RELATIONSHIP ANGLE

SIGNS TO KNOW WHEN A GIRL IS CHEATING ON YOU

1. WHEN SHE BEGINS TO RECEIVE CALLS FREQUENTLY FROM DIFFERENT GUYS AND SHE SEES NOTHING WRONG WITH IT, WATCH IT! SHE MIGHT BE PLAYING GAMES.

2. WHEN SHE TELLS IRRELEVANT LIES AND SWITCHES OFF HER PHONE WITHOUT REASON.

3. WHEN SHE BEGINS TO FIND FAULT IN YOU OR WITH YOU. SOME GIRLS ARE VERY, VERY DEEP AND CAN PRETEND, BUT IF YOU USE YOUR HEAD AND NOT YOUR HEART HER PRETENCE WILL NOT LAST LONG.

4. CHECK OUT THE FRIENDS SHE CONSTANTLY MOVE WITH, IF THEY ARE BAD GIRLS IT WONT TAKE LONG SHE WILL SOON BE BAD.

5. IF GUYS SEEK HER ATTENTION AND SHE GIVES THEM WITHOUT RESERVATION.

6. IF SHE ALWAYS TELLS YOU NOTHING IS HAPPENING BUT SHE KEEPS RECEIVING CALLS FROM THEM.

7. WHEN YOU ASK HER THE REASON WHY SHE LOVES YOU AND SHE CAN’T TELL YOU UP TO THREE WITHOUT THINKING FOR LONG.

8. SHE CAN STILL LOVE YOU AND STILL PLAY GAMES.

9. SHE MIGHT NOT HAVE NEEDS AND STILL DOUBLE DATE.

10. ITS NOT A QUESTION OF MONEY, MONEY IS IMPORTANT BUT IT IS NOT COMPULSORY BECAUSE IT WILL COME.SO IF SHE CAN’T WAIT WITH YOU TILL YOU GET IT, SHE MIGHT NOT STAY EVEN WHEN YOU HAVE IT. SO MONEY IS NOT A REASON.

11. THIS IS STRANGE BUT IT IS TRUE, ANYWAY NOT IN ALL CASES, IF YOU ARE HAVING intimacy OUTSIDE MARRIAGE. AND IF SHE SEES NOTHING WRONG IN IT.

12. THERE ARE GOOD GIRLS YOU ONLY NEED TO BE AT THE RIGHT PLACE TO FIND THEM.

13.IF SHE COMPARES YOU WITH OTHERS.

14.IF NOTHING CHANGES WHEN YOU TRAVEL AWAY FOR LONG.
15. WHEN SHE BEGINS TO RECEIVE SECRET CALLS,

SO WATCH IT. ASK HER QUESTIONS. THE SAME GOES FOR GUYS BUT CAN EASILY BE DETECTED UNLIKE GIRLS.

THERE IS ONLY ONE REMEDY TO GET HER BACK IF YOU STILL LOVE HER

THE REMEDY IS THIS; YOU MUST REDUCE DELIBERATELY THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR HER, REDUCE YOUR COMMITMENT. ITS HARD BUT TRY AND STOP SHOWING HER LOVE. LET HER GO BUT DON’T BREAK UP.JUST STOP LOVING HER THE WAY YOU USE TO AND SHE MIGHT JUST CHANGE. BUT IF SHE DOES NOT LET HER GO.NOT EVEN PRAYER WILL CHANGE HER,SHE NEEDS TO BE WILLING FIRST BEFORE PRAYER CAN WORK.SEE YOU AT THE TOPMOST TOP IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

i will have to disagree on a few points you made:

1. WHEN SHE BEGINS TO RECEIVE CALLS FREQUENTLY FROM DIFFERENT GUYS AND SHE SEES NOTHING WRONG WITH  IT, WATCH IT! SHE MIGHT BE PLAYING GAMES.

if she had a bunch of male friends before she met you then she will still have them AFTER therefore she will receive a lot  of call from them. if you are insecure and expect her to stop having friends because she is dating you then you better get a grip on life.

3. WHEN SHE BEGINS TO FIND FAULT IN YOU OR WITH YOU. SOME GIRLS ARE VERY, VERY DEEP AND CAN PRETEND, BUT IF YOU USE YOUR HEAD AND NOT YOUR HEART HER PRETENCE WILL NOT LAST LONG.

some men are very good at pretending to be someone else just to get some girls so eventually these girls will know who you truly are and therefore will find the faults in you/with you. do you expect her to not say anything and stick with you? do you think you can find these faults on the first dates?

4. CHECK OUT THE FRIENDS SHE CONSTANTLY MOVE WITH, IF THEY ARE BAD GIRLS IT WONT TAKE LONG SHE WILL SOON BE BAD.

although it can be true, it is not ALWAYS right! some women are strong individuals who do not follow what their friends are doing to the T. maybe they are school friends and she likes them for who they are and NOT what they are doing. if they smoke igbo, doesnt mean that your girl will automatically do so but also doesnt mean that they are automatically "bad friends". . . . . . . .  they are just good friends who smoke igbo.
what these girls do in their private lives is their problems and as long as they dont impose their lifestyles unto your girl then its all good!

5. IF GUYS SEEK HER ATTENTION AND SHE GIVES THEM WITHOUT RESERVATION.

it doesnt mean that she is cheating but it surely means that she is a tease keeping her options wide open and that you aint IT. also some women like male attention, it makes them feel desirable, reminds them that they still got it. . . . . . . and in 9ja, it gets them great gifts from these guys. 
the catch is: what do they do afterwards?

6. IF SHE ALWAYS TELLS YOU NOTHING IS HAPPENING BUT SHE KEEPS RECEIVING CALLS FROM THEM.

if she has gotten juicy gifts from them then its possible that NOTHING has happened thus the reason why these guys keep calling.

7. WHEN YOU ASK HER THE REASON WHY SHE LOVES YOU AND SHE CAN’T TELL YOU UP TO THREE WITHOUT THINKING FOR LONG.

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!, may i ask:"how old are you?"

8. SHE CAN STILL LOVE YOU AND STILL PLAY GAMES.

whats wrong in playing games in relationship as long as you know your boundaries?! games can be good, it keeps men(and women) guessing, willing to discover,on their toes and focused!!!!

9. SHE MIGHT NOT HAVE NEEDS AND STILL DOUBLE DATE.

there is always a "reason" to cheat, might not be right for you but there is a plausible reason to that person.
could be lack of s e x, lack of affection, boredom, weakness, money, marriage compatibility etc etc etc the list is endless

10. ITS NOT A QUESTION OF MONEY, MONEY IS IMPORTANT BUT IT IS NOT COMPULSORY BECAUSE IT WILL COME.SO IF SHE CAN’T WAIT WITH YOU TILL YOU GET IT, SHE MIGHT NOT STAY EVEN WHEN YOU HAVE IT. SO MONEY IS NOT A REASON.

you are a dreamer!!!!!everyone will try to be successful in their lives but not everyone will succeed and become rich/wealthy. money IS compulsory in relationship as the lack of it will make people do stuff they might not be willing to do to pay bills/rent/notes.
also, not all women want to wait and many will tell you that: "LOVE WONT GET ME THE LATEST GUCCI BAG/JIMMY CHOO SHOES".
if you think that love alone can keep a woman by your side then you better wake up because you are definitely dreaming!!!

11. THIS IS STRANGE BUT IT IS TRUE, ANYWAY NOT IN ALL CASES, IF YOU ARE HAVING intimacy OUTSIDE MARRIAGE. AND IF SHE SEES NOTHING WRONG IN IT.

well what do you expect?! YOU are cheating but dont expect HER to do the same?! what kind of selfish world are you living in?!
also she might not see anything wrong with it because she is preparing to murder you in your sleep and take EVERYTHING you got and enjoy her new found single life!!!

12. THERE ARE GOOD GIRLS YOU ONLY NEED TO BE AT THE RIGHT PLACE TO FIND THEM.

good girls can turn bad and bad girls can turn good and the silly thing is that YOU might be the reason why she turns into either.
dont settle for someone and believe that they will stay the way they are all your life!

13.IF SHE COMPARES YOU WITH OTHERS.

there is nothing wrong with comparing people, especially if you do something that is a know failure!
are you that insecure that being compared with someone will make you"believe"that she is cheating?!oh lawd!!!!!
everyone makes comparison/criticism, either at work, at the gym, in the family or in marriage. get used to it(especially if she is right).
and if she compares your bed skills with her last bf then tell her that if he was THAT good, she would still be with him!

14.IF NOTHING CHANGES WHEN YOU TRAVEL AWAY FOR LONG.

you definitely must be very young or truly inexperienced with women.
please enlighten me by letting us know WHAT should change if you travel away for long?!

15. WHEN SHE BEGINS TO RECEIVE SECRET CALLS.

- what about if they are from her family that are arranging your secret birthday party?!
- what about if its from the private detective who is following your cheating a$$ around?
- what about if it is from her lawyer who is explaining to her what will happen during divorce proceedings?

IMHO there is no reason to stick with a cheater, no reason to try to make them change their mind, no reason to beg or give them time. if it doesnt work OR there is no respect/honesty in this marriage then there will never be.
accept your fate and move on with your life hoping to find someone who will have respect for your union.
BTW: if you are a cheater then you both are made for each other and you should live happily ever after.

@MRbrownJAY
youre so wrong~

If your is acting like a thang,yo can always delete her and look for something sweeter

I belief in you last comment, other tips, just common sense will tell you was up.

MRbrownJAY:

i will have to disagree on a few points you made:

if she had a bunch of male friends before she met you then she will still have them AFTER therefore she will receive a lot  of call from them. if you are insecure and expect her to stop having friends because she is dating you then you better get a grip on life.

some men are very good at pretending to be someone else just to get some girls so eventually these girls will know who you truly are and therefore will find the faults in you/with you. do you expect her to not say anything and stick with you? do you think you can find these faults on the first dates?

although it can be true, it is not ALWAYS right! some women are strong individuals who do not follow what their friends are doing to the T. maybe they are school friends and she likes them for who they are and NOT what they are doing. if they smoke igbo, doesnt mean that your girl will automatically do so but also doesnt mean that they are automatically "bad friends". . . . . . . .  they are just good friends who smoke igbo.
what these girls do in their private lives is their problems and as long as they dont impose their lifestyles unto your girl then its all good!

it doesnt mean that she is cheating but it surely means that she is a tease keeping her options wide open and that you aint IT. also some women like male attention, it makes them feel desirable, reminds them that they still got it. . . . . . . and in 9ja, it gets them great gifts from these guys. 
the catch is: what do they do afterwards?

if she has gotten juicy gifts from them then its possible that NOTHING has happened thus the reason why these guys keep calling.

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!, may i ask:"how old are you?"

whats wrong in playing games in relationship as long as you know your boundaries?! games can be good, it keeps men(and women) guessing, willing to discover,on their toes and focused!!!!

there is always a "reason" to cheat, might not be right for you but there is a plausible reason to that person.
could be lack of s e x, lack of affection, boredom, weakness, money, marriage compatibility etc etc etc the list is endless

you are a dreamer!!!!!everyone will try to be successful in their lives but not everyone will succeed and become rich/wealthy. money IS compulsory in relationship as the lack of it will make people do stuff they might not be willing to do to pay bills/rent/notes.
also, not all women want to wait and many will tell you that: "LOVE WONT GET ME THE LATEST GUCCI BAG/JIMMY CHOO SHOES".
if you think that love alone can keep a woman by your side then you better wake up because you are definitely dreaming!!!

well what do you expect?! YOU are cheating but dont expect HER to do the same?! what kind of selfish world are you living in?!
also she might not see anything wrong with it because she is preparing to murder you in your sleep and take EVERYTHING you got and enjoy her new found single life!!!

good girls can turn bad and bad girls can turn good and the silly thing is that YOU might be the reason why she turns into either.
dont settle for someone and believe that they will stay the way they are all your life!

there is nothing wrong with comparing people, especially if you do something that is a know failure!
are you that insecure that being compared with someone will make you"believe"that she is cheating?!oh lawd!!!!!
everyone makes comparison/criticism, either at work, at the gym, in the family or in marriage. get used to it(especially if she is right).
and if she compares your bed skills with her last bf then tell her that if he was THAT good, she would still be with him!

you definitely must be very young or truly inexperienced with women.
please enlighten me by letting us know WHAT should change if you travel away for long?!

- what about if they are from her family that are arranging your secret birthday party?!
- what about if its from the private detective who is following your cheating a$$ around?
- what about if it is from her lawyer who is explaining to her what will happen during divorce proceedings?

IMHO there is no reason to stick with a cheater, no reason to try to make them change their mind, no reason to beg or give them time. if it doesnt work OR there is no respect/honesty in this marriage then there will never be.
accept your fate and move on with your life hoping to find someone who will have respect for your union.
BTW: if you are a cheater then you both are made for each other and you should live happily ever after.

Mr. Critical. . .there's no reason to tear down almost all the points made by the poster (except #2). . .why not make your own fresh post in your own thread? Though everyone may not agree with 100% of his opinions but he makes good sense in most and in life's situations, 100% "correctness" is not what people may be looking for, just ONE point may be enough to get whoever is affected thinking properly. So, Mr. I-too-sabi-pass-everyone, make your own post. . .shikena!

CyberG:

Mr. Critical. . .there's no reason to tear down almost all the points made by the poster (except #2). . .why not make your own fresh post in your own thread? Though everyone may not agree with 100% of his opinions but he makes good sense in most and in life's situations, 100% "correctness" is not what people may be looking for, just ONE point may be enough to get whoever is affected thinking properly. So, Mr. I-too-sabi-pass-everyone, make your own post. . .shikena!

my point was to show the poster that what he wrote might be garbage to some and that he should open his mind instead of thinking like an insecure kid .

so people shouldnt reply to "funny" claims made by posters because you dont want to?
if someone made such a thread then they can only expect others to show them that what HE believes to be right might be wrong in the eyes of others.
should we just take and accept whatever anyone says on NL like he goats?!
if the poster had written "SOME WOMEN" or "MAY CHEAT" in his post then i would have understood but to claim such #%$&*# is just too much.

btw this is a forum where anyone and everyone can put their points on the table ON ANY THREAD, you might not like it but thats the way life is,  take it or leave it.

DO NOT JUDGE SOMEONE UNTIL YOU ARE 150%SURE THAT THEY ARE CHEATING
open and use your bloody mind instead of falling into these garbage MYTHS!!!!!!

Your points are well enuciated mrBROWNjay; and for the poster i agree with some of your points, lets all be open-minded here thats all

190 strolls in**

grabs a seat @ d back
orders for popcorn and coke

starts watching brownJAY do his thang!

Wow, 190 seat @ d back? why can't 190 come to the front so that he can see MRbrownJAY clearly.

Anyway, hope 190 is enjoying d coke and d popcorn alone with d drama ?.

The Poster is 80% correct.
I know what he is talking abt.
Especaily when:
(WHEN SHE TELLS IRRELEVANT LIES AND SWITCHES OFF HER PHONE WITHOUT REASON.)
check it well.

Yeah,homeboi, U r rgt.I gues im xperiencing this,xpecially no 1&no 2.But,wat u advised is wat i had already done.Jst ignore rather than shower love.I gues u r a maestro,poster.

190 still watching the unending drama
But this time his coke has finished
and he has to make do with water!

When she stops asking for airtime(vouchers), then you should be aware that someone else is providing the stuff for her. . . .hahahaha