Hey all! I’m in a pinch and need advice. I joined a singles tour to Shenzhen, China held by A Foreign Affair. I met hundreds of beautiful women and it gave me the chance to find one beautiful girl that sparked my romantic side.

She’s fair in speaking English and spending time with her was really easy. In the duration of the trip we had the chance to go out and talk a lot. I’ve extended my stay for a few more days after the tour and got to spend more time with her. We continued to keep in touch and know more about each other through correspondence and got to talk about her coming to Seattle.

I’m not sure if I should offer to pay for her trip or if she will be paying for it. I really don’t know how to bring the topic up… I am willing to pay for it or a portion of the ticket if she’d need help but I don’t want to offend her somehow. Should I just wait for her to bring up the topic or should I? And, how do I bring it up to her? Help!!!

Bro, dnt feel obligated 2 foot d bill. If she needs any help in that regards, then let her ask. Shikina

Someone you just met yesterday and you already thinking about paying for her ticket, you are not even sure yet if this relationship will progress.


Well done clap for yourself.

if she is ready to pay let her pay, no go enter bankruptcy base on say u wan impress d babe.