate but keep your options open in case you find one that may turn out to be real love later, even after school. Many girls find out the boy they casually like may be it. It is not wise to close all your options and eyes closed. It just means you are not in a rush. College is the best place and time to get a man. Exams are beside the point. You will have exams throughout your life.

not that u are not interested but u just want to  taste the lonliness
then when u are back from your holiday, u will kick start like never bfore

every thing is wrong not having a boy friend, except if u want to be a reverend sister in future. At ur age 20 girl u are not getting young any more. Now is d best time for u to start planning for ur future at least having a good guy around u

MeGaStReEt:

@poster I got this from your profile

Life's too short, so live everyday like its your last

SO, the best way to live everyday lyk its ur last is by hvin a bf, Oh please

ichommy:

@ poster we have the same problem   my guy always make jest of me

dont let wteva dey say get to u dear, hvin a gf or bf is not all dere is to lyf.

There is nothing wrong.you should not have had a boyfriend in the first place cause you are sure too young to date and the bible you must not commit fornication.[i am not insinuating that you must have committed fornication with your x boyfriend[s],i am just saying you could get tempted to committing fornication.
I am 20 as well and i have had many girlfriends even now i cant count how many i have but my relationship with all of them is strictly casual i hope you become one of them some day.i am a jehovah's witness and i hold the bible and its principle firmly.you are doing the right thing.

luv,
small man.

Neither will i say u r on d right track nor the wrong, i'll just say ur on a track and whether its right or wrong is all on u.
Based on ur few replies here, u already know ur answer before creating this thread.
Taking a year break is not a bad idea (What tha hell, we've seen unmarried ladies) as long as u can bounce back properly after ur break.
The thing about such breaks is sometimes while at it, u might unconsciously build shells around ur heart and the 1st guy u go out with would become the physical therapy in ur shells breaking.
So watch out for such shells hun, some of ur sneery comments are kinda suggesting u r building them already.
Nywayz happy romance breaks.

@ poster ,just say u want a break from fo.cking

^^^^ lmao!!


Also better get some courting practice under your belt so that when the time comes
you will know how to keep your  bobo.

If you have no courting experience till you want to marry you are in big trouble.
Men will think something is wrong with you because they will equate your naivety to being  a weirdo.


Remember , i didnt say go and be loose.
Have a nice boyfriend and learn your relationship skillz off it.

There is nothing wrong wit being single. Its a really bold step you are taking. Anybody that thinks something is wrong with you is cos the person is scared of being lonely.

Its your decision bt tyme waits 4 no 1

Its ur decision bt tyme waits 4 no 1

do what u know is right, its ur shoe you know where it pinches,

Whats wrong with not dating for a long time? myself ive been totally out of the dating scene, no intimacy whatsoever, almost two years running. And i aint bothered.

What Is not Wrong About Not Having A Boyfriend @ the age of 20

    pls not cover up are u GAY or thing .

    Are the first to study ?

    shhhhh Mumu in 3D

@ ije004,dem never poke ur hole for two years?cobwebs never grow there?@ poster,u sure say u fit last 6 months wdout Bleep.i.ng?e no go easy oo!

There is Absolutely Nothing wrong with not having a Boyfriend.

Ije004:

Whats wrong with not dating for a long time? myself ive been totally out of the dating scene, no intimacy whatsoever, almost two years running. And i aint bothered.

WHAT!!!

Hmmmmmm!!!!

theres nothinbg wrong with it

in fact men are distractions onli to be ehem ehem

no theres nothing wrong with it

@-bennygee, why u go talk dat kain tin, the meter no dey read,

I advise you to get a reasonable boyfriend, not all this bastard that doesn't think about the future. Get some-one that think positively about you. Choose a boyfriend that care for you, your education and your future. Get some-one that love you truly not a boy that demanding for sex like daily bread.

Good girl. Enjoy yourself while it lasts.

@-vc online, guy "intimacy like daily bread" dat yarn make sense, lmfao.

@poster,frm ur replies, u already knw what u want so I don't knw why u came here in d first place.If not having a bf will make u graduate with 1st class or enjoy life like there will b no 2morrow,then b my guest

Stick to your decision its a wise and correct one

@Poster- maybe you wowo, if you fine, you must always have toasters and there is a 99% chance that you'll have a good boyfriend amongst them , just shine your eye well well

@ POSTER

Ur decisions are reasonable but GOD made adam and eve in order for us 2 sample d tin tin and also for us 2 test d microphone and multiply so having a companion cud make d educacion click wella ooh jus teasin am bin bad

gal i fil u jare sumtimes focus is nided
al dis kweekwe boys fit delete person memory
so gud on u darling stay focused and stay blessed

I can see some people are living in the dark ages still,at 20 some adults here are caling her still young?are you Older girls prayingher to be 27 be having a bf? cos if she is 20, it takes at least 5 yrs to get fru uni in 9ja, thats if there aint no strike,mine was nearly 7 yrs lol now she will be26 plus then going for guys who are willing and able to settle down early 30s abi? now at that point she got just about 12 yrs to do the child bearing thing, girl wise up oh,grow with your bobo, if he no make am you go make am,having a bf is far more than just sex etc,there is mutual friendship of the highest order,you got someone you could trust and rely on and much more,once you are 18 you are an adult,so plese ladies and gentlemen stop telling her she is still young.

@OP: Nothing do you jare! You're very normal!!! Never let anyone rush you into a relationship because if things go sour or wrong, they will backpedal like lightning. Take your time, dear.

@poster, I tink u nid a cunnilingus 2 put bak ur brains in oda, cos ur becomin an "L" sista, shame on u.